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If there is a fight between ur younger sister and her friends, should i help them by trying to fight with younger kids,or do i try and talk to them one by one in a place where no one can her u. Can u help me decide?

heyy, this is a hard one, whatever you do dont beat them up lol. I say that you tell your sister that if her friends do treat her like crap, and you can see it than to get new friends. But if its just a little fight then try talking to them. But making it so that it dosent look like your sister just cried to you for help, Tell them you dont like see people treat your sister like that and she dosent deserve it and to just grow up. I always just tell my sister to get new friends because she needs new ones but i dont know how it is in your sisters case. Try talking to them one by one and tell them that your sister is hurt by how they are treating her! alrighty, i hope i helped
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My friend has has some things happen to her this year, and she cut herself afew days ago! She is the nicest person I have ever met in my entire life and I'm not even exaderating. What should I do?

hey, I think you should talk to her, first figure out why she does it and ask her why, if its to relieve herself from other things that are bothering her or is she trying to do something to herself. If she is trying to do something to herself ask why and what in life could be so bad that you would want to do something like that to yourself. Having scars like that isnt pretty, trust me. Its hard watching a friend hurt themself and feeling like your helpless and cant do anything about it. Try talking to her and tell her how you feel and that she is such a great person and that when you see that it makes you feel like crap because somebody so wonderful and awesome like her is doing that. Its hard, but try getting her to talk to you or somebody else!
alrighty, i hope i helped!
peace and love unity

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14/m my parents are always talkin about how bad life used to be for them. They keep telling me how they used to get beaten for everything they did wrong. I know i'm not perfect and i deserve punishment sometimes, but this is torture! I made it known that im not interested in hearing these depressing stories and its like they don't hear me because they keep telling the stories. and its not even like they change it up, cuz they don't. I just got in trouble for saying i didn't want to hear it again about 2 hrs ago. How can i let them know that i don't want to hear the stories anymore? What should i do? plz help. thx

hey man, tell them that it sucks what they went through and you are glad they treat you with respect but it makes you upset to think about how bad they had it and how much if must of sucked for them. and maybe they will get off your back a little bit and ease up on the story telling..if not get a portable cd player and wear it around the house jk, no but talk to them about it but dont be rude when you say it. alrighty!
good luck dude!
love unity!

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I am 14/f and my cousin who is 12/f will not leave me alone...i see her everyday and she calls me like 5 seconds after i see her on my cell phone and she wont shut up...she wont leave me alone on the internet and she keeps talking to me and my friends....it bugs the hell out of me.... and she copies everything i do and everything i wear....when i told her that she has to let me have some space she started crying and told her mom that i told her i hated her...which i never said. Her mom came over and told me that i had to be nice to her because she had no friends. What should i do to keep her from annoying me with out making her cry and making me look like a bad person?

Heyy, thats kinda cool that your cousin looks up to you, but i know that it can get annoying, introduce her to some 12 years that you know, or if theres a school function at her school then go to it and ask her about her friends there and have her hold a convosation with them or since she looks up to her talk her into playing a sport at school and add in that it is the new cool thing to do and your going to try out for the same sport at your school, it might get her interested and help her make friends and keep her busy! alrighty i hope i helped!
love unity

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13/f i have just moved in my 8th grade year which is still hard for me to get over but my parents rly don't seem to get it that i'm miserable in my new town. my grandmother lives in my old town and offered for me to live with her. and it sounds rly good sometimes my parents and i disagree alot and i know most teenagers do but they still treat me like i'm 5 and its hell forme to live with them. i don't know what i should do. all my true friends are in my old town and i'm there every weekend. if you think i should live with my grandma please tell me what to say to my parental units! please help i have been lingering this for a long time and i have def given my new town a chance i've been here for 5 months

Hey girl, talk to your grandmother about it, tell her you feel miserable and ask her if she can talk to your parents. Going to a new school and being miserable sucks, make your parents a deal that if you go there for one more month and dont like than you can move with your grandparents and see what they say! keep your head up girl and talk to your grandmother!
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ok im not really excited about christmas and i dont know why? i mean i feel like something is missing in my life or is it that im just getting older but i dont think that is true bc i like christmas and all but it just seems like it doesnt matta anymore.

Hey, i felt the same way, and im not to sure but i think its the spirit of christmas, like when you were younger you would go to sleep thinking there was a santa clause that was going to come to your house but now you go to sleep thinking alright im going to wake up the next morning and its going to be like my birthday. there is no magic to it anymore and you just kind of grow out of it, it sucks, but watch christmas movies and make cookies and it might make you feel a little better about christmas and bring some of the your christmas spirit back! aight
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Why do I get in trouble for the simpleist things, honestly I think my parents are out to get or keep in the house forever. I'm like grounded for like 2 months and all that's keeping me up is karate and ever second I'm being punished, all of the times I'm trying to be nice to them and seriously that's all I am doing. I'm 14 and I can't move out so I have no other choice. I'm seriously thinking of getting tape and taping my mouth shut. I get good grades and things but my parents just think sometimes that I'm like a bad daughter, that's the impression I get from them. Help me... =(

Hey, my idea is that maybe you and your parents should go to a counsler, or talk to your guidence counsler at school about how you feel, they can make your parents understand, i went to a counsler with my mom and now we're pretty close, i tell her pretty much everything and feel pretty good about my reletionship with her. Talk to somebody it should help both you and your parents out and help you to deal with them!
alrighty!

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I lost my cuzin and i tell my friends itz ok i hav to get over it i really don't get over cuz i rele miss her and i love her. Shuld i keep tellin my friends this?
Signed
Lost Cuzin

hey,im sorry for your but no you shouldnt keep it in,losing someone is so hard and if you have a close friend you should talk to him/her. you will feel pretty relieved. its not good to keep it in because it will hurt you even more, and thinking about it will make you feel even worse. Losing someone is something you cant get over, yo just have to grieve with it, but it is okay to grieve. And just think, your cousin is probably up in heaven watching over you. So she will always be there. If you need to talk you may respond back on my site, alrighty!

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