I'm 13 female. I like to talk on the phone, aggravate my sister, argue with anyone who's willing to put up with me, i luv to act crazy around my friends, i luv hanging with my cuzin who is like a sister-big shout out smartgirl321.
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This school year I started late because I was on vacation. Well, the first day I walked into my Physics class he smiled at me so I smiled back thinking "wow this guy is pretty hott" During that week we looked at each other in class and smiled but never talked. Today we had a fire drill and he was the fisrt out the classroom and I wasn't too far behind. He got to about half way where we were supposed to be and waite until I caught up and started walking again. When we got to out standing point, I was standing with another girl in my class and him and one of his friends stood by us. Then, HE STARTED TALKING TO THE GIRL I WAS WITH. This really made me made so I left and started talking to other people. I don't know if I was jealous or what but now I don't feel like tlaking to that girl at all. What am I supposed to do?
I know this sounds pretty kiddish but I've never been in this situation. I'm a senior by the way. (link)
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well its not like that means he doent like you guys do stupid *stuff* so he probaly liked you but didnt know what to say to you so he started talking to your friend also you cant get mad if the guy that you like starts talking to other girls because it will probally happen alot i would just try and talk to him again if he starts saying stuff like so what up with that other girl you were with that day blow him off but i wouldnt assume that he like her hope i helped love talktome224
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Ok, so there's this guy I've went out with twice for only a few weeks. The first time we went out, he dumped me after a week. The next time, I dumped him because he was acting weird around me.and i totally regret doing it. He's ALWAYS on my mind. He calls me occasionally.. and we talk online whenever he's on. I can never get him out of my head. Other guys are soo easy to get over but this one is so hard to. what should I do?! (link)
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well i would find out if he like you then i would hang out and get close to him then if hes single and you still feel the same way then i would kinda start sending him signals that i like him then if he catches on and he feels the same way he might ask you out or what ever but if hes slow like my friends and me it might take a little longer so then i would ask him out but only if he goes or plays along with the whole flirting and sendind signals i would ask him out hope this helps love talktome224
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ok there is this guy and we went out befor but he cheeted on me and broke my heart but now he is saying he is sorry and that he still has feelings for me and i dont kno what to do cuz i also still like him but i dont want to get hurt......and i am also a cutter and last time we went out i cut alot cuz of what i was hearing about him and stuff...... but i think he has changed and he tells me how soory he was and that he owes me for what he put me though....what should i do? should i trust him again> or should we just be friends? (link)
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be friends for a while see if hes really changed this way theres no pain and no reason for cutting and if he has date him if you really like him also i must say that i dont like cutting one of my friends did it cutting doesnt help any situation so please dont let a guy get to you like that hope i helped love talktome224
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okay well this guy i really like is going out with the prettiest girl in my grade. He isn't a hottie or anything, but I've liked him since 6th grade, and I'm in 8th. The night she asked him out (at a school dance) I was going to work up enough nerve to ask him. I feel like, if I asked before her, he would have said yes; only because we are so close. I was up practically everynight i saw or even talked to him, thinking about him. I started cutting myself i liked him so much. I cut myself only to make myself stop thinking about him. But eventually it just got worse. I want to stop cutting myself, and start taking it like a normal person (link)
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cutting doesnt solve anything "trust me" so thats just making it worse try dealing with it through like when you get mad blare your radio and clear your mind or running or jogging theres lots of things but cutting isnt one about the guy talk to him and become friends with him like better than yall are and that way when he breaks up with her or vise versa you will be there and maybe you could tell him then that youv liked him and so on hope i helped luv talktome224
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Hi! (this is kind of long...)
I'm 14, and most of my friends have dated or are dating. I feel like I stand out, almost like I will never be able to date. Whenever my friends talk about dating, I am happy for them, but I just think I'm never going to date, with hopelessness.
I have tried finding girls by being friends with them and then after a while, asking some of them if they have BFs. Some of them do, and most of them don't. I am still friends with them, but whenever I'd ask the ones without BFs if they'd like to do something together (almost like a date), they usually say "no" or "maybe not" or "sorry, I'm busy". I know they are either not ready or they just wouldn't want to date me. Sometimes I feel terrible or depressed about it, but other times, I get a strange feeling like I would want to stand out and not date.
