Hey, call me Neo. Inside joke I have with a friend. Lol we always joke around. paid 2 make things I enjoy fire, hangin out, and talking 2 friends. I'll help if i can. Oh yea and ummm all you gay guys, please stop asking me if I'll date you. I'M STRAIGHT AND ALREADY HAVE A GIRLFRIEND!
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Hey doug, yo man, i was wonderin what you possision is on gettin high and drunk, for reverance and how you think i would react in the state of drunk and/or high (link)
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Nice dude. Go for it but, get as high and drunk as possible. I think that anyone in a 50 mile radius will end up dead. =) have loads of fun.
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When I go back to school I want to be changed. I have good looks, but I have very low self esteem. My last year has been very rough dealing with my friends starting drugs, sucky boyfriends, and just family/money problems.
I want to come back this year with confidence and a happier personality. I don't have alot of friends because we've all just gone our own way. How can I reevaluate myself and be proud of what I have, and act and be more fun to be around? Thanks. (link)
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Be yourself. I remember in 6 grade one of my techers played some MJ and well, I couldn't sit there. I stood up, walked to the middle of the class and started dancing. It was histerical-the entire room of classes crowded around me(we had like 3 classes in each room) and I even got some of my friends to join in. I made a good amount of friends that day because I was just myself. I know your probably older but just be yourself, don't be afraid to do something even if someone else isn't. Plus, the good looks will help u a lot. =) anyway, I'm sure you'll make some new friends and You'll do fine. I'm guessing your somewhere in high school if your friends do drugs, I was in middle school but then again I got forced going to school in the ghetto =p so don't do them, they will lower your self esteem and eventually kill you. Have fun that's always the best thing to do.
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Is this something wrong with me?
It's not a constant thing, but I have some real problems with anger at times. For example before.. Mom and I were in the car and I was crying.. been bogged down by stress, friends issues, and a recent breakup. Then I totally lost it because I felt she wasn't listening to me. I started throwing everything everywhere and kicking and screaming, telling her to listen to me. she tried to act all "calm" about it and even tried to change the topic and ignore what I was saying. I got mad and told her to stop being calm and lose the tone. I got even madder, and then something snapped. I put my fingers in the car window, and pushed the button up until my fingers got caught and kept doing it till I screamed in pain. I also bit hard into my hand in anger and the marks are still there.
I have never done anything like that before. Mom and I haven't spoken since. I feel terrible about what I did. I have no idea what got into me. Is there something wrong with me, or was this just a one-off thing, like losing control for a moment? I feel really ashamed because my mom is good to me, and I went and did something like that. What should I do? Is this a serious problem that requires serious help?
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It's stress from school and all that kindof stuff. I used to get it all the time but know that it's summer it should be easy. The whole pain thing is your body trying to forget the stress like ok there's an old saying that goes time to bite the bullet. In WWII, amputation needed to be done so they would have someone bite as hard as they can into a bullet to help. Don't know how it helps but it does for some strange reason. A good massage would be good for you and trying to do some fun things will also help. Good luck
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everytime i am around people, im constantly looking in mirrors and if i see a major flaw i cant have as much fun the rest of the time im with them if i know i cant fix it right then! also when i dont have makeup on or it rubs off because of sweat, im embarassed and dont want guys to look at me and i kinda sit there staring into space. i also look in my reflection into car windows when im walking to my boyfriends house..and its gotten so bad that last week i saw my reflection and realized my makeup looked orange so i ran back home and told him i could hang out anymore!! how do i stop obsessing over looking bad? well.. ANY advice on this topic will be appreciated! (link)
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You'd be suprised how little others think of the way you look. Just feel good about yourself, dress comfortably, and in all honesty, guys don't really go for all the makup, maybe lipstick but don't put on a lot. Just be yourself. Try not to think about how you look just hangout and be happy keep a smile on your face, trust me, noone is judging you.
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14|Female...For about two years ever since I found out my dad cheated on my mom...my life has been completely different, i use to feel really confident about my body but now i dont, i feel over weight and ugly (even though im 89lbs)I also have really bad trust issues now..I dont want to be like this anymore I want the old me back, My mom says the best way is for me to talk to someone about it but I cant talk to her because I know that it will upset her about the dad thing and I cant talk to my older sister because she will think im just going through some teenage stage...my mom suggested I see a therapist but i dont know if I want to or not because it just seems weird telling a stranger my feelings...and also I know they cost alot of money so I dont want to just waste money if I am going through a teenage stage but I dont think it is just a teenage stage...Im just really scared I am going to do something crazy if I dont tell people how I feel. So my question is...should I see a therapist or not? (link)
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Wow screw a tharapist. You need serious help. Your afraid your mom will be upset so your just going to let your dad continue to cheat on her? That's cold. It will be better if you tell your mother rather then let her live a lie. Say that you got married and had a child and they found out your husband was cheating on you and wouldn't tell you I don't think you'd like that. I believe that you are simply feeling guilt and anger. If you tell your mom it would help.
