Im 16 and My 16 year old Best friend is in love with my 16 year old ex boyfriend im pass the stage of you cant get with your best friends ex boyfriend, my problim is she really likes him she is like obsessed but he dont like her well he thought he might of but now he says he dont cuz she is inscure but they both ask me what they should do like he says should i just go out with her even thought i dont like her and she asks what can i do to get him to go out with me and then im left in the middle and my ex is also one of my best friends now so i dont really want to pick sides but i want them both to be happy i really am kinda sick of this situation help me please!
just tell them u dont want to be in the middle, u love them both but u dont wanna deal with thier drama
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i was talking to my boyfriend last night.. and we were jokeing around and he broght up somthing about him and his x-gf kissing.. and i mean it was when they were going out and like that didnt bother me... but he talks about her alot.. like fun thngs they used to do... and it like hit me that he had been "in love" before too... and well.. i know how all my relations ships and my feelings havent compared at all to this one... but i have no idea about his...... how do i ask him.. he always tells me just to talk to him about it.. but im scared to.. i dont know why.. i know he wont think twice to tell me everything... but still.. i dont know how to bring it up!
i know what you mean. Just ask him, be like "have you ever been in love before?" and he will tell you all about it. Also if u just dont like hearing about it next time he brings her up just be "u kno i dont really like it wen u talk about her" he"ll realize it and stop. I told a guy i was with that once and he was totally cool about it
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My ex-girlfriend and i broke up a while ago. I didn't want to break up, but we did. I thought i would be ok with it after a while, but i'm not. Every time i see her i wish we were still together. It's hard for me to hang around her or even think about her as just a friend. How can i get over her and just be her friend?
Maybe tell her how you feel and maybe u can have a second chance. If not i know its hard to be an ex's friend but it is way better than not having them in your life at all. Just treat her like u do everyone else, it will be just like when ur together just no physical contact.
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well i broke up with my ex boyfriend twice. reason being we didn't really go anywhere with eachother or have the chance to. well after the second time we broke up, we were talking online and he was saying some pretty rude, mean things to me. i told my friends about it and none of them really like him for what he said. then a few days later, he asked if we could get back together saying how he would be a better boyfriend and stuff like that..
i have been thinking and i really do like him still, but do u think i should give him a THIRD chance?? and if so should i care what my friends say..
thanks..
no, you dont want a reltaionship where u keep breaking up. and plus if he asks to get back and u go back after he says mean things to u he knows he has the upper hand in the relationship. I would say move on, u can find way better!
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Hey. I'm having my boyfriend over on Satarday, I have the house to myself and everything, and I want to make him dinner, but I have no idea what to make!!! Does anyone have any ideas, or recipes???
make him sumthing cute like mac and cheese dont go all out but focus on the dessert!
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This weekend me and the gurls went to the movies. There was this guy there that i think is really cute. I dont plan on hooking up with him because i have a boyfriend and we are very much in love. Well, at the movies this guy just happened to be sitting next to me. My friends got up to go to the bathroom and i didnt which meant me and the guy we're sitting there all alone. I turned over and he gave me a kiss on the cheek. I was kinda shocked he would do that since he knew how much i really liked my bf. Then, the night went on and i wasnt even thinking about the whole kissing thing becuz after all he did kiss me i didnt kiss him... well after the movie ended i walked out of the theater and then i had to go back cuz i realized i 4got something. the guy was still there. i got my stuff then he put his arms around me and hugged me and kissed me on the cheek again. This time without even thinking i kissed him on the cheek back.. I wasnt even thinking about my boyfriend!! i am such a bad person!! i know most of u dont think of kissing some1 on the cheek a big deal but to me it is cuz i kno if my guy was kissing some gurl on the cheek i would be mad it him.. now i dont know what to do! I want to tell him but i know its going to hurt him and hes been hurt alot b4 this. But still think he should know. I have this guilt on my shoulders. If been avioding him since the whole incident... Should i tell him or not?
