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The names Emily, I'm 16 and I love giving advice to my close friends, and anyone who needs some help, I'm a good friend well at least I try to be. I love helping people I really do.. so.. please inbox me if you need any help.

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My ex-girlfriend and I go to different colleges and were long distance for awhile because of it. We're no longer together but are on good terms and are pretty good friends, and she just revealed to me that sometimes (even while we were together), when she would sit down for class she would knowingly let her thongs ride up for random guys.


I'm not asking how I should feel about that (I don't really care), but I was just curious what you guys would think of it.

I'd think (no offense) She's sleazy or she just wants attention..

or she's just trying to make you jealous or something.

Haha.

o.o

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Okay. I'm fifteen and once I told my ex boyfriend that I will NEVER get a hickey cause I think they are nasty and gross. Sooo... we broke up, long story, and he was telling his baseball team about this and then he said he'd give whoever gave me a hickey first twenty bucks. The baseball team does stupid bets like this alllll the time. Well now guys are trying to give me hickeys! Like two of them just came up behind me and started sucking on my neck! It was disgusting! Three of them have asked me to hook up and basically all of them have started texting me. One of them even said he'd split the twenty with me if I just let him give me one. I told my ex he needed to call this stupid thing off but he doesn't give a shit so... What am I supposed to do?? Please don't tell me to just "wait for it to blow over" cuz I don't wanna do that! And please don't tell to "go tell a parent or coach" because I don't wanna stir shit up. Thank you!

Wow overall I think this thing is very immature. Guys need to grow the hell up and stop fucking around. You need to stand up for yourself, and tell them off. They need to stop before things go to far. Do whatever you can to get them to stop, I really do think you should go to a parent about this because do you really want it to get worse? It won't stop until you or someone else puts a stop to it. Think about it? They won't give up until they give you that hickey, it can and maybe will get worse than that. Do something, tell a parent use self defense to stop it if you have to. I personally don't believe in vilonce but if something like this was happeing to me, I'd defend myself.
Good luck, and I hope I helped.

-Emily

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well when i was a school my best frand had a big crush on this dude she talk about him everydayhe was cute but i like never realy seen him in tht why intill she start talking bout him so we all got out of school its summerr//this happen last nite and my other frand thts a slut foreal said lets get on cami was like ok i knew she had a crush on him but i didnt know he was going to be there so we was all talking and all my shirts show my boobs and there big so her cam went off some way she never cam back so he asked me to show my beast so did olnt if he showed me somthing to but now i feel like a huge slut because my BESTfrand likes him i i know he told somebody cause ever one like my boobs//but i think i like him to

Alright first..please don't show your breasts to people on cam? It's wrong and you don't know whos watching. Some people can be able to record those cams..its happened before. Now think before you act again? You were very wrong for doing that, you betrayed your friend on that. Don't act on your feelings, your already in for it with your friend. I don't think anyone deserves a label of "slut, whore ect." Its wrong, you'll eventually get over people but remember everyone makes mistakes, and every action has a consequence.
I hope I helped,
Emily

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OK so this guy I've been dating for a little over three years, treats me like crap. I know I love him and I think that is why I'm still around. He has always been like that but he doesn't have the best past. When he's in a good mood and talks to me like I matter believe me; he's the best guy in the world. He's the one and only person I would ever allow to treat me like this. I would never tolerate this much disrespect from any one but him. I was raised to be a lion not a sheep. My parents have the golden relationship, they've been married for over 20 years, and it seems like their souls were ment to meet. My boyfriend calls me horrid names, and he does all of it I believe to watch me cry and I do I usually cry. I love him so much. Any way my question is what do I do?
Should I stay with him?
Or should I leave and not look back?

Someone who treats you like couldn't possibly love you:/ When someone loves someone they show it by calling you names like "baby" "Sweety" not horrid names? You really should break it off with him. No one deserves to be treated like that. Especially you.. you will find someone who will treat you better than that, but first you have to break up with him. Good luck! :)

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i am 18/f. right now i am working a part time job for a makeup company about 3 days a week. the days i have off, i have nothing to do! i live at home with my mom, and i am not going to school right now. all my freinds go to school during the day, and i am starting to get bored! what are some things i can do during my free time on the days i dont work?

Hey, my name is Faith42 !


You can always read a good book for a hour or so.
You also can go to a public pool and take a swim.
You can call a friend. How about take your animals
for a walk? You can take a bike ride around the block. You can go to movies with your boyfriend, or
just good friend. You also can go shopping.
That's some of my ideas. I hope you can think of more!

I hope I helped,

Faith42 :)

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wats the diff between ponder and wonder

Hey, my name is Faith42 !



Ponder means you think deeply about something, wonder means you think about something that
could happen.


I hope I helped,
Faith43 :)

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how do i get rid of whiteheads?

what do you guys do?

any special technique?

Hey, my name is Faith42 and I hope I can help!


What, I do is wash my face with a acne wash every
day once in the morning and once at night I don't
really think their is a real technique, to it I think you just have to wash your face daily.


