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I really like the guy I want to ask. I have already told him that he cannot make plans on that day because well because someone is asking him to Sadies... and he also knows its me. He doesn't go to my school. I just really want to make it adorable and as memorable as possible. Any and all ideas would be amazing! Thanks :) (link)
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to make it memorable, you can start by finding a unique way to ask him.
1. you could create these puzzle pieces using paper and write on them "will you go to sadie with me?" then you put the puzzle pieces in an envelope and hand them to him for him to put the puzzle together.
2. you can bake him some cupcakes and put icing on them. then use gel icing to spell out the words "will you go to sadie with me" then give him the cupcakes for him to eat :)
at the dance just have fun with him, talk to him of course so he doesn't feel left out with a whole bunch of other people he may not know. you can even suggest that you guys to out to eat a restaraunt that you both like and ask him if he's more comfortable eating in a group or with just the two of you. hope i helped and have fun preparing for your sadie hawkins like i'll have fun preparing for mine!!!! :)
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♥Ok so i found this website by my friend mysteryjay.
Anyway, My boyfriend lives far from me and he says he wont cheat on me but i cant be a 100% sure because he lives so far away. I cant be there to be sure but he says he wont cheat on me.
Also we wont to be together forever but his parents and my mom doesnt want us to be dating. My mom wont do nothing but his mom doesnt like me cause i am black and live in a different state. My boyfriend is white.
So we wont to met in real life and live togetehr forever. But do you think this is possible because We live so far away and right now i am the only one with the cellphone and i can only call him over hsi grandmothers phone which he is barely over there. I really do care and for him and want to now if he cares and for me too. He says im his true love and i say he is mine too.
Q:1. you think he will cheat on me?
2.Do you think we'll ever met?
3. Do you think we will be able to live together forever if we met in real life?
4.Do you think he really cares for me and wants to be with me forever and i am his true love? (link)
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i was in this long distance relationship for two years and i just broke it off in august since my boyfriend was going to iraq and like you i was black and he was white and i could tell he loved me and i loved him a lot and we wanted to get married or i hope he felt the same way because about our future. so i know what you could be going through
1. it could be likely that he could cheat on you just because you guys don't live near each other, and you don't have people checking up on him like a true friend or something. and even if you are friends with his friends they will cover up for him. so you may not know if he's cheating on you unless you can tell if he's really serious about you.
2. anything's possible. if you want to meet him. bring a parent or something along. don't meet him in private because he could be a stalker. dont mean to scare you but thats reality. let someone know that you are meeting him like a friend just incase something happens. if you get a weird feeling when he says i want to meet you alone don't tell your parents dont even think twice about calling it off (i almost met my ex in private but i called it off)
3. i really cannot say anything about that. only you and him can determine that. if it's true love by all means go live that cinderella life girl. you got a real keeper then. :) but if it's not there's other fish in the sea and closer to home you can focus on.
4. again i cannot say. only you know what goes on in your relationship. i don't know how long you guys have gone out or anything like that. but since you guys don't talk a lot i don't think that he could take it seriously just because it's long distance.
hope i didn't hurt your feelings but helped you
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this is a VERY long story, but im gonna try to lay this out as short as possible and please, im desperate here, you have NO clue what i've been through these past few months, and i need all the help i can get..
