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My names Jenny and I'm a 16 year old girl, oviously. I'll help you with anything you ask, so ask away. But if your gonna ask a dumb question, you'll get a dumb answer. And try not to start shit. This site is for helping people, not a way to bitch at people beacause your board and have nothing better to do. I know most about sex ;), Buddy4u Profiles, Xanga's, Html, Mental help..Like cutting, depression, and suicide, and love life. I will try as hard as I can to help you, and give you my honest awnser, weather it may upset you or not.













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I have been having theese problems I mean every thing schoolparents boys and I have been cutting myself for about a year and it is really bothering me at school I will go to the bathroom and just carve a knife into my leg and I want to stop but I jsut cant I tried to but I couldnt plz help me

Hey, Ik how you feel. But the best thing you can do is talk to someone about it. There might be reason's why your cutting, maybye you could be depressed. Idk, but deffinataly talk to a theripist or a counlser at your school. And try to get your mind of cutting. Do other things that you like doing to take your mind off of it. I know it's hard but you'll get through it! Good luck. Jenna

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For the past while i have been cutting myself. At first it was just scratches and then i started cutting deeper and deeper. I am really scared and I don't want to talk to my parents, they have enough to worry about, so is there anyway i can break the habit and just stop...and please don't answer if you are just going to poke fun at me and mock me. I don't need that. Only post if you can help me.

The same thing happened to me. It sounded gay at first, but i found talking to adults about it really helped me out. I could sort out my problems, and figure out why I was cutting, and then deal with them using other ways. Try hanging out with friends, talking to people or doing something you like to take your mind off things that may be causing you to cut. Write about how you feel in a joural or something. In time the habbit will probably go away. Your in a hard point in your life, but as you grow up you'll grow out of it. GOOD LUCK!

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my friend ( i just found out ) hasnt eaten in 3 days....we think she is trying 2 become anerexic...even though she is really skinny....she said she cuts herself 2...me and my friend malerie dont no wat we can do 2 help her....i offer her food but she doesnt take it....and she always seems depressed

Okay, you may not want to do this but you NEED to tell an adult right away. She could kill herself one day and she needs help, like a phycotrist asap! If she gets mad at she will be happy about it later. It better her getting mad than her dying. :(

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I have been cutting. I don't know why I just have but it's hurting my friends really badly and I hate worrying them. I have to stop or my friend will tell my parents. How do I stop?

Hey. There's a lot of things you can do instead of cutting. For me what worked was getting on medicine and having a theripist for a while. At first I HATED it. But now i've stoped and i'm happy I went throught with it. If you dont want to do that there are also other things you can do. Instead of cutting snap a rubber band on your wrist. Try taking a nap or a bath or hanging out with friends to take things off of your mind. Do something you like doing. If things are pretty bad in your life, just remember you shoudlnt take it out on you, and things will get better!! I promise you they will. Good luck, I hope things go well! Drop another one in if you wanna.

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hi... do you have anyone in ur life who you love to death but they cut and you really want them to stop? i need to help my best friend stop

Hey, i have a person right now who cuts and i really want her to stop. I also use to cut and I know that it's very hard. The best way is to get help from somone. (like a counluler) It seems very gay, and it did to me, but by getting one in the long run it really helped me out and i'm glad my friend told somone about it and helped me get throught cutitng. It's nice having friends there to support you. Or now just be there for her and let her know you love her and dont want her to cut. If the cuts get deeper then you should tell an adult. Good luck! I'd write more but i have to go to school lol. if you need anything else drop one in again! buh bye.

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alright... i have this friend who cuts and she means the absolute WORLD to me idk what i would do with out her and im scared her cutting could get worse.. i cut too but not as bad as her but sometimes... well a lot of times i want to cut really bad and get really deep... ive been cutting for like about a 1 and a half all together off and on... she told me that she would never try to kill herself but im still scared for her ya know? and i just want to help shes really sad about her bf cuz he makes her feel like crap all the time and i hate him but idk... that should i do???? i really could use some help? have u ever been in a situation like mine? or do u know anyone who cuts too? thanks

Awe i'm sorry to hear that. I use to cut myself and it got to the point where i'd hit a vain. Right now your friend is probably going though a hard time in her life or going though some depressoin. most kids do and they get over it. For now I would just be there for her and tell her that you would be really sad if were to die..:(.. and tell her how worried you are about her. For me the cutting stoped once my life got better and it should for her too, and also you. I think she is moslty cutting bcuz of her bf. that is what i did when he made me feel bad. If things get worse though, to where she hits a vane or goes very deep you need to tell someone!! I've been through this and Ik a lot about it. I'm very happy I got help even though at the time i hated it. If that happens, she might feel the same way too. But in her future she'll be happy that she got help. good luck!! If there's anything else you'd like to ask or talk about drop another one in. I hope i helped! Buh bye!!!

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i feel like i'm going into depression! my life seems like its getting worse everydaY!! i will NEVER cut tho! just the thought makes me feel ick! but i dont no wut to do! i lost my b/f recently and i dont no.. i feel like nothing good is happening! what should i do?

