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Q: Ok what do you when you like the same guy that your total BFF loves. She is absolutly in love with him. He knows, that I like him and that she likes him. But he does not like her. Actually, he hates her. But she doesn't know that I like him. PLease please help!!!!!
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I'm having this same situation right now oddly enough. I've talked to some of my other really good friends.. and they've told me that don't let guys come in between you. It's hard though if you really like him to try and forget about him. But go with your heart. If he doesn't like her then you have a better shot with him. but if you are afraid of losing a friend don't go for it!
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Q: ok i broke up w/ this girl and i really wish i hadnt and we still like each other-alot-but she made a vow not to go back out w/ me even though she still likes me or anyone until next year, but she may forget the feeling so should i ask her out or keep going on? i rate VERY HIGH!
thanks,
~fellow advicenator~
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What are you waiting for? Go for it already. If you truly like her and she likes you, there should be no reason why you two aren't together.. And here's a little tip.. when girls say they'll never go back out with you.. there always lying!! there always dying to go back out with you!!
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Q: hiii.
kay well. Im 14 and im a girl. Boys are so inmature now a days. All the guys I go out with are not good boyfriends. All they say to me is " your hot" And I really want a really long good relationship. I know thats not really possible at my age but i see it all the time. I want a guy who loves me for me and does all those cute little sweet things. Ive had a couple in the past like that but they turned out to be ass holes.
Why cant I find that type of guy?
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Most of those guys turn out to be the hot guys. I hate to say it.. but it happens to all of us girls. We find a guy we really like, and he's cute but he turns out to be an asshole.. or he'll want you to be with him for different reasons. there's no true way to find out how a guy is. unless you get to know him first before you start dating him. Try looking around at different types of guys.
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Q: i dont no wut my problem is but i fall in love with bad boy type boys who turn out to b assholes . now i got with a nice boy nd its annoying i wunt to break up with him . i thnk mayb its bcuz i meet this badboy type boy . im i weird ? lol . shuld i try to stick it out with him or wut shuld i do ?
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If you really don't like him.. then break up with him. He's seems like he's not your type. So if you really aren't into him, and you want to find a badboy.. i say go for it!!!
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Q: okay i like this guy and hes a freshman n im an 8th grader we tlk on the fone alot! and like ughh...i like him SOOOO much! he says the right things at the right moments! and we get along great! im gonna see him this friday...hopefully but im really shy in person...not on the fone tho...wat do i do?!
...help!
i rate high btw!
13.f
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Don't be shy. If you both like each other and are comfortale around each other.. go for it!! Just talk to him like you do on the phone. I'm a really shy person to.. but when i'm on the phone i talk someone's ear off. I deal with it by just trying to talk like i'm on the phone. Be yourself and if he likes you everything will turn out right!!!
Jenny
P.S. let me know how it goes??
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Q: Me and my boyfriend have been going out for almost three months. He lives a town away from me, but we still barely ever see each other, and for some reason he barely calls anymore. What do i do to make myself feel better about the relationship?
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Try calling him once and a while.. and just think about the good in your relationship and not that you live away from each other or he doesn't call! maybe he's not calling cause he's busy or he really just hasn't gotten the time! so just see how things go for both of you.. and i'm sure that sometime soon your going to get a suprise call from him!!
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Q: I have a boyfriend at this moment in time. We have been going out for almost three months. As of a few weeks ago I started realizing that I have feelings for my ex, and I'm jealous of my exes girlfriend. What should I do?
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Well since he is your ex.. you obvisouly had something with him but it didn't work out.. & now you have feelings for him.. and it's probaly because he has a girlfriend.. many girls get jealous even if there dating someone. because they don't want him to be happy because he dumped her or you just broke up! I have a feeling this jealously thing will go away.. and u'll realize that you don't like him anymore.. so just wait it out! that's what love is.. a waiting game!!
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Q: i'm 13.. and i'm a girl. this sounds really dumb but how do you make out? :(
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well making out isn't sumthin that you can really explain how to do... you just go with the flow.. if your partner knows what he is doing follow him..
*jeN
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Q: Okay me and my boyfriend have been dating for 10 months now. Well I've stayed at he's house for the past 2 weeks straight, only been home 2x. My boyfriend loves that I stay there. He feels closer to me and he loves that feelings of having me around to make him happy and when he wakes up he LOVES to see my face sleeping next to hes..but ya whatever I have a problem though. He's little brother is really mean to me (only when he's friends are around) and he says I look like shit and I need to go home this isnt my house and im lazy and just bullshit. Plus he has a friend named trevor which is ALWAYS ALWAYS around him and he never leaves. he acts like its hes house and he tries to tell me to leave but i've been around way longer than him and I hate it soooo much, but im not going to go home because my boyfriend don't want me to..so what should I do about the other 2 guys and don't say "try to ignore them" cause trust me i have already tried that many of times.
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Talk to your boyfriend..If he wants you there maybe he can shut them up and have them leave you alone!!!!!
*jEn
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Q: Well I really love this boy.. and i think he likes me but how do I know if he does..??
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YOu can always talk to him about it! IF you really want to know how he feels just tell him how you feel.
*jEn
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Q: i have a bf and he is the first 1 and i realy realy love him and we were walkin in the halway talkin and he kissed me on the cheek, i wanna kiss him but i dont kno when the right time is. can you please help me?
*Cassy*
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I think the right time is when you feel you really want to kiss him. I mean kissing isn't bad!! I think kissing you can do whenever whereever!!
*jEn
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Q: I like this guy, Jared. He is my friend, but i dont know how i can get him to like me that way. Im a very out going person and well usually, thats how i get my guys. But he is different. I dunno its just all so frustrating. PLease help!!
