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heeey people
so this is a bit confusing and sorry if this is long. i'm 14/f
july 2005 we moved and i went to a new school.in that school they teach classes from 1-12 grade so its basicly elementary middle and high school together. it's the worst school E.V.E.R no 1 likes it.
i hated everyone there except this one guy. he was the only one i liked and felt comfortable around. that time i was in 7th grade and he was in 8th grade. i looked at him a lot and then he started liking/loving me.
february 2006 he fell into a deep conversation with me. i was so nervous that i said really weird things and he thought i meant it in a bad way.he also told me he loved me. (and i know he did but i dont wanna explain all the details) so in march i FINALLY got the courage to applogize to him. i called him and i think he was nervous cause he didn't say that much but he said it's okay again. but still after that we ignored eachother and tried to make us jealous.
sometimes he talked to me was really nice but the next day he gave me the feeling that he hates me. that really sucked cause i love him so much.
anyways he also hated the school so he left it and now he goes to a different school. on the last day of school he didn't say anything to me not even good bye.i have to admit i also actet like i dont care. i cried so much when i got home. it was the worst day of my life.
i'm in 8th grade now and he's in 9th grade
so now he is gone but i think about him soo often and i love him so much. i know i do. and since then i saw him once cause he went to our school to see his friends i quess. but he didn't see me.
and i really just wanna talk to him again and apologize for everything. i just have his phonenumber but i dont know where he lives i dont know his e-mail or sn. and i also know where he goes to school. but i just dont have the courage to call him after everything that happened. please help i love him soo much. please dont tell me to get over him i really just cant i tried but it doesn't work. what should i do this makes me really depressed (link)
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If i was you I would get over my nevers and call him. Tell him you are sorry for everything that has happened. Then before you two hang up ask him if you can call him again sometime and see what he says. If he says yes, then he forgives you. But if he says no...well i rather not get into that. Just call him. You'll reget it more if you don't trust me...I know. hoped I help.
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14/m
There's a girl in 2 of my classes that looks at me and stares at me a lot. It doesn't bother me, it's not like she just stares at me constantly. Girls do this a lot, and girls tell me that I'm cute. This one girl that I notice, who I think is attractive, looks at me during class. I will be looking around during class and I will see her looking at me and then look away. We've talked before, but we're not friends. I have known her since 6th grade (11 or 12). People don't think I'm weird or anything, so they're not looking at me beacuse of that. Sorry if I worded it wrong, but it was hard to explain it, and sorry that it's long. But, do you think that she likes me? (link)
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I think that she likes she does like you, or why else would she look at you all the time. I know when I had a crush on this guy in class i would alwayz look at him whenever I could. So I think she does like you. hoped I helped
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I am really shy and my friend always takes guys i like because she thinks it's funny. She is really mean and I can hardly stand it. I am sooooo shy though and she isn't. She can talk to the guys easily, how do I do that? How do I become less shy and talk to people? (link)
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ok here is something i do everytime i want to talk to a hot guy. I get shy to, but I always talk about stuff that I know about. you know what i mean...like im really into music and i alwayz talk about that and guyz seem to like it and it alwayz breaks the ice. So talk about something you know. hoped I help.
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Right. This could be a bit long.
For the last few days/weeks, I have been thinking about having a baby. Me and my boyfriend are very happy and it definatly looks like we will be together for a long time. He has mentioned before bout kids and stuff. but I always said to him that I would but not yet. I am only 17 years old and I have got a 2 year course at collage coming up. also i dont know if he would actually want a kid yet.
but I have been thinking and I would really love to have a kid.
Can someone please help me change my mind because I know I'm to young to have a kid and I probly wouldn't be able to cope. Even though I'm pretty sure my mum would help me out if I did have a child.
Please help me change my mind because I really want a kid but I am only 17.
Any advise would be brilliant.
Thanks
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Ok I don't mean to be mean but you ae only 17 and want to go to collage, so if you have a kid how will pay for school? What happens if you and your boyfriend break up. My friend and her boyfriend wanted a kid and when she told him she was pregrant he left her. If you want to have a kid go for it and i wish you the best....but If i was you I would really think about it...and talk about it with your boyfriend before you have a kid. hoped I help.
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Hey everyone.
I recently met a really great guy named Collin about a week ago. Ever since we met, we've hung out together 2 times. He seems amazing & we talk on the phone every night. Problem is he's 23 years old & I'm 16. I know, I know - big problem. It sucks. I never thought my parents would ever make such a big deal out of something, especially age - since they started dating when my dad was 21 & my mom was 16.
