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My twin sister and I argue about 40% of the day. I don't like fighting with her, and lately I've been getting so mad at her I get destructive. I used to cut myself- (embarrassing, but true)- and I can't help but think that may be problem- destruction makes me feel better. I'm not sure. Can anyone give me ideas on how to channel my anger differently?
When you feel the need to start cutting instead of cutting your wrists, cut at a block of wood. That way you'll feel better. Listen to music write poems watch tv. Try to ignore your sister. I had the same problem with my brother so eventually I just started ignoring him if he would argue with me for something. It works =c). Hope I helped!
i was just told today that my brother is suffering from depression and im not taking it really well. He is being treated for it but i cant think of life without him. He is my best friend. Are there any ways to get my mind off of his problem?? If there are i really wanna know. tHanks
Go out with your friends, read books, write poems. Anything to keep you busy. You could even clean your room or help around the house. If you're out with people a lot then it'll get your mind off it. Just try not to think of it. If you think about NOT thinking about it, you'll just think about it more. Just keep yourself busy and you should be able to keep your mind off it. Seeing a movie really helps =c). Hope I helped!
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ok, i have a sister wh ohas these really digusting habits and i dont know how to make her stop. heres what she does:
1)picks at her nose(she dont eat it or anything, just picks at it..eew)
2)chews on her hair(and sometimes pulls it out and chews on it.i think one time she actually swallowed it.)
3)bites her fingernails(not just the nail, but the cuticle and skin around the nail..she'l just bite at it, rip it off, chew it and swallow it.its so wrong!!!)
4)picks at scabs so she can "taste the blood"(enough said )
Any ideas on how to make her stop???
Well how old is she? A lot of times if they're young they do that but it'll go away in time. If she ever picks her nose just hand her a tissue and make sure she uses it. Tell her that if she keeps chewing on her hair it'll get all bunched up in her stomach and she can have stomach problems ((It's probably not true but hey if it scares them it might work lol)). If you paint her nails sometimes they won't want the nail polish to be messed up so they won't bite on their nails anymore. You can use that too and say the stomach tihng. And for the scabs you can tell her that if she keeps picking at them it'll leave scars. Hope I helped! =c)
Love, RacheL
this is long but i'll give u the highest rateing just plz answer..ok i lived w/ my grandparents my
whole life untill my grandfather died and so now i'm liven w/ my aunt uncle and cousin.well i had to move in a diff house and go to a diff school where i didnt kno n e one. and this was just a few monthes ago.well my aunt and i have always had a really good relationship till i moved in here but a few things happened and she didnt trust me n e more.i have never had to do and house work in my life till i moved in here.now she exspects me to do chores every day..its really hard for me to do this and her daughter has done then her whole life and my aunt is always sayin how she does her chores and i dont and i feel really left out..u no i dont feel like part of the family.she knos this and that i fell that she treats her daughter better i tell her that all the time.she is always sayin how my cousin gets good grades and is a really good kid...i have no clue wat to say to her that will make her understand how i feel...plz help me..
I think you should ask her if you can start by doing chores only once a week or 3 times a week until you get used to it. Then as you go along you can do more chores. Also, you had to have done something to lose her trust so you can gain it back by working extra hard and always being nice to her and doing what she says. Tell her that you love her but it's really hard for you to adjust to a whole new environment and it might take a little longer. Also, you can say you'll use the time that you're not doing chores to study or do homework and you'll get better grades. You don't have to be everything your cousin is, what you are is perfectly fine! I think you should tell her that you need a little more time to adjust to living there and that you will soon, but it would help a lot if you didn't have to do so many chores at first. Say that going to a different school is always tough and it might take a little bit more time for you to get your grades in line. Nobody is perfect and if you get A's and B's and don't have any problems with her then everything should work out great. Sorry its so long but I hoped I helped! You can leave me one in my inbox if you need anything! =c)
Good Luck!
Love, RacheL
I dont get along with my brother. He never listens to me. What do I do?
Try to talk to him and ask him nicely to listen to you. If he's being annoying ignore him. He will stop eventually. He just probably hasn't matured yet. In a few months or a year or 2 he'll be over it.
Love, RacheL