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ok um 15 yr old girl been giving advice for about 2 years but just found this site last year. hint I'm not good with does he like me probs.
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Okay so, my friend wants me to ask y'all this..
She said that she used to smoke and then she stopped and before, she used to inhale the smoke and now she started smoking again (she's an idiot because she started again to impress a guy) she can't inhale without choking.
She asked me what she should do but I don't smoke so I wouldn't know .. LOL.
So yeah, what should she do?
Apart from stop smoking, which is what I said :P
you should really have her go to a rehab and By the way no guy is worth destroying your lungs and you can use your friend to help you stop smoking you can either go cold turkey or stop slowly but you should deffinatly go to a doctor or a rehab center they will help you.
What are stretch marks? How can you get rid of them?
stretch marks are little red marks that go wear your growning and they have to go away by themselves it's just your skin stretching it's nothing to be ashamed of.
change that... how do you treat 3rd degree burns while on fire? time is of the essance
ok first Put the fire out if it's a greese fire baking soda if it's a normal fire use water n then put ice do NOT scrub n then go see a doc asap for more details.
and wat do i still need to learn about your histoy
ok u know I'm not gonna answer that on here :-p
so y r u goth all the time??
ok if ppl haven't noticed I haven't worn that stuff in months the black sweater is not for goithic purposes n I have stopped wearing that too. As for why I was gothic that's somthing only the closest to me know.
Why is giving others mean advice actually considered ***FUN***, yes, it's not a typo, some people considers it fun. However sick and disgusting that is, I would like to know why?
Because some people are immature and have more fun being mean all we can do is ignore them.
i've been really fed up with everyone -- for no reason at all. i can barely stand one of my best friends and i have the urge to scream at my family all the time for the smallest things. i'm not a bxtch or anything, and i'm not pmsing. i've also felt really anxious lately. and i have gotten two white hairs in the past few months, and i'm just a teenager. does anyone know what the frick is going on? thanks.
Well actually you could be pmsing as a teen somtimes they come unexpectedly. Mabey your just trying to become indepentdant. try keeping a dairy/journal and meditiating it seems to help me.
I know this is probably the wrong forum, but hey i'll ask my question anyway.
Like millions of other people, i suffer from severe depression. I've tried Zoloft which had a NASTY effect and do not wish to try it again.
Can anyone recommend a good anti-depressant, one that will actually work without the side effects?
I know most of you will reply by saying that i should visit a Doctor. But hey, i don't trust them because they don't know what they're talking about anyway.
actually doctors do know what they're doing but mabey you should try somthing else. When I started going under a huge amount of depression I meditated, now I'm happy a lot more and no side effects well except for the happiness. woth a shot right?
Well, I've always been shopping at American Eagle and Abercrombie and those kind of places, and I HATE IT!!! I hate them all. I don't want to be a prep. I want to shop at Hot Topic, I am so anti-prep it's not even funny. And all these years my parents have made me shop there. Seriously, they will not let me shop at Hot Topic or anything place they consider "goth". I guess you could call us rich, and so I totally hate it. I just want to be what I want to be, which is pretty much "punk" since I'm really into that kind of music and I love black. I've been so pissed about it, but, if I do convince my parents to let me start wearing stuff from Hot Topic, will people call me a Poser because all the sudden I go from Preppy Clothes to Punk?
Please help!
Just so you all know: I HATE preppy clothes. They suck. I think about being home schooled and running away and buying Hot Topic stuff and just sneaking it to school because I hate my clothes so much. So don't think this is just a stupid joke. Thanks.
no you won't be called a poser, but people will ask you why you went from prep to punk or will call u goth or freak or weirdo. You learn to ignore it all and answer their questions as for your parents I just went out and bought. you could try hiding it but still it may not be too smart. Also make sure your friends know about this or you may end up friendless wich isn't fun either
this is all the other advicenators, because since you are all on this site like me, im thinking maybe you guys have had the same problem. obviously, we all like helping people. but what happens when we're the ones who need the help, but we feel we can't ask for it because we're supposed to be the one who has all the solutions. please dont tell me to write my problem on here, because obviously i know that. don't get me wrong...i LOVE giving people advice...but in the real world, have any of u guys ever felt like your not supposed to need any back in return? just a thought...let me know what u think.
yeah it does feel that way sometimes mabey make an account just to ask questions on so you won't feel as bad about it
Okay well i was walken downtown with my 2 friends today and this druggie/badass was down there and he called over this geeky guy called Josh and all of a sudden he starts beating him up! i was so scared i didnt know what to do.. he almost started to cry and before he left he said im callen aaron (the cop in our town) and my friends r like dont tell him we were here. im afraid hes gunna tell the cop and he'll ask me and somehow it'll get back to the badass and he'll beat the shit outta me .. im a gurl btw and he hits girls and stuff and he like knows how to set up bombs n shit cuz he put a bomb in our school one year.. if the cop does ask me shoudl i say i witnessed it?
yes but you can tell the cop you don't want to be called as a witness unless absolutly nessisary if it goes to court
Ok, well I want to make my own website. I got help by this website.(Thanks advicenators!) I have url.Now the problem is HOW DO YOU GET STUFF ON YOUR WEBSITE!!! I don't have a backround or anything. My website is askmeny4u.cjb.net and if you go to it and you see nothing and if you think your computer is fucked,it's not.My website is a blank screen. They may drop me from their url and i'll be back to square one.
