The name is Kayla.
I'm totally cool with giving anyone advice. It's what I love to do. So ask away.
Hm. I'm 16. Brownish - red hair .. green/blue eyes .. 5 ft.
I love life. I've experienced many things in it.
Live it to the fullest, but never regret .. you can never take back anything you've done.
E-mail: KaylaH1303@yahoo.com
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Location: Georgia
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Age: 16
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Okay My names Kristen 17/f...I'm in a relationship with a guy who's father abuses him..the thing is my boyfriend is just letting this go like nothing happens. I'm scared that his father could get more mad and seriously hurt him..I've tried to talk to him about it and tell him how I've felt but he just says to not worry about it. I mean how can I not? I love this guy with all my heart I can't loose him!!! Please I need help please :-( (link)
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You know, he can tell you not to worry about it all he wants to, but it's more than likely because he's too scared of what will happen if the police do find out. I think you need to let him know that you have to go to the police and let him know your reasons for why you want to go .. such as you loving him and how you don't want him to be hurt anymore than he is right now. Just let him know .. reassure him that things will be alright and do what you think is right. I hope I helped!
-Kayla
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15/f...i went out with this guy ive been best friends with since sixth grade and were now in 9th and so it was a few months and everything was perfect and i just told myself everything was wrong but it wasnt and so i broke up with him for no reason at all i was just like its over.. and so its been about two months and he went out with this other chick and they broke up and now i realize what a big mistake ive made and we were BEST friends we told each other everything and after he wouldnt even look at me and the past week ive been just trying to make small talk and he'll talk to me and he gives me that look like " make it better please" but he doesnt act like that you know?..i want him back so bad i miss him soo much but i dont expect that i just want it to be the way it was before and .. (link)
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You know, it's obvious that he really, really liked you and you really hurt his feelings when you broke up with him, but honestly the only thing you really can do is either start hanging out with him and talking to him a lot again or just flat out tell him how you feel. Tell him why you broke up with him and how you realized you really did like him and it hurts to know that ya'll aren't together. See how he responds .. he may say that he doesn't want to be with you again because you'll break his heart, but just ask him for a second chance. Hope I helped!
-Kayla
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hey. i'm from guam and like there's this guy who likes me and i like him back, so we went out for a few months and then we broke up. because he still had feelings for his old girlfriend who dumped him. is it ok if i can still like him and think about him and still wanna go out with him? (link)
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Personally, I do think it's okay, but it isn't healthy. It isn't healthy to like a guy who you know doesn't like you as much as his ex. ((Reason being why ya'll aren't dating)). &I think it is only fair to you to let him go .. slowly, but let go. Because chances are .. he isn't turning back around. I'm really sorry about that!
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i have a girlfriend and we have done smooches and physical contacts. but she isnt ready to do sex. tell me what shud i do to make her do so with me?????? (link)
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You know, I don't think it's a true relationship if what you want from her is sex and you are on here to figure out a way for her to give it.
I do think that if she hasn't given it to you yet, she just isn't ready to do that. &I think you should respect that .. because with respect comes trust .. &with trust comes you two agreeing on more thing .. sex may be one eventually. Just keep talking to her about it.
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i like this boy and I think he likes me. like when we play dogde ball he tries to get me it or get me out.or when we play kick ball he always tries to get me out, but I went out with him before and now I'm scared he'll say no. and then tell everybody I asked. What should I do? (link)
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You know, you will never know how he feels about you unless you tell him. Live your life without regrets, don't worry too much about what you think might happen. That's one of my biggest flaws, but in the end, I just tell the guy the truth. You know. Even if he doesn't like you back, at least you know to quit trying and move on. It'll feel like a load off your shoulders. Trust me.
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I think my boyfriend of 4yrs is racist. And i think the race that he hates happens to be mine. I've been crying about it for hours! Is that even possible? What should i do? (link)
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Well, I guess all I can think to say is this:
1) If he was racist, you wouldn't just be finding out about it 4 years later.
2) If he was racist against your race, he wouldn't be dating you because if he didn't like that race, then he definitely wouldn't like you.
3) Stop crying, everything is fine and if you keep on worrying, then talk to him about it. Ya'll should have a close enough relationship to talk about things like that. Esp. after 4 years.
Hope I helped!
