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I hate myself. Does anyone have any ideas to stop a persons perceptions of things, or path of thinking change? I dont beleive in any kind of religion and i beleive that there is no reason to anything and that life and existance in general is just so pointless. If people live to be happy and content, yet are mainly overcome by other stronger emotions such as pain and anger what is the point of living? there is no afterlife its just nothing. why be afraid of something you wont be aware of. why bother searching for peace of mind which you already know you will never get. each and everyone of us are unique so no one is. no one will remember me when i die because i have had no impact upon anyone. i have achieved nothing and have had nothing able to be achieved because of how many billions of people in the world that are better then me. nothing has meaning me running around in an endless circle compared to going to school and learning are of about the same value. .. should i get help? (link)
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I used to think very similar to that ~ and to this day I still do, however I have found a few things along the path which I feel have made me much less jaded. You seem like a very interesting person, and I would very much like to talk to you on a more one-to-one basis about this. If you have one of the following, i'll be glad to talk to you any time~
AIM: TheyDiedPretty
MSN: Arsehn@Hotmail.com
Skype: (Don't remember the username) If you have skype and only that, let me know what your account is and we can go from there.
All else fails we can volley e-mails back and forth - EternalAdaptation@Gmail.com
I understand that this question in itself is very uninformative, but I can't think of a way to vocalize what needs to be said here, I find it requires a lot more of your own input.
You seem to have concern so act on that and talk to me.
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14/f. I've read on the internet the signs of having depression. I fit many of them. Though I do not ALWAYS feel depressed and hopeless, it comes often. Certain things in my life have caused me pain, and then there's other times where I just feel horribly down, yet I can't point it to any certain cause at all. I don't feel close enough to either of my parents or anybody..come to think of it that I could tell about me having this problem. Yet, I do think that me getting help is a good idea, because I've become very close to doing something drastic more than once. Is there reason to suspect that I really do have a depression problem, or is it just teenage hormones? Is there a way for me to get help? (link)
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Thinking you have depression only makes it worse. You have things to be upset about, but there is almost always something good. Since you don't want help, go through the intelligent way of doing things and just figure out whats causing you to be depressed and isolate it. Or just find some hobbies.
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ok well..im 11 yeears old, and like.. im 115lb. and im 5'2 and i abouslty hate it. People say im fat, behind my back..and im always hungry ..and i try to eat healthy but i still gain weight ..help? (link)
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:O Excercise! And post on websites that don't require you to be THIRTEEN to post on.
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omfg i need an answer quickly please!
i am not really a cutter, only on occassions. today i was very stressed and cut, deep and long. (not too deep obviously) as i was getting dressed my sister saw it. she said if i didnt go to my friends house she wouldnt tell, so i stayed home. then she came in later and said she was still thinking about telling. you don't realize how upset my mother will get, how pissed my dad will be, i don't want to hurt my parents! i regret doing it, i will never again. i told my sister that, but she doesnt believe me! what do i doto convince her not to tell! what do i do if she does tell! (link)
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If she tells, tell your parents its her fault because she is constantly conning you. Tell them that she is such a wicked wench that you wish she would constantly drop dead, and that the only way you may ever stop cutting yourself is to watch them brutally murder her in front of you.
Or if your last name isn't Ramsey, you can always cover it up in makeup.
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im not sad, but yet i dont feel like i should be living, the past few days i havent been myself and i really need help right now, maybe just words of encouragement to keep me going. please n thank you (link)
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How do we know you are worth encouraging? Maybe you are just a vessel taking up space and sucking up air, mooching off tax dollars, squandering stolen food living in a van down by the river.
Don't die, remember _________ and _________ and goddamn, you have so much to live for, like ________ and __________ and that guy _________.
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Hello. I am 14 years old, and have secretly been cutting for 3 years. I have never told anybody before, but I am wondering if I should. Would it be in my best interest to get help?
I have a lot of trouble trusting people,though.
Any advice would be appreciated.