last year i met a REALLY sensative guy. he was 16, about to be 17, and i was 14.. he was soooo shy, hes VERY insecure. when we first started dating, all he said to me was how i saved him and pulled him out of his misery because he has had no luck with relationships and was treated like shit by girls his whole life. hes not even that cute and popular, and i have a waaay higher social status in my grade/ school then he does in his grade.. but ive been known to have wierd taste and i can look beyond looks and things like that very easily. i think when we first started dating him i was just excited over the fact that he had a car and he was a junior and i was only a freshmen.. but i actually did end up falling in love with him. and he was COMPLETELY in love with me. we lost our virginities to eachother and ill tell you, im smart, and not at all a bit naiive.. i knew this kid loved me. & we did NOT have a sex based relationship whatsoever.. we became eachothers best friends. both of us lost all of our other friends because we were only with eachother 24-7. he called my mom 'mom' and i did the same with his mom.. we were incredibly close.. and sense he was older, i felt so comftorbal and secure with him, and i went to him with all my problems, and he would help me.. ive been suffering from depression for years and me and my mother never had a good relationship, and my father left me, and i was molested as a baby.. but when i was with him, he made me feel so comftorbal. we told eachother EVERYTHING. and i was postive he was there to stay. he promised me forever every single day. we dated for a year. i messed it up, biggest mistake of my entire life.. he started getting very annoying and up my ass. you know when youre in a bad mood and you just want to be left alone? well he would never leave me alone. he'd be like 'its okay babe i love you' bla bla. all mushy, when i just want to be mad!. i tried talking to him about this many times and all he could say was im sorry i just love you soooo much i cant help it.. all my friends called him whipped cream and everything.. it was BAD. but anyways, one night i was out with my friends the day before a cheer competition, and my ex was there.. and somewhere along the lines, we kissed.. my boyfriends friend was there and told him that if i didnt tell him, he was going to.. i knew he wasnt going to break up with me or anything.. so i told him.. but the thing is.. i think i was looking for a fight with him because our relationship was so boring. when i told him, it pissed me off how he was crying instead of being mad, yelling at me. so i started saying things to make him mad.. i said TERRIBLE things. like i was gonna keep cheating on him because he basically lets me, and how i know i take advantage of him because he trusts me so much but i shouldnt.. and he was like well maybe i have to break up with you then.. and he was like i really dont want to. and i was like fine just do it idont care! yelling at him and stuff.. and then he did. i was thinking we would get back together in a couple weeks.. so after we broke up, we still talked because we obv. still loved eachother and everything. we acted like we were going out, and we even 'hooked up' a few times.. but when he asked me back out, i kept saying no, i wasnt ready.. because the relationship was SOOO akward after we broke up.. he was acting so different. and i knew why. it was because i broke his heart. and i did, bad. so one day after we hooked up, my friend told me that her brother saw my 'boyfriend, x-boyfriend, whatever u wanna call him' at a store.. and he was saying how he was done with me and he was trying to get with this new girl 'leesh'.. i was FURIOUS. i called him up screaming at him asking for all my stuff back and it was over for good and everything. but really, i wanted an appology from him, not my stuff back. btw, i was very remorsful for cheating on him and saying what i said to him, i mustve appologized a million times.. but he didnt say anything, he justgave me all my stuff back and acted like it was nothing.. and then i kept trying to get him back, but he kept rejecting me. i was litterally down on my knees for this kid. until one day i found out he had a girlfriend. not just some girl.. the girl who dates ALL the boys that i date after me.. but thats a whole nother story.. anyways, i was devistated. i couldnt eat, i couldnt talk, i couldnt sleep, i couldnt go to school,, nothing. all i did was cry and cry and cry and cry. i tried talking to him seeing if we could be friends and stuff, but he hates me now. if i send him one text, he shuts his phone off. he goes all different ways in the halls so i dont have to see him in school, he wont even look my way. he saw me practically drown in my own tears and he didnt even care. i wrote him long long letters, i tried everything i could just to be able to talk to him when i need to, so i wouldnt be so hurt about the situation.. now, i have two weeks left of school and im failing 4 classes.. and im an honors student. i DONT fail. its not me. and im grounded because of it, so i cant even go out and try to forget it. its been sense thhe end of february... and still,all i can think about is killing myself.. people say they are heart broken.. but this gives heart broken a new definition. there is litterally a hole in my chest. and i keep getting