Heyyy I REALLY understand how you feel. I've gone though this so many times. For now try and take your mind off your x. Hang out with a lot of friends and just have fun. Talk to people about how you feel too. I have been depressed and if you want to talk to me more about things i'll help you. Good luck buh bye!

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ok well there has been a lot of things going on and i've gotten really depressed. im on medicine for it but it doesnt seem to be working anymore. its like the 5th kind of pill that i've tryed. im always crying and thinking about the bad things but i can't help it. i used to be able to write about it in my poems but now i just kinda can't. i really need help and i dont know what to do. i dont want to cry myself to sleep everynight.
~depressed

Hey I know how you feel..life can be really hard. For me I take paxil and it helps. You might need a higher dose on yours or another new one. But med's arent really gona solve a lot. I really wish i knew what to say but the only way to really get over this is go though it. Things will get better. I never thought they would for me but they did. For now just try and think of the best. Think of other people who's lifes are horrible. My friend's mom and dad killed themselfs in front of him after getting divorced and her life is very messed up. Dont worry everyone goes though this as a child but you will eventuly get over it. Good luck! I'm sorry i didnt help that much :(

OH yea when i got depressed i coudlnt tell anyone how i felt. it was impossible but then i went to a theripist after a while of talking i could say more about how i felt. just a tip but if your not seeing a theripist you should try one.

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alright well whenever i get upset i feel the need to cause myself pain. sometimes i do and sometimes i just cry. and i used to cut but i dont anymore and im never going to again so that will not be a way of hurting myself...but i want to know if there's anyway to control these feelings. i really dont want to end up hurting myself badly. but i get upset do easily...i dont know im just so confused.

Hey I have had the same problem as you. Ah well you cant really control the feelings..but you can find other ways to deal with it other than hurting yourself. Try and punch your pillow. Everyone tells me to do that and it sorta helps. When you get mad let all your anger out on it instead of yourself. Good luck!! -Jenny

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I feel like my life is just so useless, like there is nothing good going on for me. I'm always crying. I feel like I cry everyday. I've felt this way for a while, and I know I'm depressed. Now it has come to the point where I am depressed with being depressed. I don't know what to do to feel better.

Awe I know how you feel. If your not taking medicines you should maybe try an anti depressent. It will regulater your hormones and you wont be as depressed. Talking about it helps too. Things will get better dont worry. Good luck. Buh bye

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does anyone know of a way to get an anti-depressent(i.e. Zoloft©) without going to see a doctor??? I need something along those lines but i can't tell my parents that i need an anti-depressent for certain reasons. My depression used to be just the common teenage cliche of {boredom + no life + no friends + girl troubles = depression}. Earlier this week i realized it was a much more serious problem when i was alone(drunk + depressed) and for some reason got to thinking that i dont want to live anymore.......So i went downstairs, got a knife from the kitchen, went back up to my room and proceeded to stab myself in the wrist numerous times. It bled all over the place for a while and then i turned really pale felt really cold and also a bit numb....then i just kinda zonked out. The next morning i woke up in a puddle of my own blood, and thats when i realized that i cant do this anymore. So yea my question remains is there any way to get an anti-depressent along the lines of zoloft or ya know something like it without seeing a doctor???

(p.s.) - anyone who says "you should tell your parents" gets a rating of a 1 and i automatically dont like you....

You have to go to a docter to get medicne for an anti depressent. Ah and you need to tell them about this!! Or atleast one of your friends!

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hi there i have a big black head problem i have a million black heads on my nose and a few around my eyes...whats the best way to get rid of them without them coming back???????? HELP!!!!

Proactive really works!! I use that. Also just washing your face twice a day with clearsel helps.

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What is the average weight for a 17yr old?My sister is 17 goin on 18 soon, and is 5'3" and ways 86lbs. She is rele skinny and it almost gets me wonderin............

Hey your sister is very under weight. She should at least be around 125. I think you need to tell your parents. Good luck!! If there is anything else I can do let me know. -Jenny xoxo

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ok i have known this girl for about 10 years and lately she been rapidly loosing weight and not eating anything whenever she does she runs to the bathroom, and one time i followed her into the bathroom and i heard her throwing up when i confronted ehr about it she just denied it and said it wasnt her throwing up but i followed her in there and i know it was her she was the only one in there besides me and im really scared for her i dont want her to die from this and i love her and she means the world to me how could i possibly get her to realizxze that she needs sum help?

Hey It is very hard to get somone with an eating disorder to relize they are under weight. I think the best the to do would be to tell an adult. Good luck hun! -Jenny

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I used to always want to be 'cool', 'hot' 'ghetto'
junk like that. Now I am a 12 yr old punk girl, and I changed in less than a month. I started having home problems, and I started listening to rock. I cut my ankles, and make little pictures on my ankles with a knife. I tell myself it's just play, but somtimes I dont know. Really and truly sometimes I scare myself, I like being strange and literly insane. Is that a problem...

Hey I think that is a problem. You should talk to somone about that. Like an adult or theripst. Try and get some help by seeing a psycotrist. Good luck. -Jenny

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What can help nerves or being parinoid ??p.s im only 14 and i do have parinoid problems..

Hey you can go to a theripist and talk to them about it, and try to get help that way. Or you could also try and get some pills for paranoia or anxiety. I take them and they work! -Jenny

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