Question Posted Wednesday December 1 2004, 1:04 pm
If there is a fight between ur younger sister and her friends, should i help them by trying to fight with younger kids,or do i try and talk to them one by one in a place where no one can her u. Can u help me decide?
Vanilla13ean420 answered Wednesday December 1 2004, 3:08 pm: heyy, this is a hard one, whatever you do dont beat them up lol. I say that you tell your sister that if her friends do treat her like crap, and you can see it than to get new friends. But if its just a little fight then try talking to them. But making it so that it dosent look like your sister just cried to you for help, Tell them you dont like see people treat your sister like that and she dosent deserve it and to just grow up. I always just tell my sister to get new friends because she needs new ones but i dont know how it is in your sisters case. Try talking to them one by one and tell them that your sister is hurt by how they are treating her! alrighty, i hope i helped
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XoCaLLiE answered Wednesday December 1 2004, 2:51 pm: i wouldn't get involed personally. talk to your little sister, tell her that she should try to talk it out w/ her friends, and that fighting isn't gonna help anything. but, if things get serious and her friends want to start fighting physically then i'd get involed. talk to all of them and help them find out what the problem was and how to fix it. hOpeD i HeLpeD --*C*-- [ XoCaLLiE's advice column | Ask XoCaLLiE A Question ]
xoxhayley answered Wednesday December 1 2004, 1:43 pm: I would talk to them one at a time. That way its private and you get there attention. You can also say things to them that would be best if only They heard so no1's feelings could get hurt, and they'll listen better! [ xoxhayley's advice column | Ask xoxhayley A Question ]
sunshine1030 answered Wednesday December 1 2004, 1:42 pm: definitely don't try to fight with the younger kids. if the problem is between your younger sister and her friends, you should let her try and work it out on her own. if she asks you for your help, then definitely talk to them one by one, and figure out whey each of them is mad at each other, and how they can fix it. [ sunshine1030's advice column | Ask sunshine1030 A Question ]
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