hey all i love giving advice, and if anybody wants to ask me something or needs advice, and you dont want any one to read it, then just email me at: amand12@bellsouth.net. i am 15, and i know that my first favorite topic is sex, but i have had A LOT of experience in sex...lol.
E-mail: amand12@bellsouth.net
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Location: alabama
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Age: 15
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how do you know if someones telling the truth, or living a completly different life then they lead you to belive?? (link)
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well when someone is lying then they will blink over 20 times on one minute, and they will move their eyes a lot. hope i helped. bye.
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everytime a boy tries to put his arm around me or something i pull away, im really self conscious about my body, do you think that could be the problem? what can i do that won't make me like just pull away or something? (link)
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well once you get comfortable with a guy then you should not be all self consince, i was that way until i had a bf then me and him.... well i'll end it there...lol. hope i helped. bye
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okay well theres this guy i flirt with alot. Everyone thinks we shuold go out, but i dont know if i like him. He told my friend that "he wasnt flirting, he was just not refusing" and he told my other friend "he'd only date me if i gave him a BJ" i dont know if hes kidding but thats nasty..I dont know if he likes me! And also we are both single and eh said he would be my valentine, and he is buying me a presant! help? (link)
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it sounds like you like him...go out with the guy!
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When it comes to dating and what-not, do guys prefer looks or personality? If looks, then what primarily are they interested in? If personality, then what kind of traits do they like? (link)
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well most guys go for the girl that has brown eyes, brown hair firm breast, and stuff like that. if he goes for personality, then he liked humor, sensitivety, and not annoying. it just depends on the guy. hope i helped.
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My first love broke up with me. He wants to see other people. He said we can still be friends and that he loves me with all his heart. He says his life is just too complicated. How do I go on when I have to see him everyday? Help me please.
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well try your best to find a new guy to love...hope i helped
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How do I dumb my bf without being mean about it? (link)
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slowly break away from him....yea you dont have to be mean about it or anything just say that you would rather be friends then dating...hope i helped
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Ok me and my BF just broke up and now I really like him..or do I am not sure what the hek my true fellings for him are....do I like Him or not..I dont know, someone please help me! (link)
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well i really dont know if you like him or not, because i am not you...but if you truely love him then go to him or call him and say that you wanna get back together
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I never know what to say when im talking to my crush. Sometimes, its akward because i would have nothing to say then it would turn out to be dead scilence. I get kinda scared about what he thinks of me because hes an outgoing guy and i only wish to be outgoing enough to fit up to his standerds. How do i bring up a good conversation without it being akward, and what if i cant think of a topic to bring up what should i do? (link)
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talk about the weather...just kidding. ummm talk about sports(guys love sports!duh!)
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Im in love with this guy, we've been dating for 10 months now-- and at first i knew he loved me too.. but now it seems like he doesnt anymore.. i feel miserable somtimes because, im over here and i love him soo much, but he wont even look twice at me.. i feel like i've lost the that "thing" that first made me attractive to him. but the other day we hung out and everything seemed just fine we had a really good time (that was 3 days ago) and i havent heard from him since then.. wut do i do? is he using me? does he really like me? or is he just confused? im worried that im loosing him everyday, and i hate feeling like that because i love him so much and would do anything for him.. i just need sum answers b/c i cant figure out wuts goin on... >he didnt even buy me a christmas or a birthday present (link)
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well, maybe is just not as attracted to you as he was 10 months ago.
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im 14 going on 15/f. ive never had a b/f but ive had this one crush for 2 yrs. now! Were good friends now and lately all of my friends have had b/f. i kinda feel left out, but being single is fun 2! i kno this sounds wrong...to me it does 2, but lately all ive wanted 2 do is grab my crush and just kiss him! i think i have a problem...what should i do! please help!~ (link)
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ask him out!!!!!!!!!
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Ok so i really dont understand this, im really nice and funny and everything like serioussly. Its not fair that all of these snobby girls have guys like drooling over them. I dont think im pretty and you'll probably say that i am and blah but how do i get guys to like me? I mean, i talk to guys like all the time and its just stupid that they dont see how much of a nice person i am...
