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i am confuessed
ok last night my bestfriend made me feel like shit. she wwas talking to me about my boyfriend and how she doesnt like him and who last time she went to the mall by him that I ditched her for him which isnt true at all she ditched me nobody told her to leave and me and my boyfriend didnt do anything she left on her own and now she said she wont take me to the mall over there to meet up with him because she doesntlike him (because he black) and because of what happened last time/ i dont know what to do. she is the only person that my momm trust to let me go to the mall with (makin sure an adult is wit us) my mom wont let em go with any of my other friends because she doesnt trust them but she also wont give them a chance to get to know them.. i love my boyfirned sooo much and the thought of not being able to ssee him just keeps hurting me more and more when i think about it.. can someone please help me out on what i should do?? and i dont know about letting him come over to meet my parents because my parents hate the idea that i like black guys...
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It sounds to me like your best friend is a little jealous of your bf; not that she loves you or anything like that but that you spend sooo much time with him. I think your best friend misses you. Heck. She may even be selfish haha "All your free time is MINE!"
BooDog
Abilene, TX
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Ooh... make your parents listen to Michael Jackson's "Black or White" and they'll realize that racial differences don't matter, unless your name happens to be Albert J. Peterson from New York who thinks that Spanish is a religion. But, enough of that. You should talk with your parents. Ask them why they're so deadset against blacks. Bring him over to your house one day, they'll probably see that he's a really nice guy! Good luck, hope I helped!
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Aww! Come on! You have so many people that don't like your boyfriend because he his BLACK! This isn't right. You shouln't abandon family and friends, but don't ever let their influence interfere with true love. Are you sure that they don't like him because he's black? I'm black too and it really hurts that people won't give you a chance because of skin color. I suggest that you have your boyfriend meet your parents, even though they don't like you dating black people. You have to show them that the color of the skin isn't a factor on personality. As for your friend... Well, if she was your true friend, then she could see how much you care for your boyfriend and will accept him. I really hope I helped. I'm on your side!
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