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..boy situation..plz help!!..
hey...
..There's this guy I really like. I'm 14 years old and he's 17. We used to just be " buddies " and he used to talk to me about the girls that he liked but I knew that he would never in a million years talk about me that way. Boy, was I wrong.
..I've liked him for about two years now, and he's finally noticed me now since I " grew up " if you know what I mean. We've been talking about hooking up for a while now, but the problem is is that he's my brother's friend and if my brother found out that I was hooking up with his friend he would kill me and his friend. So... we really don't know what to do. At first we decided to just be friends with benefits lol :) but that didn't work...We just keep on talking about how it would be soooooo great if we were actually bf and gf. I really don't know what to do about this because I don't want to mess up my brother's friendship with the guy and I don't want to lose someone that I like very much. Please help in any way that ya'll can. Thanks.
- Melisa
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Both of you need to get together and talk to your brother about it. Tell him that you guys really like each other and you want to give the 'us' thing a try. If your brother disagrees, then I guess it's really HIS loss, right? I mean, he's in no position to run other people's lives. So I say talk to him first, but either way, go for it.
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Oh, dang... This is a tough one. Well first you have to understand that your older brother is... well, an older brother. (I'm one also, and if I see a guy hooking up with my sister... there will be murder...) It seems that older brothers tend to be over protective with their younger sisters. So, I think that it'll be best for you and this guy to be JUST friends. I know that if my friend went out with my sister, I'd have to kick both their asses! Well, good luck!
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Tell your brother that you are growing up and that he's going to have to accept the fact that he can't beat every guy away with a stick...maybe a fist... that walks by you one day and says, gosh that girl is hot I want to get with her. If need be, tell him to get a life and that to get used to it. You deserve to be with this guy now that you've waited that long and now he wants you. You deserve to have him and tell your brother this. This is your life not his. Are you really...really...going to let your brother dictate to you when it comes to who you go out with or who you won't go out with. Come on . Get real and tell him to get real too.
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ive been there done that!! just get him to talk to your brother and get him to tell your brother how you guys really feel and if he doesn't like it then do it anyway don't miss out on something good your brother will get over it mine did! and he is your brother he will be there your whole life this guy might be one in a million don't miss out!
hope i helped
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hey umm well all an say is just try to forget about him and o for boyus ur own age..?
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Dear Melisa,
Well keep being friends with this guy if you really like him but just tell your brother that you think he's cute but you don't gotta tell him everything. Sneaking around won't help you'll just get caught sooner or later. If you guys really like each other why not double date with your bro and one of his girl friends. Good Luck.
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