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HEY GUYS. I figure i know a lot about advice. I have been threw a lot from family violence and growing up in environments with a lot of stress and stuff to relationships and sex questions. i have had my best friends move away, feel the pain of a lost love one, feel the hurt of loving some one so much it kills, and many different levels of love, pain, sorrow, and CONFUSION! so just ask away ill try to helps ya out ;D later

Hey so Its been a while since I have been on here just wanted to update a little.
I have had a few more life experiences. I have a best friend new to my life as of a few years ago now and she is amazing. I couldn't ask for some one better.I lost my first love from stupid choices i made and now am trying things a little differently i won't do the same stupid stuff as before. Hit me up ID LOVE TO HELP!!
Oh and I started college :)

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ok like i have a huge probnlem. ok next week i have a vacation with my family and likemy frined invited me to go on vacation with her. my family doesnt want me coming with them on vacation but theywont let me go on vacation with my friend. i really wanna go on vacation with my friend but my parents are being retarded. they always make me feel like crap and they are only takin me on v acation with them because they have to. but tehn they dont want me to have fun ugggh!! i have no idea what to do!!!

just tell them like if yall go on vacation yall can be alown and have lots more fun not worring about me and yall can do what ever you want with out haveing to leave me behind or drag me along when its soem were only for yall and i can be with my friend so yall don't have to worrie about me be alown . hope it helps
Andie

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Sorry if this is to long for you, i just need some help. My mom has been having problems with her health lately, and she has not been doing very well. She went to the doctors about 5 days ago and she found out that she might have cancer but they are still checking, the thing is she won't know until monday or later and i don't think i can wait that long. They think she might have cancer because she has blood in her urine. It is not visible blood but they do know that it is in there. They have checked her for other things such as urinary track infection and they do not believe it is that, and i am really worried. The doctor says she is extremely scared that it is cancer. I live with my mom, i dont know what i would do with out her. If you have any info about what type of cancer this maybe if it is cancer please let me know, and i know this may sound incredibially cheesy but if you could pray for my mom that would be a huge help to. It seems like everything in her life for her has been messing up lately, and i just want things for her to be better. I would appreciate it, if you did not send me back things calling me stupid because i am doing this, i'm just a worried daughter afraid of loosing basicially her everything. Thank you so much, i rate 5's for anyone who even attempts to help.

OMG i am soooooo sorry i know what your going threw my close close ant died 2 years ago from cancer. WOMEN ARE FITTERS they don't give up. so i bet you mom will be fitting what ever she has. i will keep her in my prars. also i resently lost my grandfather (my ants dad/ my dads dad) he did of a strock but i still know what that streas and scared feeling is like i wish her luck on getting back to helth.

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when i was born i lived with my grandparents becasue my mom had a bad life. she sold drugs and lived in alot of places wich we not suitable for kids. and so when i was 2 my mom came to my house drunk and kidnapped me. my grandma didnt try to get me beacue my mom was way stronger then her and so she just let me go. * i dont live with my dad becasue when i was born i was a mistiake and my dad is a player* so my mom went to jail and some lady returnded me when my mom was gone *but now me and my mom are okay* . and so when i was 4 it was the FIRST time i ever saw my dad but i couldnt really see him becasue it was like 10 o clock at night and he didnt want to come inside. and after that visit from when i was 4 i counted the days weeks months hours years miutes and seconds from the last time i saw my father. and finally i saw my dad again when i was 10 and he expected me to act like nothing happened and he was like all can i have a hug blah blah blah and my grandpa told him that if he wanted to come that day he just cant leave me again and yes he did.. he didnt come back and i didnt hear from him or anything and im 13 and i havent heard from him in 3 years but its not like i want to or anything. i just have mixed emotions. and im the "tough" one at my school because i dont open up or talk about my feelings. well at night i dream about me and my sister haveing this "Perfect" family with my mom and my dad but then something happends to me and my dream shows a picture of my dad getting killed and my mom dying ( my sister has a different dad and i have like 3 other sisters that have different moms and i dont even know them) but after my dream i wake up with tears in my eyes and me all sweaty. but heres the thing.. i want my life to be good. but i dont want anything to do with my dad and my dad is gonna try and talk to me over the summer and my other grandmaw too but i just dont want to be a part of them. my questions are.. how can i tell them i dont want anything to do with them. and what do i do about these dreams, and how can i open up and talk about my feelings

sorry its long but ill rate 5's to any good answer

ok i am 13 to and like that is amasing that you have been through so much and have been so strong. ok the deams they are you said you dad was a pimp that is why in your dream you have lik e3 sisters with dif moms. and you other sis like maby that is like a fear of yours. your dad and mom dieing is another fear . see i think you wish you could have gotten to know them right and like since you didn't they are like never there and not a part of your life so to you in oyour mind they are dead . not apart of you but they are. the deams are just like what u really think, or want to do or wish , or hope, or fear. we learned about this allittle in school . and you can tell you father you don't care about him but before you think about it reallly hard . do you really not ever want a father that might be there even if he was not there before. i hate my dad. but even though i hate him i love that i have a dad i guess like I hate him alot but i still love him cus he is my dad. and i give long answers to sometimes sry. the way to open up and talk to some is to find a friend that you real;ly trust like i have a secret about my mom and i will take it to my grave probably and i have 2 or 3 good friend i really trust and i tell them ALMOST every tyhing. you just have to trust a good person . some on who does not talk to people about other peoples fealings and stuff alot and go for it.i hope i answered you questions.
good luck
Andie

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