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why does god hate me?

God does not hate you He loves you sooooo much.dont ever say that.God sent His Son 2 die for you so that you could go to heaven!

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Every time I go to my friend she always jokes with me saying that "Oh here comes lil miss christian girl" and "Oh great your going to preach to us are'nt you." I know she is just playing but I wish I could witness to her without being made fun of.

you can talk to God,and you can tell her how you feel when she says that.I've done that before and my friend understood and it didn't happen nemore!so give it a shot!and make sure you pray about it!!

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My cousin lives far away and I get to see her like maybe two months a year well the last time I saw her she said that she has done to many things for God to love her and so she has became an atheist. I don't know what to do except pray but I feel like I need to do more for her. Every time I ask a question on this website no one gives me good answers that I can relate to so please don't let me down!

Well you can tell your cousin that God loves her more than she could know.She needs to have Him in her life or she will go to hell.and its the truth.And what does she mean shes done too many things for God?You can never do too many things for God!look at what He did 4 us!He sent His only Son to die for us so that we could go to heaven!

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I have been an athiest for about four years, and I have begun to feel lacking in that area. I looked up many differnt religions, and took trusted belief tests to see what would best fit with what I really want and believe. The tests all pointed to Pagan. I have looked up on it, and it just seems to fit. I feel so happy, even just going through a normal day is better now that I have found it. However, I do not think my parents (catholic and athiest) will accept it. Anyone who has had a similar "coming out" (be it of religion or sexual orientation) care to help me form a plan, so they might see my view?

Blessed Be

well i can tell you now,that a test will not tell you what religion u should be.u claim ur athiest,so therefore if there is no God,how did we get here,and wat is our purpose?oh,and what will happen when we die?

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I dont believe in God, or Satan, or heaven and hell. I think its just a story told to us to try and make us act like better people. Please comment.

well im sorry you mite not like hearing this but,God,heaven,satan,and hell are very real.seriously,like what are we here for then?whats gonna happen wen you die?

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this is gonna sound really bad...please no body be offinded...but i fell in love w/ this black guy and we dated for 6 months then i moved in w/ my aunt and uncle and they wont let me date him.i think its the most stupid thing ive ever heard in my whole damn life. what should i do.

talk to them,try to get them to notbe prejuduce and tell them how much you really love him and that it has nuthiung to do with skin color!

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i rele didnt no what to call this
last school year i was rele flat if u no what i mean and now im not but im not fake how do i get people to realize that? because all the guys think i stuff what am i suppose to do take off my clothes and prove it?

noooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooo no no no,who cares what they think IGNORE THEM!!

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So what do you all eat when you are fasting? I am having a difficult time cutting out meat and cheese. I can manage to do without the meat, but I didn't realize how much cheese and yogurt played into my life. Any tips?

u either eat nuthing but water or...idn i thought fasting was all pray and no eat!

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I just recently moved out of my house and into my uncles house and he is a hardcore Christian man and believes that anything not christian is "of the devil", I myself am a follower of the old pagan type religions and he kind of found out and alwayz makes little jabs at me for not believing in god and tells me im going to hell and i dont know how to deal with it..if i tell him that i dont believe in god, he might kick me out of his house....what should i do...pretend not to believe what i do or tell him to stop?

so you dont believe in God?

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if a guy sees this question he will know wat i mean.

I have a problem. I am a christian kid but im slipping away from the lord because of things i look at. if ya know wat i mean. I cant stop. I try but nothin works. If you can help, please do

talk to God!

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a friend from school died about 3 weeks ago from cancer. now one of my close friends has cancer too. its making me so incredibly frustrated and upset and angry and so worried about my friend all at the same time. i need someone spiritual to please give me a new outlook on all of this, because right now i can't stop praying and questioning why the hell things like this happen.

ok well dont focous on nething else but God.talk 2 Him and he will help you i promise.

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I guess the subject line says it all. I constantly flip-flop between Christianity, Atheism and Buddhism. I like a little of all, and I can't seem to choose one faith. I always change my mind. Is there something wrong with me? Am I flaky? It's just that a faith is an important choice, and I'm afraid to make the wrong one.
I like all three, but I know I have to pick one.
What should I do?

give me ur sn ill totally b able to talk to you about this..my sn is hottpink2010

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In the aftermath of the tsunami, the eternal theological question is again posed: what sort of God permits the slaughter of blameless humanity on such a scale?

On the abundant available evidence does it not seem that, if there is or was a God, it is now malevolent, mad or dead?

No, religious nutters please - this is a serious question I'm posing.

Dr Kesha

omgosh God exists!!God didn't make the tsunami happen, nobody really nos why,at least i dont,but i still trust God and no that He did it 4 a reason,althought i dont no what it is.