I rate
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Well if you know how to get guys, use that on him. Yea... he's your friend but that should make it easier! But do whatever you feel that could get him!!
*jEn
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Q: I am so in love with my girlfriend. She is amazing and everything I need her to be. But this summer I have the choice to move away to Philly with my father (which I been wanting for years) to get away from my mother. And I will be getting paid to play basketball there. But my girlfriend will still be here and I don't want to leave her cause I know we would have a great future together if I stay and I know things won't be the same even if I do come and visit a lot. What do you guys think I should do?
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If you really want to go live with your father i'm sure she would understand. There are always long distance relationship's. And there are many ways to talk to each other these days. During the summer and that you 2 could still see each other!!
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Q: A couple months ago me and this guy got together. Turns out he said he just wants to be friends. Anyway, Im going to see him next week he lives in west virgina i live in north carolina. When I say get together I dont mean go out I mean we just act like a couple. Anyway, I was talking online and I was like "I cant wait to see you I mean see all of you guys" and he was like "yeah I cant wait to see you either" does this mean he wants to "be with me" again? and not just friends?
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That's kind of tricky because you never know what guys are thinking. Maybe just play it out when you see him and see what he wants. If he wants to "be with you" and you want to be with him go for it!!
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Q: My 7th grade class is going on a school trip to Lake Compounce in Conneticut. It is on June 16th and (this may sound weird but...) I want to GO with someone (as in a DATE) I am not sure what to do. Should I drop hints, or ask? Ask one of ym guy friends and tell them I want to go as friends? Or tell them it is a date? Please help!
Also although we usually have a dress code we can wear w/e we want (I am going to wear a bikini under my clothes) but I am not sure what to wear. I want to dresss attractively, but not sluty.
I WILL RATE 5'S FOR ALL ANSWERS!
(As long as it is not retarded)
THANKS!
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It sounds like fun! If you don't feel comfortable asking someone else ask one of your guy friends. If you feel comfortable saying it's like a date tell them! don't be scared! and when you get a date..you'll have a better time!!You should wear your bikini under your clothes. You can wear clothes and not be slutty!
*jEn
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Q: Alright! I really like this boy and he thought we broke up because i didn't reallt talk to him because when i sit near my friends and with him, i am more tempted to talk to my friends. well, he broke up with me and asked this other girl out who he said was annoying. My brother was talking to him and he told him that he broke up with me because he thought that if he went out with me for a long time, i would talk to him more but i didn't realize it. He said he doesn't hate me but he wants to be my friend. How do I get him to like me agtain????
I rate high!!!!!
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Well with my friends i've noticed if you start to like someone else the boy you went out with will get jealous and he will come back to you. My friend dated this guy for 8 months and they broke up and then she liked someone else and he sprung back to her. He loved her then! If you really want to get back with him maybe start liking someone else!
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Q: i dont no what to do. my best friend/the guy i love. that "loves" me back. is moving to bosten(i live in ny) and i go to him "are you ever gonna come back to me"? nd he said no. then i asked him if he would forget me and he said yea. then i asked when ur like 23 nd out of collage are you gonna come back to me, nd he said no i will forget you. i dont no what to do im so sad. i cryed alot about it cuz i really really really love him. and now hes moving in 2 weeks. im crying right now. im gonna miss him alot, nd he is going to forget me. someone please tell me what to do. i need help
I RATE HIGH.
- confused
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WOW!! Well first of if someone LOVES you they will never forget you. No matter what they say. He's probaly just saying all of this because it is really easy for him to let you go. Not because he wants to but because he has to! You'll obvisuly never forget him and that is all that matters. When he moves call him some times. See how he's doing. There are many ways to keep in touch. Trust me...if he really loves you, he will never forget you!!!
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Q: ok, so recentally i have been crushing on one of my friend's brother. I know she is really protective of him and i dont know if i should tell her or not. what should i do?
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Talk to her about it! It may be very akward but you know what you'll never know how she feels about it until you talk to her!
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Q: I have been talking to this guy (we'll call him chris) and his friend (lets call him anthony) has been calling me and stuff. They are like brothers. Chris had asked me to go to the movies but i said i couldnt. and Anthony asked me to the movies too and i told him i couldnt either but i invited anthony to a softball game...and chris got mad at me and anthony. i dont know if chris likes me or something. and if he does i dont wanna mess up their friendship but i really like Anthony...what should i do?
*ill give u a 5 ranking* thanks
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I say if you really like Anthony then go for it. Yes, Chris will get mad but you can't help it that you don't like him! Make yourself happy! If you don't then you'll be with no 1!! Life's to short to wonder about if someone else would be mad!
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Q: ok.... well i have been going out w/ this boy for about 4 months now and i really love him alott!!!! so i am 14 and goin into high school and yaa. so and latley my boyfriend has wanted to go to 3rd base w/ my (down muh pants) i no he is ready and i trust him but i dont now if im still to young or if i should jus do it or wait mann i am so confused ill rate 5
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If you truly ready for him to do that and you believe he is ready then go for it! If you are confused and aren't sure... wait a while! there's no rush!!
*jEn
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mmm.. well i'm 15 years old! i go to Alan B. Shepard. I am now a Sophmore!!! yay!! i Love softball, singing, dancing (when no 1 is watching), hanging wit friends!!! I am a Chad Michael Murray-acholic and i REFUSE to go to rehab!! I am also in love with the t.v. show ONE TREE HILL!!! if you wanna know anything else just ask!!
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Gender: Female Location: Illinios Occupation: student Age: 15 AIM: Member Since: June 6, 2005 Answers: 51 Last Update: November 22, 2005 Visitors: 5601
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