ok here some site for back grounds and music http://www.starlightmks.com/main.html
http://www.soup-faerie.com/
and heres one for over all help
http://www.lissaexplains.com/
I've been having these visions in my sleep that it's going to become the end of the world by next Friday. I wake up in a cold sweat and see pink gay bunnys everywhere. Then all the sudden the damn rabbits start making out with my pillow. Then the frisky lil things take out bb guns and start shooting my TV. My house then catches on fire, causing the next house to burn up too (some how, i don't know how, though). ...and so on. Then the whole US is on fire. Our president, bush, thinks we're getting bombed by iraq so we go to another deadly war. Then china launches a gigantic nuclear fusion for the hell of it, and the world blows up.
But some how I manage to survive bc/ i can breathe in outter space. Then, I rule the universe! Muhahahaha
What should I do about these dreadful nightmares?
well seems like you may have a fear of the end of the world or mabey u see that bush is an idiot who could drive us to the end of the world n the bunnies shooting the tv could represent lying media or sumthing like that the fire could represent power n the outter space ting could be some sort of special gift you have
Well here's my situation. My mother was seeing a man for awhile that seemed totally normal, well as time passed he began to become controlling and totally weirded out. He was suppose to be this guy living "the good life" with money ect. ect. Well things started to get weird whenever everytime we were suppose to visit his house the meetings would get "cancelled." After awhile he started to turn my mother against me. He convinced her that I was a hell raising child who needed to be locked up, and I needed help because I was "Ill in the head." All of this was far from the truth. Anyways, to make an extremely long story short, we found out he's not who he says he is, and he has a major criminal record, just got off parole for MURDER. He has an obsession over me (For God only knows what reason) and now the police are after him and he dissapeard before they got the oppurtunity to arrest them. This has brought so much strain on our family. My mom is constantly drinking, and I just can't look at her the same after the things she did to me because this psycho told her to. I was just wondering if anyone had any ideas as to what to do in this situation. I want things to be better in our house-hold after this, but I have no idea where to start to mend it back together. Sorry it's so long, thanks for the help.
Well first off get your mom off the drinks try to help her she'll trust you agian n see he was wrong then may help the police
i am being forced to move from my home in texas, to the cold and mean streets of chicago. my mother got a new job, and she is carting me up there in february. however, my father lives here in tecas. i have the oppurtunity to live with him, but i never have, and we arent very compatible. should i go with my mom, or stay with my dad?
wow tough situation. List the pros and cons of boththen compare the two to see which one would be better suited. Btw cold isn't always bad I love going up there snow is a lot of fun and a pain at the same time.
there's this guy in my school who seems to dislike me . maybe i'm just being sensitive , but sometimes he repeats what i say in a funny/mocking way .he teases everyone , but i have this feeling he doesn't like me . maybe i'm too sensitive , cuz i don't like it when people tease me or make fun of me . how should i respond to such things ? ( ps : i don't know him that well )
It's possible ur being too sensitive n it's possible that he dislikes you. Either way don't pay too much attention to it, so one person may not like you so what there are others out there that do.
i put this under Random Weirdos cause it doesnt really fit anywhere else. every winter i get painful dry skin on my hands. the skin cracks, splits then bleeds. it is only my hands and only in the winter! lotion helps a little, for about 10 min, but then my hands hurt again! what can i do/put on my hands?!
see a doctor they may have special medications for problems like this
i have a question about pop-ups, and i didnt kno which category it was under. do yu guyz have those pop-ups and itz like 'shoot the monkey and win a free laptop'? well, do yu actually win with those things? or are they just there...
thx! =)
most of those are just scammers who want your credit card numbers and stuff so they can use it don't ever give out your name or other info expecially if you don't know the company (Instant messengers and stuff are ok it's just those popups and banners)
What are some ways to make money? Im only 14. And I have 2 ways so far, baby sitting and team read. You get paid for reading to elementary kids. What are some jobs for 15 year olds though? ( Im tunring 15 in 2 months ) thanks.
car washing pet sitting or a jpb at a store near your neighbor hood
I'm 14 / f .. I currently reside in PA. Well, the past 5 weeks have been the best weeks of my life because I haven't had to go to piano lessons. I know its a stupid theory but here goes. I hate PIANO! SO MUCH, i wasn't forced to start, but when i was 11 my best friend did it, and i wanted to be exactly like her, so i joined it. my grades have been suffering, and i think its because of piano, on sundays-wednesdays i worry about my piano lesson because my teacher is so mean. i wanna quit so bad, but how should i tell my mom, i think she knows i want to, but. i don't want her getting disapointed because i already quit band this yr because i didn't like it, she spent 1,000 dollars on a piano and shes been payin 12 dollars a week to let me go for like 3 years, what should i tell her? any help will get 5!
well it may just be your teacher also in most cases music helps your grades but if you really don't like it get yourself out of there quick your mom will understand the real way to disapoint her is to do somthing you don't want to do besides it'll save her some money too right?