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Hey 'sup ya'll! My name is Anthony. I enjoy giving people advice. I like to help people with their problems or give them suggestions. You can ask me anything. But please type correctly, (no using internet slang, or abbreviations) because a lot of times questions can be misunderstood even by one word. I will try to answer these questions the best I can. It will help if you inclued AGE, GENDER, and be VERY THOROUGH. I do specialize in topics in Growing up, Relationships, SOME Technology, SOME Religion, Physical Fitness, and Philosophy (if you have anything that you've been wondering or thinking about and you want to tell someone, tell me!)
Basically, I am the male, black/asian, rap fan, non-punk, -emo,or -gothic version of twistedsister17. So you can ask us both for different opinions.
Also, any answer I give, please note that these are merely SUGGESTIONS. You do not have to take my advice. And once again, I will try to answer the best I can.
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I have such a variety of friends. I have popular girl friends, nerd friends, weird friends, popular boys, and loser boys, and some ghetto people (sorry bout the name but what else can I say). I know it's good to have a variety, but sometimes I feel weird around my nerdy/weird friends. They are the only ones in my classes so I feel as if I'm being viewed as one. I absolutely don't care what people think of me, but sometimes I want to,you know, hang out with people in my own boat. I don't know what to do! I'm never mean to people and this is why I end up with such a variety! I can't turn people down! What can I do to feel better about this???
Hey I'm the same way. And this is how I deal with it.... I don't think about it. Simple as that. Its good to have a large variety of friends. Just stay the way you are. You'll never know, one of you're geek friends could be the next Bill Gates or one of you're ghetto friends could be the next Nelly. So, just don't think so much about this.
ok last night my bestfriend made me feel like shit. she wwas talking to me about my boyfriend and how she doesnt like him and who last time she went to the mall by him that I ditched her for him which isnt true at all she ditched me nobody told her to leave and me and my boyfriend didnt do anything she left on her own and now she said she wont take me to the mall over there to meet up with him because she doesntlike him (because he black) and because of what happened last time/ i dont know what to do. she is the only person that my momm trust to let me go to the mall with (makin sure an adult is wit us) my mom wont let em go with any of my other friends because she doesnt trust them but she also wont give them a chance to get to know them.. i love my boyfirned sooo much and the thought of not being able to ssee him just keeps hurting me more and more when i think about it.. can someone please help me out on what i should do?? and i dont know about letting him come over to meet my parents because my parents hate the idea that i like black guys...
Aww! Come on! You have so many people that don't like your boyfriend because he his BLACK! This isn't right. You shouln't abandon family and friends, but don't ever let their influence interfere with true love. Are you sure that they don't like him because he's black? I'm black too and it really hurts that people won't give you a chance because of skin color. I suggest that you have your boyfriend meet your parents, even though they don't like you dating black people. You have to show them that the color of the skin isn't a factor on personality. As for your friend... Well, if she was your true friend, then she could see how much you care for your boyfriend and will accept him. I really hope I helped. I'm on your side!
hey...
..There's this guy I really like. I'm 14 years old and he's 17. We used to just be " buddies " and he used to talk to me about the girls that he liked but I knew that he would never in a million years talk about me that way. Boy, was I wrong.
..I've liked him for about two years now, and he's finally noticed me now since I " grew up " if you know what I mean. We've been talking about hooking up for a while now, but the problem is is that he's my brother's friend and if my brother found out that I was hooking up with his friend he would kill me and his friend. So... we really don't know what to do. At first we decided to just be friends with benefits lol :) but that didn't work...We just keep on talking about how it would be soooooo great if we were actually bf and gf. I really don't know what to do about this because I don't want to mess up my brother's friendship with the guy and I don't want to lose someone that I like very much. Please help in any way that ya'll can. Thanks.
- Melisa
Oh, dang... This is a tough one. Well first you have to understand that your older brother is... well, an older brother. (I'm one also, and if I see a guy hooking up with my sister... there will be murder...) It seems that older brothers tend to be over protective with their younger sisters. So, I think that it'll be best for you and this guy to be JUST friends. I know that if my friend went out with my sister, I'd have to kick both their asses! Well, good luck!
what do you need to do to get attention from a guy that youve liked for like ever?
im 13/f and i like a 15 yr old guy
thankz
Well, it may be hard. You may be too young for this guy. You could just be friends with him. You never know. It might develop into something more... Hope I helped!
I have a question for guys out there, are you attracted to a slim girls with large hips? haha I was just wondering cause not that i'm getting older I notice I'm starting to get larger hips and all my girlfriends are jealous of me..and i'm like y, i would do anything to get ride of them. Thank-you
Hmm... It really does depends on the guy, but most guys like girls who are cute in the face and thick in the waist. (Haha!) If your waist is anything like the girls in rap videos, guys will be all over you. That's what I like! In my opinion, those curves is something you want to keep.
There's this guy named Justin. He is on my sport team. I see him every Monday and Wednesday. I really like him, but i'm not sure if he likes me..
How can you tell if a guy who is really shy, likes you?
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Well, I'm shy. If there is a girl I like, when they talk to me, I can't think of anything to say. Ususally, I'll stutter, and not talk much. Just try to start a conversation where you both have something in common. That should get him to open up. Good luck!
going to a high school almost all my friends hav done stuff that r not "prent approved" i lov my friends to death but will alot of people classify me as a "bad" person for hanging out with them??
hope i dont sound dumb
You don't sound dumb at all. Well, Think of it this way, people are going to judge you no matter what. The only thing you can do is deal with it. If they ask you if you have done this or whatever, just tell them the truth. They might be in doubt, but don't worry about it.