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1) what is the difference between making out and kissing i thought that making out is just when you do it for a long time but im not sure
2) what does bi mean (link)
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1) making out is kissing for a very long period of time with tongue and everything.
2) bi is when someone likes guys and girls.
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I am 14, in ninth grade, and I am female.
Okay, first I'm going to give a little backround information.
I had a boyfriend that tried to cheat on me with his ex girlfriend. I knew that I couldn't trust him ever again, so I broke up with him yesterday. Don't worry, I feel really good about it.
Well, a few days ago, I found out from one of my friends that another friend of mine, Ricky, likes me. At first, I wasn't sure I could trust the friend that told me, T.J., because T.J. is weird like that. Then, my best friend Megan told me yesterday that Ricky has liked me for a long time.
My question is, is it okay to go ahead and date Ricky so soon after dumping my previous boyfriend?
~ClarinetKtM (link)
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Of course, I mean, you dumped your ex bf because he was cheating on you. Now you have every right to date someone else. Go ahead! It will be alright! -Kayla
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Me and my boyfriend have been going out for 7 months and we always have a good time when we are together and he does the littlest things that are so sweet and at times he just can really gett on my nerves.. hes constantly going to this girls house named whittney. but i guess he also plays ditch and then goes there. and these 2 girls were over at his house a couple days and ago and i dont remember very much but i think he said something about them hangin in his room.. but i dont know it was jus him n them in the house and all the sudden hes breakin out street lights and gettin the cops called on him for goin on pplz property late at night and makin loud noises wen playin ditch the hole ditch thing doesnt bother me but he is eggin houses and stuff but wen i did ask him if he was doin that just to b cool and try n fit in with other ppl.. but he jus sed he hadda go.. last night i asked if people say he flirts with others and he says people do say he does flirt but he doesnt know he's flirting.. so do i trust him? and alot of people say they dont know how me and him have held on so long.. my brothers are constantly telling me that.. its hard to let go of a long relationship and you may no that (link)
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I do think that you have a trust issue with him. And for a long relationship this isn't good, because they are built mainly on trust and love. I definitely think that you have every right not to trust him, but on the other hand, he isn't doing anything bad with him, so most likely they are just friends. Plus, if he wanted to just be a single guy with lots of girls that he can have then he wouldn't be with you, so there has to be a reason why he is still with you. And those little, sweet, cute things he does for you, I'm guessing he doesn't know how to show that he loves you without doing things for you and with the girls maybe sometimes he misses you or he just wants to be with friends at times. I say just trust him and if he find he is cheating on you then definitely ditch him but ONLY if you know for sure that he is. Otherwise, keep him, he sounds good for you and also if you are still having these issues later on, then just confront him about it all. Say sweetie, I don't understand why you are always with these girls, I don't know, it just confuses me and I don't really like the feeling. But ask them what those girls mean to him and by the way, some people are like that, they don't mean to flirt, but do anyways. Don't worry about it, that's just how some people are. I wouldn't be too worried, but if this gets worse I definitely advice confronting him if you already haven't. If you need any other advice just put it in my inbox! -Kayla
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ok well theres this guy that im really starting to like. the problem is, i dont know him all that well. he goes to my school, but i dont see him that often. im also a little shy so im not gonna just go up to him and flirt.. any advice would be greattttly appreciated! thanks! =) (link)
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Maybe, you should try finding out if any of your friends are his friends and try to get a little group date together so you can hang out with him. Then have your friend introduce the two of you and talk to eachother. If you go to a movie, sit next to him. Or, if you go to bowling or something like that then sit next to him while you wait for your turn to bowl. Just do things like that so you can eventually end up talking to him and become one of his friends and see where it goes from there.
