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my mom is constantly telling me tha ti am fat... i never thought that i was before but now that my mom keeps saying it i am begininng to think that i am.. i dont want to loose weight becasue i am happy wiht the way i look but my mom doesnt get that. i am 5 foot 3 and 195 pounds but i knwo i dont look it because i do have alot of leg adn arm muscle. i dont knwo if i shoudl tell my mom to stop or jsut loose the weight to amek her happy even thought it wont matter to me... please help (link)
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Gurl if your happy the way you look than dont try to make anyone else happy not even your mom,.. ur mom should except you the way you are,. just sit down and talk to her and tell her how you feel bout this,.. My mom once called me fata ss and it really hurt my feelings than i talked to her bout it and shes never gonna say ne thing like that again!! It sounds like ur not fat at all!! and your mom needs to understand that! ,..i hope it works out x0x rate me! =)
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ok here's the thing i hav this rlly gourgeous sister and everyone tells me omg ur sister's so hot ....... u dont looko like her. i am constantly comparing myself to her like weight and clothes and sports.she is super skinny im not saying im fat or anything cuz im not
but still she can get any guy she wants i can it always seems that she's better than me. (link)
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Gurl,. y0u need to be y0u,. maybe y0u can be even prettier than her,. Just be yourself- maybe change your style around or whatever. DOnt compare yourself to your sis,. than it will give her the idea that she is better than you,. which anit tru,. maybe she has a flirty attiude with boys ,.. n thats why they like her soo much.. =) good luck!! ratE me.!
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My Mom doesn't like when i watch like MTV cuz she sez there is always junk on. like and she wants me to lead such a sheltered life. Like she thinks i don't know anything about like sex and drugs and stuff. i'm 12 wut should i do? (link)
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omg,. i watch mtv all the time,.. And theres nothing about sex n drugs... well cept for the condom commercials,. lol* Tell your mom thats your growing up and your tried of other boring shows, maybe she will understand? .. I had this friend that her parents did the same thing.. well actually blocked mtv,. thats so stupid* She probably thinks that u will get ideas or sumtin,. who lives without music?!
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My mom always has me wearing what she thinks is cute. I told her I want to change to like a punk style but she wont let me. I want to be comfortable in what I wear but I cant get her to except my style!!! How should I explain this to her again??? (link)
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I think your mom should respect what you want to wear,. I mean shes still in that baby stage where she picks out what you want to wear . lol. maybe she thinks the wrong idea when you say "punk". She tell her that your not going to turn into one of those gothic freaks,. Or i would just go out with my friends to a mall,. and buy my own cholthes and than she cant do anything about it,. lol =)
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ok well my grandpops has cancer and he has like 1 yr to live. well hes all into church and that stuff and he always asks me to go with him. well i havnt gone to church since i was like 10 and the only reason i went is bc i liked this guy. well idk how to tell him i dont want to go. cuz im just not a church person like i believe in *A* god but the whole worshiping thing is totally off the wall for me??? wut can i do
-non religious girl (link)
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I'm really sorry to hear that.. I dont like church either.. Its so boring and no one goes to my church but after my Grandpa died i started to go. I think you should go with him at least once,. he only has a year. n i think he would do that for you, spend as much time with him as you can i think it would make him happy. And you dont have to worship in church,. you can just stand there,. =) lol! Try to have fun and meet new friends,. I mean sunday school is a lil better than church - h0pe it works =o
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ok well im very upset at my father for sumthing that he does. so my boyfriend is a really big guy and i dont mind at all and my dad likes him and all but my dad always calls him shrek when my bf is not around. i always get mad at my dad for sayin that bc i like my bf alot and he cant help if hes a big guy. i mean my dad isnt that skinny either so i dont think he should be sayin nething. but its like everywhere we go my dad finds sumthing shrek and says "hey we should get this for shrek" and it really hurts me. how can i make my dad stop before he slips up and says sumthing in front of my bf? (link)
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Maybe you should sit down and talk to your dad,. Say that your being seroius and it really hurts your feelings,. and it would probably hurt your boyfriend if he ever found out. Thats a surprise that hes your dad making fun of your big guy! hope it works
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I am the middle child in my family and sometimes I think I don't belong with my siblings. Don't get me wrong I love them to death but... I am 13 a typical girl teenager. I like make-up, boys, fashion. But my brother does not respect any of my private life or social life. I am always baby-sitting for my little sister while my mom and dad are working and while my brother is out with his friends 24/7. It's not like I do it for my health i'm doing it for the $$$ but I need to get out too and especially since its summer. I am always fighting with my older brother and when ever I am on the phone with my boyfriend my brother always makes some rude remarks like "hey is this your tampon" or something like that something gross. I TOTALLY respect his private life and social life. My brother goes through my stuff, looks at my txt messagees on my cell phone to all my friends and my boyfriend and he goes on my screen name and talks to my friends pretending to be me. I have told him so many times that I need some space and he doesnt care. He gives smart remarks to me and I can't handle it. I've told my parents they yell at him yet when we're around my parents together he acts so perfect and he is older then me... how pathetic... but seriously I NEED HELP!!! PLEASE HELP ME!!! GIVE ME SOME ADVICE!!!!!!!!
Signed,
Brother Hater (link)
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Omg the same Thing Happened to me,.. Like When My Brother Answered the phone n it was my friend,. he would go Hey LInds its your Lesbian,. *kissy kissy* ,. oh god and when he dropped me off at skewl,. he and his friends would scream out the window,. Dont kiss any boys in the bathroom,. OMg? like I ever did that.. He was Just trying to impress HIs gUys. But yea I think that hes Just trying to make you mad,. u sound like a busy person babysittin and stuff while everyone else goes n has fun.. I think u should tell your parents that he should baby sit a day so you can go out with your friends or sumtin. Hes just immature,. try to change your password on AOL.,or sont save it so he cant get on. n Sometimes theres a lock on cell phones - Just give it time and maybe he will growww upp!!
haha Good Luck with y0uR boyFriend*
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