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I give up. I dont deserve gods love. I am not worthy enough for it. He gives me a gift and i dont use it. I fail one class, i am a porn addict. I give up i dont deserve god anymore. I dont even deserve to live, i, i really dont care. i am not good enough. I am not as loyal to him as i should be. i dont deserve him at all. im done. Please give advice or a way to end it all

God luvs you soooo so so so much!!dont ever say that He does'nt!!He luvs you more than you could imagine...just tlk 2 Him and He'll get rid of all that bad stuff!!God Luvs You!!!!!

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I don't mean to bash the religion, but I'm sick of it. I live in Utah, so I'm surrounded by it. And everyone is always bringing up that the religion should be more a part of the school. Well, I don't believe in any of it. Personally, I think their religion was just founded on Joseph Smith trying to steal other men's wives and get away with it. And they have a class here. How do they get away with having a religiously oriented class in a public school, isn't that infringing on the separation of church and state clause? My question is how do I deal with all of this religion when I don't want it, especially since all the guys that I could date are mormon?

well you don't have to be mormon you can be Christian!its a better life,and you'll go to heaven!

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First, let me preface this by saying that this is going to a bit long and that I'm not highly religious. I always believed that if you lived your life morally and right, God or the cosmos or what have you, would reward you in a way. You would be able to affect people's lives by the way that you live.

So I've lived my life well- I don't drink, smoke, do drugs, engage in pre-marital sex, am always kind, and work hard helping others, however, I'm losing my faith that its all meaningful. It seems to me that people in general are becoming too superficial. There is no more great search for knowledge and truth and TRUE beuty. People don't trust people anymore- always thinking the worst ulterior motive, even when there is none. I feel like I'm fighting a dying battle to keep a little bit of innocence and purity. Am I just being naive thinking that if I keep living my life the way I am, will "reward" me in the end? Am I the only one who feels like this? Am I the only one who thinks that we're not progressing but rather giving in to our most carnal urges? I'm losing faith and I know eventually all the people I help will feel it by the way I treat them. Your input would be appreciated.

well i have an answer for you.If you live your life as a "good person" you can't say youre goin to heaven because you won't.You have to have a relationship with God and get saved to go to heaven.Its not hard it just takes you talking to God from your heart.And if you ever get confused talk to God and read the Bible.

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Okay! Im a Catholic. And I have no problem with it. Well, I know that you arnt supposed to cuss and say mean things, exs- raciest things and gossip ect. Well I have an African American Boyfriend- Im White. Anyways these kids on the bus are so mean to me. Like they know that my boyfriend is Black. And like the other day this one kid says "My brother had this dream and he was telling it to my mom. and his mom was like ' well Martin Luther King had a dream and he got shot' " and i was like you guys know that I dont like racist jokes. And like they cuss all the time, and i told them that i dont like it, and then most of the time when i say that i dont like it, theyre like "F*^ F*^ F*^ F*^ F*^ F*^ F*^ F*^ F*^ F*^ F*^ F*^ F*^ F*^ F*^ F*^ F*^ F*^ F*^ F*^ F*^ F*^ F*^ F*^ F*^ " and Its so mean! and like My boyfriend got me all into the Bible and like so now i know how bad lying really is and same with cussing, and like one time i told them a bunch of stuff, about my boyfriend, and then i regreted telling them because they always made fun of me for it. so i told them that i was lying and then i said that i was lying like right after i told them not to lie,so they made fun of me for that too. and and i was like well that was beofre i learned all of this stuff about the Bible. and then they would make fun of me like "IM SAVED" like and say totally sarcastically. Yah- so I know that you're supposed to ignor people like that, but not doing anything about it is just as bad as you doing it yourself. and i dont want voilence.
So any advice? I always rate a 4 or a 5 or nothing!!!

Thanks so Much!!!

*~!KeLs!~*

well i went thru the same thing.im Christian and people used to make fun of me but not anymore because i go to a Christian school.but all you can really do is 1st dont let them see it bothers you,thats what they want.And 2nd,talk to God ask Him to help you!

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I am jewish, people tell me all the time that in their religion there is a trinity of some sort. My question is how can Jesus, The Holy Ghost, and _________ make up G-d? I dont know the third one either.


I'm just a little confused.

~Nokomis~

umm the trinity is Jesus God and the Holy Spirit,and its only bad to say God when u use it as a curse.

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for anyone that goes to church on a regular basis is holiness the same as church of god in christ? I went to a church saying its religion is holiness. my mother doesnt go but my grandma is but she cant really explain it. someone please explain it to me.

well it depends wat do u mean by holiness?

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