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ok well me and my boyfriend went out off and on for nine months last year and this year he doesn't even talk to me. i like him so much and i never really stopped liking him and the only reason why we really broke up this summer was because i was going out of town and i was going to be hangin out with some of my guy friends that i haven't seen in a while, well i told him that he could trust me while i was there and he could because i didn't do any thing. i called him a couple of times over the summer and we talked a little while i was there. but now i was talking to his friend and i asked if he thought that he hated me and he said no just ya'll don't have a friend ship. since the beginning of the year i've had a boyfriend and he saw me with him. what should i do? should i still like him or just not even try with this one.... (link)
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I think you should quit liking him. I mean if you don't even have a friendship with him, then how can you have a relationship. You have to build your friendship back up with him first and you really need to talk to him. Just go up to him one day and be like hey! I haven't talked to you in a while and just start a conversation like that. Build up the bond again, but still keep the boyfriend. If he saw you with him, oh well, I mean come on, he is your boyfriend. He may be jealous and then again he may not be. Just get the friendship back and if yall do still get along like you used to, then keep liking him. Otherwise, just quit, he isn't worth it. -Kayla
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Ive been dating my girlfriend for 10 months now. The last few months have been a bit rocky, but things were really starting to get alot better, atleast on my end. Not on hers though. She wants to take a break, because shes starting to fall out of love with me. I don't think there is really anything that I can do to change her mind...its all up to her..She says there is a possibility that things will get better, and that she may fall back in love with me, but I dont really know....Is it possible to fall out of love with someone, then fall back in love with them? (link)
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Kind of, I think that you think that you are falling out of love with someone when really you don't realize how much you love them until you take a break. Maybe this is why she is taking a break so she can realize this and realize how much you meant to her and no one can be as perfect for her as you are. Hope this helped. -Kayla
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HI,
Here's the story. I met a guy online from some site and we met up with eachother but only once. Hes a great guy and when we met, It didnt go well but regardless of that we decided to continue with this and see where it goes in the future knowing fully well that it may end badly considering hes Bengali and his folks want a Bengali girl but he said u never know so I didnt give up hope. hes from Montreal, we started calling eachohter and talking etc.. then all of a sudden I dont hear anything from him etc. and then I contact his friend. and it continues from there.
I have been contacting his friend regarding THE GUY.. and he said that when he tried talking to him he didnt want to talk about it. I don't understand why he would act like that. I have been nothing but nice to him. Yes, I've been a bit crazy with the emails and stuff..asking him what is the status of our relationship. But that was in the past. You would think that knowing what I have done that he would be more accepting. He emailed me once and told me this: You don't need to worry about me too much. I have some family issues that I need to deal with. I will talk to u later. and after that I got no response. Those messages I sent were before he sent that message to me. I don't understand why hes got to be soo secretive that he can't even share things with me.. His friend tells me: Do you think you should hold on to him especially if hes not responding to you? I don't really know what to do.. its hard lettting go.. especially whenever I hear from his friend. I somehow subconciously beleive that there is hope when I hear from his friend.. I dunno. I think im crazy.. wat do I do? pls help
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Ok! My personal opinion is that he doesn't want to become more attatched to you then he already is because his parents are not allowing you two to see eachother. Therefore, the only way he knows how to do this is to not speak to you and he wanted to let you know that the reason for this was because his parents won't let him date you and that makes him very upset. I'm guessing he doesn't know any other way of dealing with this. -Kayla
Ok . . . I'm adding to my answer. Maybe you should try writing him a letter or something telling him exactly how you feel and ask him what is really going on because your going crazy not knowing and you'd rather know if he didn't like you then keep on wondering. Hope this helps! -Kayla
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Hey. Alright, this guy really likes me and no one has ever liked me like that before..people keep telling me to go out with him because he likes me and even if i dont like him, i should just "settle." Well, yea, um, i don't think thats right and im curious what your opinions are on that. Plus i really like this other guy but it would never work out for different reasons, and the guy thats likes me is sort of experienced and im..not..i want to save all my firsts for someone i really like. Should i just settle for the guy who likes me? Is it stupid to wait for someone i really like? (link)
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I think that you shouldn't go for a guy just because he likes you. If you don't like him like that then it isn't fair for you to do that to him. That happened to me last year and I was friends with this one guy and all these people were telling me to date him because they thought he was hot, but I only thought of him as a friend, then I got to thinking about it and realized it was totally wrong to do that to him, because it would hurt his feelings and I'd rather tell him no thanks then lead him on and make him like me more so in the end he gets hurt more. My advice, don't go out with the guy just because he likes you. -Kayla