Everyone in my family thinks it's a HORRIBLE idea. They all tell me it makes them feel sick that he's even wanting to be around people my age. He's in college & he's an all-around great guy that just seems to be interested in me. We're great when we're together & we don't push things on each other. It's just like a relationship where we have mutual feelings.
I have no idea where to go from this point on. Both of my parents said they don't want me to see him anymore. [I never in a million years thought they would EVER tell me I couldn't see someone.] I know if I sit down & talk to them, and try and change their minds, they may. I just have no idea what to say.
My eldest sister, whose 29 years old is super close to my parents, so she's of course giving her opinions on the situation, and they're all bad, like "She shouldn't see him!" & "I don't want to meet him - he's not coming to my wedding!" & all of those negative things.
Please help.
Although I will want to hear all of the reasons why I shouldn't continue a relationship, please give me some ideas to where I could continue it. I don't think I could end it right now, it just seems way too much for me.
Thanks in advance. (link)
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ok well if I was you i would tell your mom and that that when he was 21 and she was 16 so it is really the same thing. Then your going to be like how times were differnt back then and how thinks have change so much so here is what you do. You can come to an agreement with them, like hang out with him when their is other people around like your friends and/or when your parents are around and only when their around. That way you can still hang out with him and they can sleep better at night knowing nothing went on between you and him. hoped I helped.
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my boyfriend and i had been going out since febuary 17, 2004 so a little over 2 years, everything was perfect we were madly inlove and it was so nice and great he helped me when i needed him and he would help me everything he was my prince charming!!! but anyway one night we were at a big party my good friend had this summer it was in june like june 10th around then, but anyway and there is this girl who loves my old bf i mean she would do anything in her power to try to break us up. she pulled out a bottle and demanded we play spin the bottle! i didnt want to because i figured she mad it so it would land on him and of course it did he told her he would only kiss me and thats it! and she jumped on him and started making out with him the worst part was he started making out with her back and i know because i saw his tongue involved. after my friend pulled the girl off of my bf he stared at me and i just started crying i usually dont cry but something made me want to cry!!! he came by me and hugged me and i pushed him to the ground he tried to apologize but i didnt want to hear it my best guy friend came over and hugged me and told me that he was a jerk and that everything was going to be ok. i didnt talk to my bf the rest of the night then next day i checked my email and there was 10 emails all with the same subject i dont like her is what they all said, so i told him i finally forgave him and things were good for about a week then he invited me over and i decided to go biiig mistake when he came to the door i noticed his friends b. and j. were there with there girlfriends who i knew and we were friends it was all good and everything was going great until his neighbor (who is the girl i hate who loves him) came over she and him flirted the whole time in front of me and then if it didnt get anyworse she started kissing him and touchin his tush again he just let her do it but this time i threw this soccerball on the ground at them while they were kissing and slammed the door on my way out. he chased after me and grabbed me \"babe i\'m sorry she just kisses so well i cant stop!\" i smacked him across the face and tried to get him to let go of me but he wouldnt \"im not cheating on you i love you and you know that\" he said \"do i\" i snapped back and kicked him in the nuts and walked off he told me he was sorry but i told him that we couldnt go out anymore and its been 3 days since i told him we couldnt go out now he wont stop calling me sending me emails practically stalking me telling me hes so sorry and loves me and wont do it anymore but i dont know i have to admitt i still love him but i dont want to be hurt anymore i really miss him but i dont like being treated like this please tell me what you think (link)
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ok the one thing you can't do is forgive and forget. He has done this twice to you. What you need to do is no give in to the phone calls and the e-mails. My best frind her boyfriend cheater on her and when she found out they broke up. he kept on calling and e-mailing her and when she finally gave in and talk to him on the phone and there back together. But they have broken up five or six times he he keeps on cheating on her but she gives in to the phone calls and keeps on going back. My point is if you give in he MIGHT do it again. Just don't give in, it will hard but if i was you i couldn't give in. hoped i help.
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OK so theres a guy, hes a year younger than me (im a sophomore, hes a freshman) and I like him. I really dont know him well at all. I dont have his sn, and ive asked ppl they dont have it either. I see and talk to him at church, so I can prob. get his sn from him. How soon is it to ask for a cell phone number? And what r some things I can do that could get him to like me .. i wanna be myself and im not a huge flirty person .. and im not especially pretty. idk what to do .. but i really want this guy to like me. pleaseee help. (link)
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just keep on talking to him bout stuff u like and have in common. If u wanna ask him for hi sn just do it. try not to be shy. if he likes you he will like you 4 u. hope i helped.