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my name is Rachel and iam 17 years old and just here lately i've been real tired and hungry all the time and I havn't been doing anything to cause me being tired all the time like yesterday I was asleep all day from 12:00 untill 10:00pm what could be causing this and how can I stop it?
Iam really worried is this anything I should be worried about? (link)
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Your sleeping way to much. Try to be more active, go outside and have fun. WEhen you sit around and do nothing you become hungry and tired like I am always busy and I'm never hungry and never tired. I suggest playing a sport anything really but just stay active do something that makes you feel alive blast music do something. Or maybe your depressed. Did you recently break up with your boyfriend or did a close one die? That may make you like the way you are and if that's the case I would find some help. Hope that helped,
Neo
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ok...here is how it is...i used to be a happygolucky child then my cousin changed and i acted cool like her but i was so young people thought it was cute...but now i am wearing pink clothes...listening to green day....and hard rock!!!!!! what is wrong with me? and sometimes i want to dye my hair black somtimes i come to my sences and say ..no i would look bad with it...then i turn goth and get moody...then another i am happy sweet loving child..which should i choose..and why am i going through this because i need to make a decision because i am getting new clothes and it would be stupid to be totally opposite..my friends think i am weird because i always have opposite feelings one day and another..goth..prep..punk...prep..punk..goth...it changes...for me i prefer to wear goth clothes but be quiet...but cheeerful i want to have different attitudes ..but then all this mixture is to much...plz..for the sake of pete help me! (link)
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When I was younger, I was the same way. I tried goth but that just isn't me. It's just a time in your life and hard rock is awesome. So don't feel bad about yourslef be who you want to be. I was always the rocker and badass but you can be whatever it is you want. Don;t pay attention to the others they want to suck you in. If you feel comfortable in goth then go goth. If you enjoy prep be a prep. Or, you can try 'there' a little thing my friends and i made up. It's basically your mood reflection. I did that and it works out good. Sometimes you may get made fun of but I made it into a joke and I would go along with it. Never bothered me I don't know about you but do whatever you want, noones going to stop you. Remember that.
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Hey everybody! I'm 14/f. Well, I have a fear of dogs. It's just that when they get close to me I'm so afraid and start to take off. Once when I was a young kid, my next-door neighbor's dog Kiki was chasing after me and I literally thought that it was going to kill me. I don't want to be afraid of dogs because I think they are the cutest things ever, especially puppies. Does anyone have any advice on how I can overcome my fear of dogs...I would really appreciate it! Thanks. (link)
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I could tell you two different things, but I'm gonna go with the one that might be better for you. Get a small dog. That way, it can't really hurt you and being around it might make you feel more confident. It's all in your mind.
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For the past few months, I've been feeling sad very often. I'm 15, female, and I guess I feel sort of alone. I constantly think about death, how I don't have many good friends, and how I don't have anything I really need to be happy.
I'm also on a diet, I've lost 20 pounds, because I think I need to be skinnier.
I guess what I'm asking is, am I depressed? And do I need some sort of help? My mom knows how I feel and she is always lecturing me about it. I just want to know what I can do to not feel this way. (link)
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I think your suicidal. Go to a doctor or something or maybe its' a faise possibly. If you continue to feel this way instead of going to people you don't know tell a guidance councilor or your parents and find help.
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My dad pasted away from leukemia 4 months and 10 days ago (March 1st). Well right now, we're (my mom, brother, and I) in Ireland visiting family. We've been here for about 3 weeks. Well for then past 2 weeks my mom has been acting very different and forgetful. When she goes to do the dishes or something, when she's done, she'll come and sit down then get up and say that she needs to do the dishes. When she gets into the kitchen and sees that there are no dishes (because she already did them) she'll ask "Who did the dishes? I was about to do them!" It's so weird. She'll also repeats herself all the time and never wants to go out or do anything.
We're all so worried about her but we don't know what to do. My family members want us to get her to see a specialist here in Ireland but my brother and I want to cut our trip short and deal with it once we get back to the states. We don't know which is better.
At first we thought she's like this because of the loss of my dad but she's gone over 4 months without anything weird like this so why now? Any help?
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All it is is a simple mental dissorder. Eventually she'll except the fact he passed away but it is possible it's from being away form home. I think that you should take her home and if she stays the same, then find help.
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