maaaassive anxiety attacks in class, and i do go to counceling wich is sort of helpful but we mostly talk about my parents.. three days ago, she broke up with him. and he was very upset from what i heard.. he hasnt tried talking to me or anything but i dont know what to do, i want to talk to him but he'll just ignore me.. i love this kid and care about him with my life. today i thought i was going to DIE. it was the last day of school for the seniors. the last time ill EVER see him again. the last time ill ever get to look for him i the halls so i can walk by him.. that was the only time i ever got to see him, and today was my last day. and when i walked by him for the very last time of my life today, he didnt even look at me. it was so painful. he couldnt even have the heart to say bye to me considering im his first love and helll never see me again. i havent been able to stop crying sense i last saw him. i dont even know what to do with my life any more. someone PLEEEEEASE tell me what to do to get him back. ANNYTHING. I AM DESPERATE FOR HELP. we had such a good relationship till i cheated and we Never ever had one fight. but you dont even understand. this kid wouldnt even look at any other girls, deleted all the girls in his phone book, couldnt go an hour without texting me just saying he loved me, couldnt go a day withouth seeing me, brought me flowers randomly, did EVERYTHING for me. how can you love someone so much and go through everything we've been through together, and then just completely shut them out of your life? (link)
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first of all i want to same i'm so sorry about your break up. it does hurt and it hurts ten times more when you know they have moved on. but you shouldn't have cheated on him especially if he was as sensitive as you say he was. that's probably why he cried instead of getting angry. i believe he really loved you and he knew you loved him he did everything for you because you were his princess and by judging all the things you said to him that night he probably thought "wow she doesn't love me anymore or maybe she never did love me" it hit him extremely hard and that would probably be the reason he doesn't want any contact with you whatsoever. that really stung him and he probably thinks taht seeing talking to you would just bring the hurt back so he wants to avoid it. im not dogging on you but just trying to explain why he could be acting this way. you aren't a bad person you just made a pretty big mistake. but don't go looking for fights anymore since you may not get the results you wanted. they might be ten times worse. i think you shouldnt try to talk to him at least for a while so he can forget about it and try again later. when i say try i mean try to be friends. take it slowly with him so you can earn his trust back dont do anything extreme like harming yourself its just not worth it
hope i helped
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I have dated one guys for 5 years now an he has cheated on me 17 times. I moved out from his house an now i live with someone i really get along with. Everytime i try to break up with the other guy he begs me not to do it that he will change. Please i need so advice on how to tell him i dnt want him no more (link)
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tell him that everytime he says he will change he ends up cheating on you again. say that you don't want to be in a relationship with someone who isn't faithful to you. he will need to prove to you that he's serious.
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my old girlfriend says making out with me is boring. and wen we madeout it was kind of boring.
what can i do to make it fun and exciting?!
thank you ! (link)
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you can get an ice cube and swish it into both of your mouths.
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Ok so im 13 and i have the most amazing boyfriend ever its been a little more than 3 months now!
We havent kissed yet. Ive never kissed anyone and I know for a fact he hasnt either. I really want to kiss him i like him so much.
so I understand these questions sound wierd but please help!
1:How do i give him the hint i want to kiss him?
2:where do i put my hands!
3:what way do i tilt my head?
4:how long do we kiss?
5:open or close my eyes?
Please help me i really like him
Thank you so much in advance!
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1. you can hug him and kiss his cheek then look deeply into his eyes then move in for the kiss. don't be to aggressive with it. it could turn him off. move your head towards his slowly and gently.
2. you could put one of your hands on his cheek and keep the other against something thats not part of you and your boyfriend. you can put one hand on each cheek. you can even put one hand on the back of his neck.
3. try tilting your head to the right and he should tilt his to the left.
4. since neither of you kissed anyone before you should take your time and kiss for 15-30 seconds.
too long could make him uncomfortable or he could really enjoy it. it depends on the guy on how long he wants to kiss a girl. if you stop kissing him and he leans in and kisses you again that means he will want you to kiss him for longer than 30 seconds.
5. both of you keep your eyes closed.
