respected advicenators,
i went thru this site and found small kids of 13 to 16years of age having sex! well i have one question? are americans very desperate about sex are american girls so horny and slutty? and are american boys very careless about their future and career as they show in hollywood movies and sitcoms???????? please enlighten me, i don't mean to hurt u all at all. i have deep respect for this country america, which has welcomed everyone from the world. but if a girl loves one guy and has sex with that guy and then breaks off with him and then sees some one and again indulge in sex then again break off and again see someone........ isn't he or she acting slutty. well please i am confused b'coz kids here in india are blindly copying this culture of cheating and sex.american friends enlighten me about the situation.
haha yeah i'd say america is getting preeettty trashy with all the people sleeping around.. but not everyone's like that, for instance some of the people that go to my school. but alas, most people i know *including me* are like that, and i just don't know. but ah.. that's just my perspective.
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ok theres this guy at my school whos a junior and im a sophmore and hes soo sweet..hes not really that HOTT but hes not ugly..and he has the BIGGEST crush on me ever...we hang out everyday and stuff and we went to a bonfire together and we held hands and kissed...the thing is...i have a boyfriend of 6 months who i really do love....and ive never cheated on him til now...i totally regret it..and wil never do it again but i feel so bad and now ryan (the guy i kissed) is all upset because i told him i cant cheat on my boyfriend no more and stuff and hes all hurt...but some of my friends knew about what happened and they want me to tell my boyfriend soo bad but i dont want to..i just want to let it go and never do it again :( and ryan calls me 24/7 even when im w/my boyfriend!! idk what to do please help me... :(
eh.. tell ryan that you just can't do that kind of stuff, its wrong and you love your boyfriend and you can't help that. i wouldn't tell your boyfriend about it either.. i mean, he never needs to know, right?? haha. well i hoped i helped a little bit.
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do you believe in soul mates?
nah.. i think you can learn to love ANYONE if yer under the correct circumstances..
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How do you get a guy to like you when you are the new girl in school.
talk to him and flirt with him.. like its great if he's in one of your classes. or say hi to him in the halls when you see him. make him realize you're totally cool and you're interested in him.
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Ok, the guy i like is like 5 feet. give or take a few inches. And i'm like 5 8. It's a HUGE height difference, and idc about looks, but i dont want ppl making fun of him b/c he's going out with a giant or make fun of me for going out with a midget. We're both in 7th grade. I think i should just continue liking him. I think i have a good chance with him. What do u think?
if people make fun of yew just tell them off.. i mean, its not like its their life. i dun think they'd make fun of yew anymore if yew did that.. hope i helped yew at least a little bit..
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ok wut exacally do people means when they say friends with benefits??? my coach and my this girl on my teams brother say there friend with benefits but it's bugging me cuz i dont kno wut they mean by that!! help!!
friends with benefits.. that could be another way of saying that they`re goin out.. or they just could be doing things like a couple but aren`t really one.. i think it could mean either one.. hope i helped yew a little!! =)
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Alright, well me and my boyfriend have gone out a couple time's before, and we're best friends. We're going out now, and have been for a little over a week. But, today we saw eachother at the school because we went for orientation, and we didn't talk. He looked at me, but he didn't say hi. I mean he said hi to my friend's, and not me. We always talk on the computer, and sometimes on the phone. And on the computer and phone, we talk a lot, but then we see eachother, we never talk. I mean I have one class with him this year, but I doubt that's going to help anything. I really do love him, but I don't think it's working out. I mean yeah im shy too, but he could atleast say hi. I mean, I was standing right by him, and he looked the other way. He told me he wasn't mad at me and he loved me when he got home and we were talking on the computer. But, I just dont know what to do! Help! IM me at yourmyonlyone951 if you wanna...
OMG! haha as i was reading this i was thinking how much you sound like me!! ok well.. he obviously doesnt know what to say and i think he should say hi first too!! lol gosh im so happy im not the only one who has this problem! im still working on finding out what to do so if i find something that werks ill let you know! good luck!