I hope I helped,
Faith42 :)

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About a week ago, I got a really shit sunburn. It hurt A LOT. Like I was almost in tears.

Now it doesn't hurt, but the skin is peeling.
I know that it was going to happen sooner or later, but is there anything I could use so the peeling skin would all just come off. I don't want to pick it off myself, I'm wondering if there's any cream or method which I could use to get most of it off in one go?

It's really annoying me :(

Thank you!

Hey, my name is Faith42 and I hope I can help!

I just had a bad sunburn to a few weeks ago, it is
still pealing what I do is just put some moisturizing lotion on you sunburn. It, helps the
itch and it feels good once you got it on.

Also, if you get another sunburn rub some Aloe Vera
gel it is green you can get it at a drug store. I'am
not all sure if you can get it at a regular store or
not though.

I hope I helped,
Faith42 :)

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well...my friends sometimes dont use conditoner and i do. and i was just wondering what does the shampo do for your hair and what does the conditioner do to your hair?

Hey, my name is Faith42 and I hope I can help!


The shampoo cleans your hair , and roots . The
conditioner moisture's your hair. I also heard that
the shampoo doesn't always gets your hair all clean,
that's why you should also use a conditioner.


I hope I helped! ,
Faith42:)

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k so i was readin this ad in j-14 magazine & it was bout a book
the book was bout a teen & u could make decisions 4 her
if anybody knos wat book im talkin bout tell me wat its called
or if anybody has a j-14 magazines look through all of them 4 me & list all the book ads
it would b alotta help

Hey, my name is Faith42 and I hope I can help!

I just read a book like that but I don't know
if it's the right one you want it's called


A choose your destiny novel,


What if ....
everyone new your name

Liz Ruckdeschel and Sara James

If, this is the type of book you want I bought it
at Wal mart .

I hope I helped,
Faith42:)

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I have a friend who's been annoying me lately. I really hate to say it but I think she's fake, and a poser. (though I really hate that I think that) She's my best friend though. I just can't take it!! She copies me A LOT. She copies what I do, my style, my likes, what I say... It's really annoying and makes me want to say "think of your own freakin ideas!!!!" and give her a piece of my mind! She KNOWS I hate copycatters but I think she thinks that I don't mind, or that she's "not copying" me. I'm just myself, and when she tries to do something I do, it comes off as fake. To me at least. I really like being unique, different, and my own person, but it's hard to do that if she's JUST LIKE ME. She's changed though... Like on aim, I put my status message as "ca-call me, so I can make it juicy for ya!" A quote from one of Lil Wayne's songs. Then later, my friend put "Ayyy-bayy bayy! :]" or something like that. .__. I would do something like that (cause I'd wanna get back at her), but she might think I'M copying HER. Then she'd try to be better than me. I actually do have an away message like that, but didn't get the idea from anyone else. She's not even like "that" at all. I really don't mean to be rude. :[ but how can I get over this? I don't wanna be annoyed everytime she does something... It drives me crazy! Whenever I think of something kewl, it discourages me to share it with people because in the back of my head I'm thinking "uh oh what if so and so copies me and gets all the credit for it?" Sorry. I have a problem with copycatters. I just feel like she's stealing MY identity. It feels like a "competition" and I hate it. She makes it like that though. How can I not get annoyed and stop thinking about all the negative things? I want to think positive things and be happy. (I'm annoying myself cause I feel like I'm caring about something so stupid.) Sorry if this is long. D;

Hey,my name is Faith42 and I think I can help!


My friends and I had the same situation to, what we
did was we told her what we felt, She said she is sorry and she won't do it again. Then , a week
later she started to do everything again BUT doing
it much worse. So , we told her that we can't befriend's with her for the way she act's. Our , friend was quite worse though, when we invited
her to our party's, it had TO BE HER WAY! Or, nothing. we got sick ,of it. We stopped being friends!

I think you should talk to her , say what you feel
and tell her to try to change her ways, so we can
be better friends! If, she don't stop, or she
acted like my situation , and becomes worse .
you really need to break off the friendship.
If, keep being her friend she might even be
worse, than ever! It, will Ruin your friendship
with other friends because of her, and will ruin
your life , intill you break off the friendship!

I hope I helped,
Faith42:)

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My boyfriend told me he wanted to french kiss me 5 times. But i want to know the difference between french kissing and making out???

Hey, my name is Faith42 and I hope I can help!


French kissing is when a man and a girl put their
tounge in each others mouth!

I hope I helped,
Faith42:)

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i really love the name laken, aiden, brayden and braylen.. out of these boys name witch do you like best.. and does anyone no diffrent spelling for these names.. most importantly laken .. people say if i change the spelling it turns into a girls name?

and any other cute baby boy names you can think of!

hey, my name is Faith42 and I hope I can help!