My analogy on dating with comparison of my friends and me is that dating for my friends is like taking an airplane from ME to CA, but for me, it's like walking there and I can't find any other way to get there. I feel like I'm hopeless, like no matter how much I try, I'll never find a girl. :-( I am a very nice guy, at least that's what my friends say, but I'm not sure why I haven't been very successful. I just can't seem to figure it out.
If you have any advice, I'd be glad to hear what you have to say.
Thanks. :-) (link)
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you do sound really nice for a fourteen year old and theres a girl for everyone really but maybe your just not meant to date right now but i was like that till i turned thirteen "this year" i would date but just to be dating because all my friends were so i did to but all i can say is keep looking maybe youll find one you didnt expect like one of your friends or something hope i helped luv talktome224
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Long one get ready for it-
So I was out with a group of friends at a party and I had to wait for someone outside so I'm waiting and all of a sudden I hear the door slam and there's this guy Adam, and his friends locked him out of the house. So we sat out there for like twenty minutes talking waiting for his friedns to let him back in. And he was pretty cool, so after the party I'm standing with my friend Callie, Adam asks one of us to call him to see if his cell's working I don't have one so Callie does. They trade numbers and she eventually gets a crush on him(this is over 2 months or so). But then he tells her he's gay & of cousre she tells me, so they became just friends.
Then apparantly a month ago there was this girl and she "turned him straight." And now he's telling Callie he likes me, in her words "serious relationship likes you." And I don't know what to do. He's cool and all, but I'm not quite sure about the whole once gay thing, he claims he's not bi either. And also since he's not gay Callie seems to be a little jealous.... WHAT SHOULD I DO???
Oh yeah and I'm a fifteen year old doll. (link)
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well my friend was straight and then he turned gay so i guess it could work the other way around sound like yall really liked each other from the beginig so if he likes you go for it and if you like him of coarse and for your friend callie real friends dont let guys come b/t them so hope i helped love talktome224
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Alright i have been dating this guy since July 3rd its the 26th today. first off i havnt seen him in 2 weeks and 1 days !!well i got grounded and i wasnt able to leave the house but yet my parents agreeed to allow him to come over. and every time i invtied him over its like no i cant i gotta go home and so and so answer everything and when i got ungrounded and he got grounded his mom said he could still come over and use the phone he hasnt called me once When i call him and he promise to call me back he doesnt. i really do love him i mean when i actully do get to see him we have so much fun together he holds me in his arms if im sad comforts me if i get hurt that kinda stuff and i dont no what to I RATE HIGH (link)
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well it might be that he has a lot going on right now so dont stress also if yall are like that when you hang out then i would guess he still likes you yall seem so close well i guess you could call him and before he says anything else just say well i have to know do you still like me b/c we'v kinda been spaced hope this helped love talktome224
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Alright well there is this boy name Craig and we've been best friends since the middle of 7th grade and now we're going into the 8th grade and i mean i've always kinda liked him and after we becamse good friends he would tell me that he likes me but other days he would say he didnt like anybody but he always flirts with me and stuff and during the last week of school we kissed a few times and he told me how much he liked me but he doesnt want a girlfriend for the summer and i was getting my hopes up for next year (thinking maybe he'd ask me out) but now because its summer we've only seen each other like 3 times and i saw him the other day and we didnt talk to each other and i think it was because we were both really nervous but i dont know if he likes me anymore.. i know that hes a flirt and hes intrested in other girls but it seems like when me and him are alone that we both really like each other a lot and nobody else, things have changed because its summer but i think when school starts again things will be back to the way they used to but im not sure and i dont want to ask him if he still likes me because i dont want to be embarressed if he says no but my friend asked him if he liked me and he said he didnt know!.. I'm confused. Please Help! (link)
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sounds like he likes you but i would wait til school starts again that way yall would be spending alot of time togather and you would be able to tell if you both still like each other but for now it sounds like he into you
soooooo..... good luck
hope i helped love talktome224
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Ok, me and this girl have been talkin' 4 a while now (for like 6 months). We were just friends at first but I've always liked her. She's been in really bad relationships and thinks men are dogs and will treat her like dirt. I really like her though and I wouldn't do anything like that. I like her too much. Plus I'm not even that kinda guy. I wanna love her and show her trust, honesty, and loyalty. She's been so hurt that she can't see that I wouldn't do that to her. I wanna be with her; she is the most incredible girl I've ever met. On top of that I think I like her so much it might be turning into Love. I need some GOOD advice. Help!