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lastnight 8 of us went to my friend stephen's house and then chili's and a movie and this guy robbie that likes me invited me and so at the movie he sat next to me and put his arm around me and he told my friend that he was sure he liked me last night but then today his AIM didnt work and so he had to put up away messages for me to read bc i was like hey and i didnt know his AIM wasnt working. so then his away message was like im sorry then another was like i just feel like we have nothing in common. then he signed off. and then i was talking to my friend and she said that robbie is not good at talking with girls and now he is thinking about if he likes me or not. and then i was talking to my friend eric and i was like i dont think robbie likes me anymore. hes like he likes u. and then he was like he just isnt good at talking with girls but i talked to him about it dont worry. so now i dont know what to do like if he likes me or not/ if he doesnt he shouldnt lead me on and like put his arm around me? (link)
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I think this Robbie guy does like you, but I also think that he is shy and doesn't know how to tell you he likes you. If his friend said he talked to him about it, then your good. If you aren't sure though, you need to talk to him about it, either call him or write him a note or something, or if his AIM is working, then ask him online. Just ask him if your worried, but I don't think you should be. I think he really does like you. -Kayla
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I went through a break up a couple months ago and haven't seen this guy until last weekend. i was trying to be strong and not hook up with him again cuz it took me so long to get over him the first time around, but i just went for it because i missed him. all my feelings for him came back but he lives across the country (im in cali, he moved from cali to jersey) so i only get to see him during holidays and stuff. i have this feeling we were meant to be together and i can't let it go-at the same time its torture for me.
how the hell am i supposed to get over him again im in so much pain. a little help guys how do you get over an ex? (link)
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This guy you may never completely get over, but try dating other guys to get your mind off of him. It will get you to thinking of other guys, rather than thinking of him constantly. Plus, you will have lots of fun. Hope this helps, well, I know this helps for almost any girl. -Kayla
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I'm like, OMG, in LOVE with this guy, but like, he is just a FRIEND, and I have a boyfriend, but this guy is like THE ONE!! (link)
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OMG WOW TELL ME ALL ABOUT IT PLEASE! I CAN GIVE YOU GREAT ADVICE YOU KNOW!! haha good one! -Kayla
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ok i need ur help on something my boyfriend asked me to marry him and im only 17 bout to be 18 an im a girl but i like him and all and im preg. with his baby i just dont know what to do because if i do my dad isn't going to want anything to do with me anymore and if i dont then my dad will still alow me to be in my family but my dad doesn't like him and i dont know why not he is a sweet heart and i love him with all of my heart and everytime i go out with someone my dad never likes them and i dont see why not because he hasn't even got to meet my boyfriend yet he has meet him once and that is to only say hi but please i dont know what to do can you please help me out a little i would really appriciate that
Tosha (link)
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I really think you need to take time to think about whether or not you want to marry this kid and if you come to the conclusion that the answer is yes then you need to sit your dad down and explain to him that whether or not he likes him he is still going to have to put up with him because you are pregnant with his kid and you would really love for him to meet the guy that asked you to marry him because he means a lot to you and you want him to give him a chance and ask your dad why he doesn't like him. Then try to maybe have a dinner with all of yall together. Hope I helped. -Kayla
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Yeah, I think everyone knows about Daniel, and I have a question bout him...how do i deal with it? I mean I like him a lot, but how do i get to know him better? Like, I try to talk to him, but he doesn't carry on a conversation with me or anything. I dunno...what should i do? (link)
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Please tell me about Daniel.
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i already told my friend like a couple of weeks ago that he likes me but she doesnt know i like him..i need help with ideas of how to tell her (if nething happens if we go out or w/e) that im sorry or something..im gonna come up with ideas tonite cuz im a loser lol..but thats just because i really care about my friends and hurting thier feelings .. lol
xoxoo (link)
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I don't know who you are talking to, but I answered your question. I think that you need to just be forward with her and let her know that you like him by like saying, (whatever her name is), look I really like him and I know you like him too and I don't want to hurt your feelings in any way, but he really means a lot to me and I won't hook up with him if you are going to get mad at me, but I really think me and him could be something and I know you also like him and this is why I'm saying that I won't hook up with him if you are going to get mad because I care about my friends more than guys and I'm not going to let a guy get between us, but I really need to know what you think of all this. I really don't want you mad at me and this is why I'm coming to you with this before I say anything to anyone else. Please tell me what your thinking about this whole idea, because I really like him and I really need to know. Hope I helped. -Kayla
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