I like the name Braylen the best out of the names
you picked. I personaly like the name Andy , or
Jacob for a baby boy!
I hope I helped,
Faith42:)

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i really like my legs, like im not afraid to show them off. well my thighs yes but megs no. but this year, you can see i guess what would be the pores? i shaved last night cause its nice today and once again they just got a little better but by the end of the day they are back to normal. it it because of the razoe (its not like razor burn or anything, its like under the skin and i dont feel them) and its only fom my knees down. what cann i do to get rid of it or prevent it next time i shave

Hey, my name is Faith42 and I think I can help you
Do you use shaving cream? That might help you or
you can put this great lotion on it's called Jergins! Or you can pretty much put any lotion on.
I say lotion because it moisturises your skin and
keeps it from dry scaly hands ! Thats what I use
Jergins it helps alot!
I hope I Helped,
Faith42

p.s.
You can also use this other great lotion called
Gold Bond.

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k im 15 & i wear tampons but everytime i wear it i need 2 wear a pad 2 but it still leaks i wear a regular absorbancy does this mean that my tampons sucks or that i need a bigger absorbancy

Hey, my name is faith42 and I think I can help you
you will never know intil you try a new brand how
about you get the same absorbancy in a diffrent brand.If that doesen't work get a better type of
tapons that holds a good amount of time!

I hope I helped,
Faith42:) :0

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Okay so it was April Fools...keep that in mind.

My mom is always pressuring my sister and I about losing weight...and always calling us fat and she makes us feel horrible. We're not over weight either. I'm 5'4 and I weigh 147, and she's 5'8 and she weighs 160.

It was April first and my sister said she wanted me to walk to walmart with her so she could steal some diet pills. I thought it was an April fools joke. We would walk over there go to the diet isle and she would say April fools.

So we got to walmart and walked over to where all the diet pills are. And she picked them up and I asked her what she was doing. She said "I told you" and she walked away. There was security cameras there...you could see youself in them.

So she walked away and I followed her and I tryed to get her to admit it was an April Fools joke but it wasn't...it really wasn't. She went to the dressing room, took the pills out, put them in her pocket and put the bottle back where it belonged. I couldn't stop her...and I couldn't tell anyone...she's my sister...I tryed to convince her not to.

(There are security cameras and telivisions in every isle)

Anyway we got out of walmart and I guess no one saw...but I'm freaking out. I know the security cameras got all that footage because we could see ourselves on the screen. It's been a week since then, what are the chances of getting caught...

I really did get dragged into this...I've never done anything like this before and I never want to as long as I live. What do you guys think the chances are we get caught? I'm really worried.

Hey, my name is Faith42 and I think I can help you
First you Tell your sister she was very wrong
to steal those pills. Second chill if they would
of caught you they would of caught you right on spot
or phone you the next day! I'am sorry that you got
into that mess! It wasn't your fault at all you
thought it was a joke! Also their is some blame for your mother to! If she didn't call you guys fat
and made you feel horrible you guys wouldn't of got
into this situation!you and your sister don't have to take all the blame. Sorry , but the most blame
falls on your sister and your mom!

I hope I helped,
Faith42:)

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Why the heck is everyone labeling me? I am so tierd of it! They call me tomboy and goth!(dont worry I'm not anti goth). They think I'm goth because I love hevy metal, scary movies and books, and I do where black alot but its usally just one peice of clothing. And they call me a tomboy because I have really short (10 year old boy short) hair (its natrully black), I love basketball, ice hockey, soccer, tennis, golf, hanging with the boys, playing video games, stuff like that. I dont care about my aperance I just put on whatevers clean! How do I get them to stop calling me "gothboy"?

Hey, my name is Faith42 and I think I can help
everyone labels other people if they don't look
like them and Hey! , you can't stop them because
people don't care if they hurt other peoples
feelings. My friend is for real goth and people
are always being mean to her when she can't handle it any more she comes to me and I say to her to
not listeen to them and be yourselve.
I hope I helped,
Faith42:)

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16/f

i have had braces for three years and im still going to have them a year and a half longer.

so, the problem is, every time i meet a guy, a good looking one that i like, i immediately just assume that he is soooo "out of my league." and it basicly all boils down to the fact that i have braces. i just feel like he'll look at me and feel like "i could never kiss her!" im very self concious about them. and the weird thing is, i like my body, i like my personality, i like my skin, my hair, all that stuff. i am confident that i am very friendly and like-able. its just that when im in a public place, and i want to talk to a hot guy i see, i feel like theres no way that he'll have the same feeling of seeing a pretty girl when he sees me- just because i have braces.

so i feel like i always have to hook people with my personality, or by being funny, which is fine, since its good that i just want to be myself and not be popular because im good looking. but i cant help but feel jealous of the girls who can grab hot guys just because they're a hot girl.


Hey,my name is Faith42 and I think I can help
You can't help it that you have braces I wear
braces to if a guy is so caught up with having
every girl looking perfect they have a problem
(LOL).I felt self concious to when I got my
braces thats all I thought about if guys would
care and not like me and some won't care and
some will you just have to let it roll off
your back and be yourselve. If you be yourselve
a good guy that don't care how you look will come along.
I hope I helped
Faith42:)

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