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hit on the guys
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i like this guy. and we are going out. but see he's the kinda guy who doesnt hold hands, kiss etc. like he wants to but i dont know if hes nervous or just is scared to. anyways ive made some moves but i dotn want to make all the moves. what do i do to make him do all that stuff. so hes not soo slow? ive even talked to him. and he keeps telling me he is going to do something. but he doesnt. im waiting and waiting. what do i do? and i dont want to dump the guy if you think i should. (link)
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litteraly, grab the dude's head and make him kiss you
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I've been talking to this guy for like 6 months, He never asked me out or nothing but we go to the movies and i go chill at his house to. A couple weeks ago he said he wanted to start seeing me more, does that mean he wants to date me or what? I know he said he wanted to take things slow but this is beyond slow 4 me. He never gives me any clues that he really likes me like i do him. He will invite me over and kiss me goodnite when i leave but that's it. {no kissing other than when i leave..lol thought that bared repeating} What should i say to him? Thanx 2 all who answer. I'll rate HIGHHH (link)
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yes he wants to date you
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I use to date this guy he was very kind to me we only dated acoulple weeks but i feel we told eachother everything, now 6yrs later i still think about him i was never treated so kindly by a man,he knows the guy im with now and says i should get far away from him(he doesn't like him at all) we ran into eachother out one night and i smiled at him to see if he would smile back he had to look twice the first smile was little then as he walked by he had a smile that lit up his whole face as he looked at me and walked by,so i thought it would be safe to talk to him when i asked him if we could talk he dropped the guy he was talkin to and said "yeah yeah sure" so we talked the rest of the night he bought me a drink and when this other guy came up to me he said to him look man theres any one over there that you can bother but leave her alone and the guy thought we were together so he apoligized for making my man upset(lol) i went with it. so i ended up giving him a ride home and we talked more and when he went to get out he was alittle hesitant so i asked if i could have a hug he said he could definatly do that we hugged and towards the end for a few moments he squeezed tighter, now recently i heard from a friend that he was talkin about me and said he doesn't know why im with the guy im with and that i deserve better, What does this mean does he still like me? please help me because i can't stop thinking about him and i do know i deserve better do you think he means he can treat me better?(I am 24yrs he is 25yrs) (im female) (link)
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yes he still like you so i'd go with him he truely loves you.
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My best friend and I like the same guy. The thing is, he is dating my best friend. But she and he both know that he likes me also. He wants to be with both of us, but I don't want to hurt my best friend so I think I should back off. What should I do?? Thanks!
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you should let her be you will get your turn with him soon
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boy problem.ok so i like this boy.over the past 3 years he's been my best friend since the.one night we went out to grab a bite and we kissed when his father dropped me off.he's avoided me since then.then I saw him again i told him to wait and he kissed me.then he left running and I haven't seen him since last week. (link)
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well find him...and dont be afraid to kiss him, but this time you kiss him, not him kiss you. and that will show how much you really like him!good luck,bye
love,
charolette
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My boyfriends said all of his friends say im miserable and they dont like me and not one of them has even talked to me in lunch i dont sit next to anyone besides him so i dont talk and he barely talks to me and at night when he calls me we dont even stay on the phone fore more than 3 mins usually..i want to know why he has such a big problem with me wantin his friends to like me and maybe talk to me, Help what should i tell him to make him understand i dont want to never sit with him at lunch because now i sit with my friends and dont even sit with him at luch.. (link)
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well tell him that you wanna sit with your friends and if he wants to sit with you then tell him to sit with you and your friends!
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Ok so I have this bf. Here's a sophomore and I'm a freshman. Some days he treats me good by talkin to me, holding my hand, walking me to class, and all that cute stuff that gurls like guyz to do. Then other days hes a total dick. Sometimes he wont even say hi to me and if i do get the chance to talk to him he juss walks away cuz he doesnt like to hang out with my freshman friends. I've learned how to blow it off but it still pisses me off. A couple weeks ago one of my closest friends said she saw him totally flirting with my worst enemy. I confronted him bout it and he totally denied it. I really want to beleive that hes telling me the truth but alot of people have told me that hes always all over other gurls. The people that tell me this are some of my closest friends and I know that they wuld never lie to me. All of my friends say that I should break up with him because he doesnt treat me good and I'm starting to beleive them. I still kinda have feelings for him but I'm not shure if I still wanna be with him. Plz help!!! (link)
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dump him! he if he is all over toher gurls, then there is no way that he likes you. or beat him at his own game...let him see u flirting with another guy and see how he feels! good luck!
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Okay here's the deal I'm a freshman in high school. I know, I know ugh freshman. Anyway this's the deal I like a guy, and he's kind of a senior. He's taller than me and we... sort of get along. We argue about almost everything, I love it. Only thing, he has a girlfriend and there's a three year age difference. Now I know some of you are going to tell me to move on and try to find someone my age, but I really like him. =(
And I don't want to tell him I like him at least not yet, I love him and his friends, and I like his girlfriend too. So if I say something then they're all going to act ackwardly around me. (link)
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say what you feel. and forget what they gotta think. besides if he dumps you because you said that or wont be ur friend anymore. then yea u should move on!(no offense) good luck!
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Me and my boyfriend have 1 class together and thats lunch, and i barely see him in between classes b/c he always goes to his locker and we only have 4 mins so it takes up like 2-3.and in lunch i sat with him and i'd sit on the end and never talk because he would barely talk to me and hes like oh god whats wrong? and i tell him nothing just being ignored like usual and he just says okay and goes back to talking with his friends..he wont let me sit inbetween him and his other friends justin cuz he says im takin him away from his friends? i wanna know why he doesn tlike me haning out with him when hes with his friends. actually why he wont even let me hang out with them? please help me i wanna know why he acts like this? (link)
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well, he may not like you anymore. or he may just likes someone else. or that he just likes hanging out with his friends, you should go to his house sometime or something, good luck
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