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Q: This girl likes me, and i like her, but she is not sure if she wants to go out with me, but it seems like we are still goin out and all, we kiss and hug and hang out like everyday, she says i dont have to wait for her, but i want to cause i think i like love her and shit

What should i do?

just tell her how you fell and like that ull wait as long as it takes and just let her know how much u love her and mabe she just is sayin that b*c she is afraid that u dont love her so just go and tell her how much you do mabe it`ll help...just b strait ^...ok hope i helped!..
-x3 Jessie!

Q: Ok well...theres this boy i like and he says he likes me back and all my friends say he likes me back too but idk i just dont see it. lik he laughs with other girls and when we are together..we just lik dont talk that much. i mean i lik him alot. and we're going to homecoming together. so i just dont know what to do..

me-

Ok if he dont talk to yah much mabe it is b-cuz he is shy or just shy around you b-cuz he lieks yah and if ur goin to homcomng toegther thn he lieks you lol...g.l hope i helped!..
x3-JessiE!

Q: im the person that wrote about me and my boyfriend takin a break well he finally called sunday and he did cheat on me. So we broke up sunday nite. Well i really didnt talk to him at all monday in school and Monday nite i wrote him a real long letter explaining to him how i felt and all that. I even told him that i loved him in the letter and just all that. Well he read it tuesday and we talked and then today we skipped skool and we hung out all day and he told me that he thought about my letter and that even yesterday he thought about me. Im just wondering tho am i really dumb to sit there and talk to him or am i just a girl who is madly in love wit a boy. Im really sorry that this is soo long but i just need sum advice

ur in lOvE hun!!!!!!..go for it...nd gOod luck!..hope i helped!..
x3 always-Jessie!

Q: Ok there are this guy lets call him bob well he likes me... His nice and sweet and kinda cute in his own way but i dont want to be mean cause there is this guy in are class (all three of us have the same class) and he likes me too... Ok that might sound confusing... but Well bob is asking me out tomorrow and i dont know if i should say yes cause i dont want to hurt the other guys feelings... Well please help

ok if yah like "bob" thn go for it and if the othur guy says ne thing say ur sorry but u really like hym and u like hym t2 but not in tht way mabe itll work mabe not but try it!..hope i helped!..
x3-Jessie

Q: Well i like this girl who lives in a diffrent town about 45 min away, we have told each other how we feel about each other, but everytime that i am with her i cant seem to spend 1 on 1 time with her. I know many people from that town so when ever i go down i am always with them too. but i realy like this girl and want to be with her.
how do i make it work out?

make time for eachothur like once a week one of yah go to tha othur house or sumpin liek that just try and talk it out!..hope i helped!..
[Jessie]

Q: hey do you have any tips on making out? how long does it usually last? will the guy usually feel you up? please answer my questions! thanks a bunch

wow..lol wel lets see it is just like french kissing and it only lasts alil bit usually it really depends on who it is and idk if they will try or do ne thing else it really depends on tha guy i am sorry that is all i can say lol..i hope i helped alil bit!..
xO-jessie

Q: I'm not sure but how can you tell the difference of love and like.Because i like or love this one boy but i dunno if i love him and most my friends tells me i do even one of my teachers! so my question is how do you know when u love someone and how do you know if they love you back?thanks in advance for even concidering to read this.

ok whn you love sum1 u know bcuz u r always thinking of em and you cant picture you life with out em and you just wannah spend your life with them!...and tha way yah know if they feel tha same way yah ask em lol...that is tha best way or just even how they loOk @ you sumtymes you kan just tel...i hope i helped!..
*xOx*[Jessie]*xOx*

Q: wen is sweetest day?

october.16th..hope i helped!..lol
xO jessie

Q: Well therfe is this boy that goes to my school that ik really like but one of my close friends like him also....what should i do.....my friend that likes him really thinks that they might have something togetherf......and i dont think thatg i am all that attractive.....please help!!!

ok #1 just go for it i mean ask him if he likes your freind and if he dont then go for him but if he likes your friend..dont go after him u`ll lose tha friendship and that is never goOd..and never thynk that way about ur self...thynk highly!!!!...ur beautiful!!!..membur that!..wel good luck hope i helped!..
*xOx*Jessie~!

