OK, me and my best guy friend went out a few months ago and he broke up with me and we went out again like 2 weeks ago n i found out he had two other girlfriends and had sex with someone else..so i broke up with him. Now, we're just friends but, we're having sex. I want the relationship to be more than just screwing around because i love him so much. But, he's a player. I don't know what to do. I mean we like each other but I don't wanna go out with him and I don't really like us just being friends with benifits. I don't know what to do. Should I stop this and just be best friends like we used to be or keep messing around with him?? -cOnFuSeD**
*Honestly you need to stop whats going on because if you keep this going its only going to hurt you more and more! I understand you like him a lot and i know its hard to let go when you love someone but you need to! You just need to go back with being best friends! If hes a player and he cheated on you then its really not even worth trying to keep starting over because more then likely the same thing will happen and you will just get hurt! If he really liked you he wouldnt cheat on you and hurt you because thats not even right to do and you dont deserve that! And since your giving in he might only be saying he likes you because you are having sex with him and thats what he wants! Im not saying thats what it is for sure but that might be a possibility! I think the best thing for you is just to be friends again because it will be better for you in the long run and will stop you a lot of heart break! hOpE i HeLpEd! =)* xOxO Kaela
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ok well i just wana know how you make out wit someone, like my friends tould me that it comes natural but would if i mess up? i dont know so please HELP me!
thanxs a bunch!
*Theres not really any right way to make out with someone! Like your friends said it just comes natural! All you do is massage your tounge with the other persons and follow the lead of them! Don't worry about messing up! Theres no right or wrong way to make out! gOoD lUcK* xOxO Kaela
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me and my bf have been goin out for 4 months and like ive kissed him numerous just on the cheek cuz im afraid if i kiss him on the lips he wont kiss me back and ive talked to him about it and he says he doesnt know why he told me he loves me-and i really think he means it and doesnt kiss me...he just doesnt...and hes kissed all his other gf....and i really REALLY do love him- *I RATE*
*Just take chances and go for it! Guys aren't always the ones to make the first move! And sometimes they like the girl to make the first move! He might be just as shy as you! Maybe just peck him and don't do anything else just yet! If he kisses you back then that's awesome, but if not then don't worry about it but ask him why! Eventually it will happen, so don't worry about it! gOoD lUcK!* xOxO Kaela
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my best friend is a guy and we've gone out twice but i've been talking to him alot and i'm starting to like him again but after we broke up last time i told my self we would just be friends but i don't know now. what should i do should i tell him try to forget about it or what
*If he is your best friend it should be pretty easy to talk to him! Just tell him how you feel! If you don't later in life you might regret it! It is okay to go for a guy several times! A lot of times some of your best boyfriends start out by being your best friends! You apparently really like him and have feelings for him so just give it another shot! If thinks don't work out then they don't, but everything has a reason for happening! Just follow your heart* xOxO Kaela
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i still love this guy very much..we went out for a year then broke up b/c things werent working out at the time... and now he might be dating my best friend. she told him she doesnt like me now,some freind huh? i still like him so much.. i never knew how much until he was gone.. i only broke up with him b/c he gave me lots of attitude sometimes, and he hung out with his freinds more then he did with me.. i felt like i was a nobody. we barely ever saw eachother and he called me like only like once every 2 weeks..and i got sick of it...but now i regret doing it..we used to so alot of things together.. i dont know why i love him so much.. and it pisses me off so much b/c him and my best freind... i love him.. :-( now him and my best freind are gonna hit it off, i just feel so bad and upset.. i never knew how much i really liked him.. he told me later in the future we would work it out.. but i don't see that happening.. they say absence makes the heart grow fonder.. he loved me soo much he claimed, and even his mom told me..but all those little things added up and made me break up with him... can u help me out?? i dont know what to do? your prolly gonna tell me to get over it but i cant.. he is all i think about 24/7 and i get depressed.. well thanks alot...