Thanks (link)
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Stop Cutting Yourself, you don't need to tell anyone, just don't cut yourself. Why you would want to start - is beyond me. Its a moronic thing, done by moronic people, and the only chance you have at salvation is stopping.
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Whenever I'm alone, I keep thinking about how bad the world is and writing dark poems and stuff. Once I nearly cut my wrists with a sharp knife. Do you know any way to help me have a brighter outlook on the world? Thanks. -Elie (link)
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Don't think about it being so bad? Try optimism.
I always used to be mad at the oblivious kids that were always really cheery and happy even when they didn't have a whole hell of a lot of reason to be.
Now its the kids that generally don't have it that bad but just think so ill of everything that they are practically suicidal for whatever moronic reason it is that they think these "bad thoughts".
The worlds not always a bright and shiny place, I know. But you can't always look at it as an abyss.
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KK well see my cousin is like older then i am and im 16 but i was wondering (i dunno wanna go search something incase my mom check history) or the links i go too. so i was wondering if you can tell me some symptoms about cocaine and stuff. shes alway wearing sun glasses and when there off her eyes are alway puffy... she`s really quiet and keeps to herself. she changing alot and its scaring me. why i got the cocaine idea was from her sister. she caught her doing something but wasnt sure. im really worry and i can say anyhting.. to no one. besides uses but its not like your gunna go and tell someone. please help me with this situation and how i can try to stop it from ruining her life. (link)
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Usage of the psuedo-words...
KK
gunna
Improper usage of the word...
uses
Wrong spelling of the words...
incase = in case
anyhting = anything
Horrendous grammar such as...
i dunno wanna
im really worry
Hope I helped!
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i am 14/f with very low self-eteem. I have grown up ugly and now some guys tell me i'm hot, but some tell me i'm ugly. I dont understand. Also, I am quiet and am aftaid of rejection.
I am working on loving myself, but it is hard when you have so little friends.
Any sudjestions? (link)
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Beauty isn't only skin deep. Maybe some people you know aren't completely shallow.
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is there such a thing where your so depressed is it posibly you could die from it
and is it bad if your so depressed all you want to do is curl up in a ball and hope that god could fix all things and is it posible for him to do that for me i think it is but iv asked many things from him and i dont kno if he would help me with this one or do i have to do all the work again
you kno who this is (link)
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Belief in god may work fine for you, but I wouldn't depend on something that may not be there to help you all the time.
There are plenty of problems that you have to fix yourself.
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I don't believe in myself..I have very low self esteem..I feel horrible about myself most of the time..How can I boost my confidence..It's not as easy as it sounds..I don't know what to do..I have no friends and my parents (esp. my mom) tells me I'm useless and ugly) I get made fun of all the time..no wonder my self esteem is so low..How can I boost my confidence..All I want to do is feel superior just once..please help (link)
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Find out what you are good at. If you really want to make yourself feel superior, this site is a good place to start. You can mock people here all day, they really just set themselves up for it.
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I used to cut but I've stopped since January. Now I've been thinking about a lot again, and itching a lot. Last night I actually did cut. In a way I want to cut, but then I don't want to get into all of it again, it's crazy. What do I do? And don't be an idiot, please take this seriously. (link)
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It may be hard to resolve your sedomasochistic nature, but, im sure you can try and get through it. Either you get some kind of pleasure out your own injuries or you are a complete and utter moron. To want pleasure you obviously have pain, so try to vent through other means, music maybe.
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17/f ..all the time i cry..about little things and i get upset very easily sometimes i jsut sit in the bathroom and cry...i think about my life and whats going on and i just break down..does anybody know what i can do.or have an idea whats wrong? please help i rate high (link)
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Well, I think you may just be a little too pessimistic. Maybe if you get out a bit more and try to look at things in a different light you can just ease out of it. When I was quite depressed about things I started trying to pick up hobbies and other things, maybe get a musical instrument and let your emotion surge through that. Or try and find a respectable organization or religion.
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