p.s if you get nervous and not sure what he'll like its always ok to start off with a kiss on his cheek or a little peck on his lips
hope i helped let me know how it went
taelatte07
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Well, i have liked this one boy for about a year now. We used to talk all the time on the computer. But we randomly stopped. And every few months we talk, then stop. We talk every time we see eachother and he always seems to flirt w/ me by making fun of my height. (im 16, 4'11.) And he pokes me a lot. When we talk online, we talk a lot, and he tells me he likes me and hes extremely nice. Its been like this for a year, and i really, really like him. We started talking online again, and this time, i don't want to stop. What are some things i can say to him to help explain if he likes me like he says he does, to not do this. Because when we don't talk, i try to move on but can't. Please help!? And also, what are some things we can talk about so that i can keep him interested? Thank you soo much =] (link)
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you can ask him about his hobbies what he turns him on in a girl what he dislikes and a tell him a little about yourself and what you like in a guy this may sound weird but you can have a friend ask him on a scale of 1-10 how much he likes you and how hott he thinks you are or you can ask him that your self
hope i helped
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There's this guy who I met at this campsite, and he is so cute and I love him to death. At first I am pretty sure that he didn't like me. He was flirting for a little while, and he smiled at me a lot. At the end of the trip, before I left, he asked for my number. I gave it to him, why not? Let's just say it took him about 4 months to call me, and when he did, I almost had a heart attack. I was daydreaming about him all 4 months before he called me. I got tongue tied when I heard his voice. I was so nervous talking to him, so all our conversations consisted of texting. He started telling me I was beautiful, and then he said "i love you." i replied "i love you too" and we would say that every day, and I meant it. I wasn't sure if he did though. Then he told me right after his "i love you" he said, "o and by the way i asked a girl out today..." i was shocked. i had wanted to ask him out all the days we had talked, but i couldn't. He stopped talking to me after announcing that he got a gf. then he finally said hi after announcing that they had broke up. I love him so much, and i cant keep my mind off him, and i dont have eyes for anyone else but him, but if i ask him out he will say no, because i got close, asking him if he sees us as a couple. and he said, no, i think we are "distant friends." and yet right after that he talks about how when we see each other again at the camping place where we met, he is going to kiss me under the stars. I am so stuck on him, please help me!!! :-((( (link)
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from what you said i don't think he likes you as much as you like him. it sounds to me he uses you as a flirting buddy and he seems like he's just a tease. i could be wrong about him but i'm saying be careful he could play like kids play with toys. but if you really really like him why don't you ask him on a date at the camping site where you met and see if he does kiss you under the stars like he said he would in other words test him
hope it helps tell me how it turns out
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hi, well i liked this girl that i was good friends with, and today i told her. suprisingly she told me that she felt the same way, and on friday we are going to meet up and talk, because we are not sure whether to stay freinds, or risk our really good freindship and get together. ok so what i need help with is this, what do i talk to her about, after we've decided what to do. if we decide to get together, what do i say to her and what do i do? and if she says no, just be normal or what? thanks a lot guys! :) (link)
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if she says no you should totally be normal treat as you did before and maybe if you do she'll make probably make up her mind and decide she wants to be with you and if you decide to get together ask her what makes her smile happy and laugh and what makes her angry that way you will know to avoid doing that certain thing let her know you'll be here for her if you need her or if she needs a shoulder to cry on you're there on a date you can start off with a picnic of her favorite foods in your backyard then go get ice cream then when it gets in the evening hours take a walk in the park and just lay in the grass and talk for a while and watch the stars
hope it helps let me know how it turns out
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Alright, my bf doesn't want me to come with to pick up his best friend at the airport because he says it's his friend and I don't even know him. But what's the big deal? He makes a big deal about it and I just want to come with my bf.
What do you guys think about it? (link)
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well he probably just missed his friend and just wants to drive him from the air port on his own because he wants to visit with his friend right away and do some male bonding with him
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He's going to be moving out of his house before fall, into an apartment-- and his mother just needs to let go which is making my boyfriend so angry.
They ended up fighting over the phone.
They hung up, and my boyfriend was furious. In the past, he's wanted me there when hes angry at his mother, just to hold me and make him feel a little better.
tonight though, he didnt show any response to me after the phone call. i was going to follow him out, but he said he'd be right back to grab some things. i waited a few minutes, and finally went downstairs and he was just driving off.
is this a sign of just his stress alone for tonight, or is it a sign of a conflict in our relationship?