Q: Okay well met this guy on the internet .. and we've been talking for about a year now . and i really think im in love with him ..and we talk about our fellings for eachother.. and he feels the same things for me as i do him ..He has never saw my pic befor .. bur he said it dosent matter if im Ugly or..pretty .. he said all that matters .. is the way he feels .. and he said ..that it WOULD NOT CHANGE anything if i was ugly .. well what i want to kno is .. if i should just cut it off with him because i kno were never going to meet i mean we might .. he lives in flordia and i go there every summer but ..i dont want my feeling for him to get any stronger then what they already are for him .. what should i do ?

15-Taylor-Gender:Female

ok i say dont go there he could be a reallly bad person u dont know u thynk you know him he could b lieng that is tha thing with tha internet people lie!..dont trust him he could b like 50 lol!..u never know just dont go there...hope i helped!...
-xOx-Jessie-xOx-

Q: Ok there's this guy that I met a little less than a week ago at a party and he asked me for my number. The next day he called me and I invited him to come to the haunted house with me and all my friends. He lives in another town but it's really close... like he walked to my house. Anyway.. after the haunted house we all went to my house to watch scary movies and me and him were like all cuddling and shit and we wound up making out.. I feel like I've known this guy forever and we have so much in common.. So i guess what I'm tryin to say is that is it bad that we hooked up the day after we met?? he even told me he loves me already ..
--confused

no not @ all..for all you knoe it kulda been love @ fist sight lol..you never knoe i say if he makes yah happy go fot it!..hope i helped!..
-xOx-Jessie-xOx-

Q: Hey I am a 14 year old girl and I really like this guy at school and he knows I like him. He used to like me but I'm not sure he does anymore. Any advice on how to be more flirty or drop a hint that I like him. And how do I figure out if he likes me? Thanks alot!! Ill rate!!

ok just go up to him and be str8 ^ just b like i like you do you like meh...b strong just do it!..hope i have helped lol
-Xo-Jessie-

Q: ok i like this guy... ALOT! but there seems to be this little rat face bitch always in my way. and she keeps flirting with him. and i know she is doing it to piss me off. but i dont know what i should do?

i say kall him and tell hi how yah feel i know wht it is like i like a guy but a bitch is gettin in tha way jus go up to her and tell her tobak off..mabe itll work mabe not but @ least yu wuld have tried
-hope i helped-
-Jessie-

Q: I'm awkward and shy. I don't know how to talk to girls or tell whether or not girls like me. I'm in my senior year of high school, and i'm turning 17 on 10/10. so i realize this is kinda pathetic. I'm not very funny or spontaneous either. How do i flirt/be funny so girls will like me? I am being myself 24/7, and that isn't really working.

well i say just keep being urself sooner or later a girl will like yah for you..you kant just b sum1 ur not..that isnt right..i say just b ur self..but put ur self out there more like ask a girl to hang just as freinds and get to know her...i really hope i helped..
xO-Jessie

Q: how can u get a guy to notice you?

Just flirt with him alot..i dont know wht else you can do...Or even ask him to help you with a class your having trouble on!..but i dont know hope i helped..
xO jessie

Q: Do yall think that there is someone for everyone? because right now im thinking that no one is right for me ... i mean every guy i date or "talk" to isnt the right guy and ive never had a longer relationship than 3 weeks! please answer! -kayla

well personaly i thynk every1 has sum1 out thur...actually he could b right infront of you but you just dont notice it..like a guy best friend you just never know..u wil find sum1 aventually..untill then just have fun!!!..i hope i helped!..
xO-Jessie!