P.S. I'll rate high. (link)
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well you sound like my friend i cant tell you wat to do for sure but my friend one this gurl over from her other dog bf by saying i love and you have to trust me and telling her the way he feels for real he thought she would just blow him off but she thanked him for it and now their dating so....
hope that helped love talktome224
ps if its meant to be itll happen i dont know when but it will
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This will probly sound stupid but what finger do you wear a promise ring on?? My boyfriend will probly get me one for our anniversary and I dont know? I appreciate and will rate answers. (link)
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use a your ring finger or your left second from your pinky
hope i helped good luck love talktome224
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..alright so this has been bugging me forever, and i cant really ask my friends this question because they are going to support me of course but here it goes. In the past, i've had really cruddy relationships with guys. I've been in relationship where i've been used & gotten really hurt from it. But recently i meet this new boy. The one thing that completely seperates him from the rest of the boys i've had interest in is that he's not all bout getting in the pants. I meet him thru a friend at the movies, and there was sparks.. so the next night he came over. && meet my family. They all adored him. And like we didnt even do nething. He didnt like have the urge to leave the family and be alone, which i totally liked because no parents were home & we could have easily gotten away with "gettin with eachother" the next night.. he came over and we layed on my couch and cuddled. And nothing happened. And we were alone. No one was home. He didnt even try anything. The next day he came over. We just made out and i called him a tease because he always tickled me by my pants line and never went down. && thats just what im used to.. boy just goin straight in. Soo when he didnt i was like wow, even tho i wanted him to. So the next day he came over again, and we were all aloneeee for about 4 hours. We didnt do anything til the last hour, and he asked me why i called him a tease, and i explained. And then he ended up fingering me. Because i wanted it. And i was all happy with it or wateva. Then lator i realized, wow maybe i relaly fucked this up. because he wasnt like that, and i provoked him to be. I told him how i felt and he felt bad and said that he wudnt do it ever again and thought i didnt mind. Not to mention while he was doing it he kept asking if i was okay with it. And i said yeha, cuz i was. And hes been over every night after that.. for the past 3 nights and he hasnt tried it again. Do you think he likes me, or just wants to "get iwht me" HELPPP please..sorry sooo longg.. but i will rate 5's for sure! (link)
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well just tell him that are ok with it but you only want it if he does and i think he likes you and he only wants to do what you do so hope i helped good luck love talktome224
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me and this guy almost went out about 7 months ago and i basically got myheart broken. then about 2 weeks ago he e-mailed me saying he was sorry for leading me on and stuff and he wants to prove to me that hes nicer then that. so i emailed him back bascially saying don't worry about it and he'll have to prove it to me. so he said he was going to camp for a week but then when he gets back we'll hang out for sure. well hes been back for 2 days now and he hasn't IMed me or anything and i sent him an email about this drink he told me about saying it was good and he was like haha yeah thats why i love it. so yeah, should i bring up that we should hang out? i'm nervous to IM him or bring it up, especially since he isn't too shy of a guy and i think he woulda brought it up if he wanted to. i leave on thursday and won't be back for 2 weeks so time is pretty limited. what should i do!!!!!!!!!!!!!! (link)
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well you chould just say something like wanna know something funny and then say do you remeber that day you said we would hang out and then tell hm a funny story then just wait for a reaction then say b/c im leaving soon so...
just wait for a reaction
hope i helped love talktome224
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ok there is this guy that i really like and i kno he likes me too but he is kinda mad at me right now....that or he hates me...and i dont know why....i would do anytng for this guy and i think he knows it ! but i dont know why he is mad so i dont know what to do....please help...what should i do whjen the guy i love is mad at me and i donrtknow why?