*Your best friend is not a friend at all! She's a total backstabber so just forget about her and find a new best friend that wouldn't do that to you because that is not right at all! Now about your ex boyfriend, I know it's hard to get over someone so i'm not going to tell you to do that! You need to tell him how you feel about this situation though! and try to do anything that you can to get him back! Start off by being friends and work your way up from there, and hopefully you guys will have a relationship! Make him want you back! If it doesn't work you might have to move on, even though i know it's a hard thing to do! But if you have to move on, you'll end up finding someone better!* xOxO Kaela
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im IN LOVE with a guy and i realli want him to like me to but he doesnt seem to care about me the way i care about him even tho he says i love u and stuff i mean i cant take it i have loved him for 2 yrs he liked me b4 but we never told eachother and i neeeeeeed him i love him soo much i cry at nite for him and everything but i dont think he gets it and im too shy to talk to him ....wut can i do?
*I know it might be hard to tell him how you feel, but if you really like this guy you need to tell him! If you don't later in life you might regret it! The only way anything will happen between you guys is if you tell him! He might be just as insecure as you! Guys don't always make the first move and he may be afraid to tell you how he feels cause he might think you don't feel the same way! It sounds like you guys like eachother but you need to find a way to talk to him about it and not be shy! You need to do this soon though before it's too late!* xOxO Kaela
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My boyfriend has smoked cigarettes and gotten drunk just a few times. I hate it SO much! He's only 15 almost 16 years old, why in the hell does he need to smoke? It makes me mad but his friends tell me to get his nipple out of my mouth (referring that I'm a baby) and that he is old enough to do what he wants and its not bad... I'm just looking out for the love of my life! Do you really think I'm acting like an overprotective mom?
*Yeah he is old enough to make his own decisions and you've gotta accept that! He should respect you for what you think, but you can't make him quit smoking or drinking because that is his choice! You aren't really being overprotective your just trying to look out for him! Just tell him how you feel and maybe he will stop for you, but if not your just going to have to accept it! GoOd LuCk* xOxO Kaela
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Okay.. well Ive been with my boyfriend for 16 months (on wednesday) Anyways.. he got drunk last night and cheated on me with his ex.. and he said that he didnt even mean to, he was just drunk.. and that he loved me he just wanted to take a break.. and he came back online, and we were talking.. and it was like.. we were still together.. i mean he still called me "babygirl" and said I love you when he had to leave.. what should i do? :/ Thanks!~
*Well if you really love him then stay with him! You guys have been together for 16 months, and thats a really long time! If he said he didn't mean to then more then likely he didn't! He made a mistake and we all do it! Everyone deserves at least a second chance, so just give him another chance and see what happens! But if he messes up again then you might want to leave him! Maybe you guys should take a break and see other people! If you guys were meant to be in the end you will end up back with eachother* xOxO Kaela
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Hi hey how do I get over a xbf, when I still am in love with him and he sorta likes me??? Thanks PLZ help , My life will be ruined if I dont get It. PLZ HELP THANKS
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NEed help gurl
*If he likes you and you still love him then why did you guys break up? Maybe you should try to hook back up with him and give it a 2nd chance! You guys could hang out sometime and see what happens! But if you really want to get over him then put away anything hes ever gave you and just go out and have fun with your friends! I know getting over someone is a hard thing to do, but everything will work out for the best! Don't get your self too hung up on him right now though, just let him come to you! If he comes back to you then you guys were meant to be, but if not then just move on! Don't just sit and wait for him though, go out and have fun!* xOxO Kaela
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im depressed!! very depressed liek so depressed i need medicone my mom ownt take me she says im fine...and i dont have the money to go myself...and i always cry liek always always and i dont nkow why can you help me!
*Maybe you just need to talk to your mom and tell her everything and she should understand you! If she won't take you somewhere maybe talk to a different family member or a friend and im sure they would take you somewhere! You really just need to talk to a councelor or something! Sorry i'm not much help! but good luck!* xOxO Kaela
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hay do you have a picture of ureself to put up on here!
*Yeah i do! I've tried, but i've had trouble uploading it because its too big and i've tried making it smaller, but its still to big! I'm gonna work on making it smaller and getting one up on this site* xOxO Kaela
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