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I'm 14/f. Yesterday I found out that one of my closest guy friends likes me in a romantic sense. Let's call him "Jordan." He has liked me for possibly a year. We have been friends since we were 2 years old. I have just recently, a month ago, started liking him in a romantic sense. My problem is that I did like another guy let's call him "Dave" for a year and a half. I fell hard for him. I only saw him once over the summer. I have since stopped liking Dave as much as I used to. Possibly because I haven't seen him, and possibly because I have just gotten over him. I don't like Jordan as much as I used to like Dave. Jordan asked me out and I am afraid to say yes in the event that I see Dave and fall head over heels for him again. I like the friendship that me and Jordan share. I don't want any awkwardness between us. I get EXTREMELY nervous around guys that like me. What should I do? Should I go out with Jordan and hope for the best? Or should I say I want to stay friends? I feel that knowing that we like each other is enough and that it also leaves the possibility open to dating and a relationship. I should also mention that I have never had a real boyfriend before. Sorry this is so long, but I could really use some good advice.
well wow that sounds a LOT like me.. so im gonna tell you out of my experience. go out with jordan.. cause if you dont he might stop liking you. and that would really suck if you saw dave and you didnt feel anything there anymore. but by any chance, you see dave and the same feeling come back, then just tell jordan exactly whats going on. and if hes a true friend he wont hastle you to stay with him or quit being friends over it. hope i helped!
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okay, i have a question, i like this one guy, and he likes me back, but the problem is that he lives far away like 20 minutes away, and we can hardly see each other, were're not going out or anything, we just like each other a lot, we want to see each other more, well at least i do, i like this guy alot, but i don't know what to do, can u help me??
well you guys can go to the mall, talk on the phone, anything where you can make contact is really a good way to start. hope i helped!
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ok, problem. theres this guy at my skooL.. he likes me a lot he even told me he loved me. i really like him too! i can't go out with him though.. he had sex when he was 11 and im afraid he'll want that from me and only think about sex. the thing is though i REALLY like him! i mean ive never liked anybody this much before. ive seriously thought about going out with him, even though he is considered a "nerd" but i really don't care what people think. i just dont know if i can go out with him bcuz of the whole sex thing.. what do i do? please if you could help me thatd be great =c) thanx!
go out with him. definatly. and if he brings up anything about doing it, tell him you are NOT ready. and do NOT give in. and if he keeps pressuring you, break up with him. hope i helped!
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Hey im Nikki and i broke up with my b/f about 3 months ago (this was an 7 month relationship) And i love him more then anything, idk if he loves me at all and he asks if i would want to go back out with him and idk how he feels buthwe acts like a complete jerk to me and jokes around like he isnt joking but then he says he is and makes me cry (boo hoo) so whats your advice..?
if you really love him, go out with him again. if he says this sort of stuff again break up with him right there on the spot. its not worth going through and it might get in his head that thats not cool. hope i helped!
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i'm 16/f and am totally confused my the actions of my recent ex-boyfriend. We recently had a discussion and he really said some things that threw me totally off. First off, the reason he dumped me was because he said he didn't love me anymore and that really hurt. Alright, well then today he tells me that he wants to be careful of other guys and he flipped out when he heard i was interested in another guy, then he tells me he still cares about me, and that he has to tell me something that's very important, but doesn't wanna tell me because he's afraid that it'll screw stuff up. I don't know what this stuff is, but anyway, I really need some help! I think my ex doesnt want me to be with other guys and wants me to be devoted to only him! What should i do??!?!?!?
ok boy your ex sounds alot like me. lol. well ok he obviously still has feelings for you and when he said he didnt love you anymore he didnt mean it and was probably talking out of rage. ask him what it is he has to tell you. it might be that he still likes you. do you still have any feelings for him? if so, give him another shot. if not, tell him you dont. and that you two are just friends. hope i helped you!
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Me (14) and my current boyfriend(14) have a had an on and off kind of relationship. like we've broken up 3 different times, but things seem like they're going down hill again for a 4th time. He's stopped saying he loves me when we get off the phone or off line. We dont' see each other all that much cuz he lives 45 minutes away from me ... and that kind of presents a problem. Especially now that im going into highschool. Its like a whole new world of oppurtunitys. He to is going into in highschool adn i think things are pretty much coming to an end between us, and that breaks my heart but at the same time im relived because i can be open to new experiences ... i love him but im not sure he's feeling what he says he feelings, how he says he feels and how he acts on those feelings are to different things .. i just don't know anymore ...
well if i were you, id come right out and ask him if you and him could ever really be together.. if you could make it in the longrun. if he says "no" or "i dont know" then break up with him. if its a "yes" then he obviously likes you for you and wants to keep this going. remember your going into highschool and there are plenty of more boys there too.. ones who live closer and might be more clear as to what they want. hope i helped!
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OK, I met this guy at the mall and we got to know eachother. He calls me almost everyday and we flirt ALL the time. The thing is, he already has a girlfriend. I think he likes me and all but i don't want him to break up with her for me but i REALLY like him. What should i do?!?! PLease help me!!!
hmm.. well if he really did like his friend, he wouldnt be flirting with you or anything. so dont worry! you dont even know this . and if he does break up with her, it may not even be just because of you. but love only comes so often in life.. so if it comes along take a risk. just dont worry about this other , its not like they've broken up YET! hope i helped!
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