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ask him why tell him that you honestly dont know why and if he really likes then hel explain it and it will work out
good luck hope it helped
love talktoe224
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Well I'm a lesbian and my parents don't know. How do I tell them? I'm scared they'll kick me out of the house or something. (link)
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well just break it to them easy and let them no that your still their little gurl and you are still the same person nothing has changed except for you like gurls but at the same time you love them and they should love you for you and not for who you love but at the same time it could be alot worse like drugs or something much worse than whats going on right now and that you still love them and want them to show thier love by trusting you and showing their trust
good luck and love talktome224
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ok well i like this named "mike" and well he invited me to this swimming party and im gunna be on my period the day that its on and my mom wont let me tamps wat do i do and shud i go at all i mean i really want to but because of my problem what should i do
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well i had a simular run in. you should see if you can get tampons but if not then you can use a pad and as soon as you get out of the water go to the bathroom and change it bring a few seeing how you will probaly get in and out of the water but if thats to wierd looking then just wear your bathing suit besides you cant see it any way
good luck hope i helped
love talktome224
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how do i leave a childish love? im going into eigth grade and i still cant go a day without thinking of a boy from my elementry school who i havent seen in over two years. he was in my class every year and we were always little sweethearts but it was sort of that stupid ittle puppy love junk. i know hes moved on - probably forgot about me, and i wish i could do the same. what should i do? (link)
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iv done something like you except i got in touch with him and we talked now we are friends and becoming friends with him made me see that i dont still like him so... find someone who knows his # or even look it up the phone book just see if when you are talking to him see if he still kinda has a thing for you or if he cant even rember you and go from there if he does make a "play date" meaning a hang out date then if he rejects you then you wont think about him and if he says yes youl go on a
"play date" and see wat happens
good luck
hope i helped love talktome224
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Hey. My boyfriend is my best friend as well as my boyfriend. He was my best friend first, 4 years prior. He is dissapointing me as a boyfriend, and though we usually talk everynight, I want to take a break from him for a while. I need advice on what to think about, what to focus on, instead of him. Thanks. (link)
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surrond yourself with other things like a friends night or have some friends go chill or hang out with you and just be "single" for a night meaning dont think about him or anyone for that matter except yourself and who your with do your favorite things like shopping or getting your nails done or sports or exercise or just blaring music and reading
hope i helped
love talktome224
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i met this guy at a summer camp last summer & we went out for like 6 months [it was long distance, so we only got to see eachother like 3 times but we always called eachother & stuff] and now we're going back to camp again to see eachother [we broke up a while ago] and i have a new boyfriend, but what i'm scared of is how much i've changed. i've gained some weight [i had an eating disorder] & my style compleatly changed... some people even call me goth, but i'm not. & i'm really nervous because i don't think he's going to want to be around me because of how much i've changed. could anyone help me please? i don't know what to do when i first see him [i want to hug him but i dont know if he'd be cool with it :-\], or how i should act around him... ? thanks a bunch
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act your self usualy if they liked you once they will like you again i mean iv changed alot and i still cant get rid of one guy but anyway if he likes you awsome but dont chase what wont chase you look at yourself if you like what you see dont change if you dont be who you want to be not what you want him to like you for being look if he likes you great but if not then let it go maybe there will be some one else there at camp this summer so ...
good luck hop i helped
love talktome224
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alright well you see i have a boyfriend and we just started going out like a week ago and i really like him and all and i kno him really ggood cuz we have been friends for a while. and it seems like everytime we r next to each other and get eye contact he like come towards me to kiss me but then backs off. im 13 and i already hooked up with boys other times and had no problem but i dont kno if i should go in and kiss him when he does this. please help (link)
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well some guys have said that they dont like it when girls take control like that however some like it and besides it sounds nutral maybe he doesnt know if your ready or wanting him to i would say go for it its like nutral territory because you said he went half way in for it so next time when he moves in you move in to see if he trys to pull away or keeps going
hope i helped
love talktome224
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my boyfriend and i hang out almost every night since its summer and all...but we're running out of movies to watch. what are some good movies we might both be interested in, and what are some other things we could do together? (neither of us have cars or much money) thanks! (link)
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play board games or find a show that both of you like and always watch it togather this gives you something to talk about also pull up some movies that yall saw togather but really enjoyed and watch those again
hope this helped
love talktome224
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