Q: Theres this girl. We were dating for a year( i know thats preety sad) Now i want to break up with her. How do i brake up with someone without hurting their feelings?

ok just say that ur soOOoOooOoo sorry its just yu wannah b friends and your better off as just friends..and that mabe itll work out in the fueature just not right now..and u reallly wannah still b friends...idk wht else to say i jus got dumped and it wasnt a goOd feeling so all ikan say is do it nicly...itll b better that way!..hope i helped!..
-xO Jessie!

Q: I know that I might sound a little jealous or over protective but just put yourself in my shoes for a minute.... Ok my boyfriend cheated on me a couple weeks ago and I gave him another chance, but I can't trust him anymore, Well tonite he is goin over to his ex-girlfriends house to help her with her "homework", i am really worried and I am also scared.. I was messing around and asked him if I said it was ok if he would do something with his ex and he said hell ya and I said well im not giving you permission. But do you really think that is going to stop him? Any ways i am really confused.. if you help me I will definetly rate you!! thanks

ok well i would say u have to trust him but then again guys r soO hard tO trust..but just b srtr8 up with him or even have a friend ask him or sumpthing jus try and trust him and if he does do sumpthing he isnt tha 1 for yah thur r alottah fish in tha sea!..i odnt kno if i was ne help but i tried!..
-xO Jessie

Q: hey i have this problem.. there is this guy in my grade who used to like me but i always thought he was kind of a dork so i didn't talk to him that much and when i did i would just kind of joke around with him. anyway i figured out that i have really liked him all this time and what made me figure it out was that i found out that he is moving to Hong Kong in January! If i tell him that i like him now then im worried that he might not still like me and he might tell everyone that i like him. i was thinking that maybe i would tell him on his last day but then we'd never have a relationship...please help me because i need to know what to do!
~Jen

wel i say go for it anyway if yah really like him every1 else dont matter and you never know he may still like yah and you two might just work it out and mabe even go out you never know just try it!...it never hurts to try

-xO Jessie

Q: Well there is this guy i liked since i met him ( kind of like love @ first sight ) he likes me too he tells me he loves me all the tiem but we dont go out . Well i liked this other guy ( Dakota ) since last year and when i asked him out he said he had a girlfriend well today he broke up with her and he stares at me at lunch now and there is this other guy ( Brian ) and he has always been there for me since the get go i love them all IM NOT A HOE but which one should i choose ?!?!

Ok i say gO fOr witch evur guy makes yah happy and you truly like no 1 kan make up ur mind on this 1 u jus gotta do what feels right..but if i were you i would go for brian he seems like the 1 tht is always there and that is really what yah need sum1 who is always there for yah..but go with your heart!
xOx-Jessie

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(A)ge~14
(b)irthday~ december 4
(C)olors~pink,black,blue
(d)ream boy~ shawn.=(
(E)ducated at~ Edison Jr High
(f)avorite food~ macoroni
(G)reatest thing~ muh best friend in tha whole wide world lindsey!!!!..and boys!
(h)obbies~hangin out with friends*movies*mall*fone and alOt more!..
(I)im alwayz~busy
(j)ob~ dont got one...
(K)issed~ yup!!!..
(l)ocation~ OhiO
(m)ood~ bored and hungry!
(N)ame~ JessiE
(o)bession~guyz,n clothes
(P)erfect at~nothing
(q)uiet~sum tymes!..im *shy*
(R)ead~magazines
(s)ecret~ if i tell you then it wont be a secret now would it?
(T)alent~flirting , shopping , dance , cheerleading
(u)p 4~mainly anything, but depands
(V)ery best thing about me~ luv to help people,friendly,nice,
(w)orst thing about me~ my attitude sometimes lol
(X)treme sports~no..
(y)oga~ nooO isnt tht fir old ppl?..((cluless))
(Z)odiac~caporcorn..((kant spell lol))