just tell ur bf that this guy tried to get with u and let ur bf get in the kids face cuz u did nuthin wrong, it was just a reaction, a kiss on the cheek doesnt mean nething
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omg ok i turned 15 in june & i've never "french kissed" any1..like wut tha hell..all my friends have and iduno..i've had so many boyfriends & almost all of them have wanted to make-out with me, but that's when i usually dump them and go hide b/c im soooo nervous...like i want to sooo badly but i'm scared..i don't know what to do, and i don't want to look dump b/c i'm a bad kisser or w/e..iduno..i'm seein this guy now..who i absolutely adore & i don't want to ruin it b/c i'm scared of my first kiss..i love him so much and he's 2 years older than me so i know he'll want to kiss..help..='(...i know after i get the first one over with i'll be fine..i'm just usually hesitant when it comes to doing things i'm unsure about..sorry its so long..i'm just upset & scared & confused..and i hope ya'll can be understanding and help me out..thanx
well just dont run away this time! the guy most likely will go for a kiss if hes 2 years older than u and just go along with it and follow his lead! after ur first kiss ull wonder why u were ever scared! hope it works out for u!
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ok me and my b/f have been going out 4 a while and i trust him with everything but recenly we have been talking about sex and he wants to and he said that if im not ready that its ok and that he will wait as long as i want to wait but i like wanna have sex with him but im kinda scared still so if any one could help me it would be greatly appcated
if u have the smallest doubt dont do it! it is something u truely should wait for until you are totally 110% sure about because the first time is so important to a girl and dont let it be something u regret
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whats a good way to get over someone? (ex boyfriend)
please help me! thanks!
i honestly have no idea cuz i still havent gotten over mine lol but basically surround urself with friends to help u fet ur mind off of him! Have girls nights out and dont worry bout finding a new bf yet, just give it time to get over this guy then move on!
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is it weird that i don't like anyone? i mean all my friends obsess over who they like, but i seriously can't think of anyone that i like. and im 14!
nope thats actually good! their minds are just on boys and u can focus on other things. No guy drama is the best thing in the world!
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Is 8 months a long time to go out with someone when your 14?
yeah, anything more than 2 weeks is long when ur 14 lol
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OK heres the thing me and my boyfriend have been going out for almost a year, and hes a grade younger than me, so next year ill be in a different school an im wondering if othr people are goin to make fun of me and stuff, i rlly like him but im afraid that it might ruin my reputaion, also im afraid wht will appen if he was to brake up wit me? will my reputaion be ruined forevr? PLEASE HELP ME!! I RATE HIGH!!
dont worry about what other people think! if u truely like him then dont worry bout it. But maybe if ur going to a new school go into it single and not have to worry about a younger bf at a different school.
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My bf jokes around with me all the time like he'll say
"your dumb" jk. Or eww who would want to go out with you? then he says no im jk your beatafull. (don't know how to spell it lol) Is he just flirting or is he really thinking that and just saying jk? we've been going out for 8 months and I really don't think he would say somthing like that. but tell me what you think!
hes just being playful dont worry! of course he doesnt mean it, if he did he wouldnt have dated u for 8 months already.
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Iam 18 years old and just got into a new relationship with an older guy. Hes 22. Im still a virgin and he isnt. He told me when and if Im ready to have sex with him then that will be an issue that we sit down and discuss. Iam very mature and know exactly what I want out of life. Im a great person..so Im told. I really do think that I am emotionally and physically ready to have sex. Its just that Im so self concious and think that I wont be any good. Not just at sex, but kissing and oral sex. I havent kissed a guy in 4 years and Im terrified to mess up. How should I handle this? How can I make myself feel better about this?
dont do anything you arent comfortable with! kissing comes naturally and then from there and wen ur more comfortable with the guy messing around wont be so weird but just wait til ur ready to do nething, dont let him push u!
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Okay Heres the deal:
I really like this boy in my grade and well I don't think he likes me like that. I think he likes the girl who I really really hate! I know the boys phone number but I'm too chicken to call and I never can ask my friends to call even though they know! Please Help Me!
call him! youll never get him if u dont let him know youre there! youll regret it later if you dont
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