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15/F Alright, so I have been dating this guy, ryan, for about 6 months. I can honestly say that I LOVE him. Bu, lately he has been acting distant, strange. I was talking to a girl online and as soon as he found out I was talking to her he made me stop. It's just weird. And This may be a little TMI but the last time we were doing "things" He just stopped and said, "I can't do this." He's never done rhis before, What do you guys think, and any advice on how i may be able to figure out if he is? (link)
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i think he might be cheating and if he is, you need to catch him. But the bad part it might take a while. If he has a cell see who has been calling him and see who he has been calling. hope i helped.
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Well i kinda got this girl that i like but then i hang with her brother alot cause he's like my best friend and we always hang out i mean i go camping with his family every year and then i realized that i kinda like his sister and his sister is my age i mean we have so much fun together when were camping and just love hanging out but i dont know how this would set with her brother but i do really kinda like her but i dont know how she feels but some of my friends have said we flirt alot... what should i do? Ask her out or not? (link)
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ok before u ask her out, talk with her brother and see if he is cool with u 2 going out. if he is then ask her if she likes you more then a friend. and if she says yea then ask her out. hope i helped.
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kay so theres this boy i like. He knows I like him and people say by the way he talks to me you can tell he likes me too.
The thing is I dont know what to do...What should I do? Does anyone have ideas? (link)
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If i were you i would ask him if he likes you as more then a friend. Be stright with him, and just go for it. good luck!!
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Ok, So I am 13 years old and since May 2005, I have found myself madly in love with no other than a 20 year old McDonalds worker. He has started to open up a little more in the past couple of months, and he gives me lots of hugs, flirts, and shows all the "signs" of love back. Yet he has never told me. This week we are supposed to go to the movies. My question is, Should I open up and tell him I love him or should I just wait until he does? (link)
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ok not to sound mean or anything but you are 13 and he is 20 and if anyone tells you to open up then they are stupid.I know they say age doesn't matter and it is only a number but in this case you should really think it though. he is 20 and still working ast McDonalds, not to sounf mean but that nothing to bring home to mom and dad. I think you should find someone your own age. because you can do way better then at 20 year old working at Mcd's!
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Ok so im only 13 but im in love i've been with this guy he's 15 i've known him since i was 3 he asked me to marry him because he said he loves me what should i do (link)
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ok 1st ur 13 and he is 15 so ur both just a little to young to get married. I think it is great that you both love eachother but if i were i wouldn't rush into anything too fast. You should really date a little longer and if you still feel the same then get married. Wish you the best!
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Ok, so theres this guy and I like him. He flirts with me a lot, but idk if it's intentional or not. We have a really small class and I'm the only girl he admits being friends with. We used to talk a lot. He told me he thought I was the prettiest girl in our class {but keep in mind we have a super small class}. Then, I wanted to go out and he pretty much said no bc he thought I was ugly. Since, then we're still friends, but I have no self esteem. Guys give me compliments, but it doesn't matter bc I always think back to what that guy said. I'm just confused because there's always "accidents" in which he'll hit my ass or boob, but I'm the only girl it happens to with him. Everyone thinks he likes me and that I like him. I just don't know what to do, I moved on but then he kept coming back and flirting so, what should I do? sorry its long, I do rate!! (link)
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ok 1st off hun, it doesn't matter if you have a small or big class he called you pretty! why he called you ugly maybe it it because he really does like you but doesn't want you to know it. I think he really does like you because why else would he grab ur ass or boobs? I think you ask him if he likes you more as a friend. be stright with him and he should be stright with you.
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At school I've liked this girl for a while, and some of my friends have found out that she might like me too. I was going to ask her out, but then I found out that she is getting married soon. It's not a lie because, I'm guessing that is what her family believes in. Although she might not be getting married for maybe a couple of years, should I still ask her out? (link)
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boy tough one! I think you should ask her if she is getting married, and if she says yea, then you shouldn't ask her out because if it is a family thing you don't want to disrecpect her family.
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Me and this guy were kind of dating then he stopped liking me cause he met some other girl. Now, he is coming back to me and wants to have what we had before. I don't like him, the only reason why I would get back with him was to kiss him cause I have never been kissed before. What should I do? Go along with it and get kissed... how could I do that? Or just totally forget about him? (link)
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if some guy leaves you because he thinks he found something "better" then you but then came to his senses that it wasn't what he wanted...hunny you could do so much better. if i was you i would want my 1st kiss to be with a guy who liked me for me.
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