I dont know what to do. I'm really upset. (link)
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well since you didnt mention anything of you and your boyfriend having any trouble in the past so i dont really think there's trouble coming in your relationship. this was probably just a sign of stress. he probably didn't let you confort him because he just wanted to be by himself for a while. the best thing for you to do is call him in the morning and check up on him. tell him everythings going to be fine and offer to fix him his favorite meal. rent his favorite movies and watch them with him. you can also tell him he can cry if he wants to or let out a big scream or take a drive around town
hope it helps
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well I really like this kid and he asked me if I had one wish what would it be? and I honestly my wish would be to be with him :] but Idk if I should say that... it seems to forward.. Im like way sure he lieks me back... but idk.... should I tell him that I like him??? or would it mess it up? (link)
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if you like him and your 100 percent sure he likes you back then i say go ahead and tell him. but if like later on before you decide to tell him and you start thinking well maybe he doesnt like me as much as i thought he did then i wouldnt suggest telling him but since you say your positive he does like you go ahead and tell
good luck hope that helped
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so i really like this guy, lets call him A, well i like A and i have liked him for the past 2 years. last year we became really good friends, i guess you could say. he was a sweetheart and he always listened and we joked around and he would always say hi in the halls and stuff. well this year, freshman year of high school, we had no classes together and the summer kinda made us slip away i guess. he was still nice i guess but recently i heard that he was really out of control with drugs and he is kind of a man whore. well basically i still do like him but i dont know what to do, especially i wanna help him because i really dont want him to OD and die. so i'd really appreciate your help.
thanks! btw im 15/f (link)
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talk to him ask him why he likes taking drugs and does the things he does with girls talking about it with him and giving him suggestions on what to do in his spare that doesn't include drugs and help him stick to what may reduce his addictions
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so i totally had a crush on this guy for a few weeks, since like, may... like 27th or something (it's june 14 today). so like, his bff is on my bus, and he's never really talked to me before, but lately he's been like acknowledging me & talking to me more.. idk why... but today, i asked him to sign my yearbook, and he wrote, "to my dearest (my name here)" and i was like omfg, do i like him?... cause yeah guys like me and all but this kid is kinda cute... and what about my crush? i think my crush hates me anyway now cause of my friend hahaha but seriously. Help.
- sined, confused (link)
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well to me it sounds like this guy has a thing for you but you may think that you like him just because the one that you like doesn't like you back and you're getting attention from another guy that you might have a better chance with. and if it does turn out that you really like him while you're on the talk to him like REALLY talk to him as in deep conversation find out what he likes and dislikes become his friend
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I really like this guy. He's my best friends step brother. He asked me out a couple weeks ago, but then broke up with me three days after he asked me out. He said he doesn't get to see me, so it'll never work out. He never even asked my number or email address. It makes me mad that he was so dumb not to ask. I still like him and he was only my third REAL boyfriend. I just started dating soooo, yea. And i really want to not like him, but i do like him. I need help! Am I mental? (link)
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you're not mental you're just in love. i know what it's like when a guy makes you mad and you want to not like it but you can't hlep it. the only thing you can do is try to forget about him and move on. findind a new love interest takes your mind off the old one. you can go shopping ride your bike ( guys usually do ride their bikes so you can meet some guy bikers that are your age)
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I want to break up with my bf. I like him and stuff. but i just don't like him as anything more then friends anymore. Theres really no reason for this change..just b/c. But i ahve no idea how to bring it up, its bring be a lot of stress, and i just want to break up with him, but i'm scared of hurting him. and i have NO idea how to bring it up. HELP (link)
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well you could either call him on the phone or write him a note saying to meet you in the park because you two need to have a serious talk. when he gets there sit him down and be like the time we've been together has been great and you are a really great guy but i don't have feelings for you anymore i only see you as a friend. i don't want you to be my boyfriend anymore i want you to be my friend. and if he doesn't want to be just your friend that's ok because there's not much you can do about that. but if he's willing to try and be your friend your friendship will be a great one
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Mkay, I need some advice about my ex-boyfriend.
Over the course of 4 years we broke up several times and called it quits for a few years, abut 6 months ago we called me and asked me back out, i thought it over and answered yes. I was really happy at first..and so was he. Then my parents got really strict and wouldnt let me go out that much, then he started blaming my family and my friends for not being able to see me. It really hurt me. We spent an entire night on the phone working it out. One night he was at my house and we were watching the Notebook and talking, he kept telling me to kiss him to kiss him and all this, && i wouldnt because it didnt feel right, if that makes any sense at all. We worked all that out and i was really happy again. We had a big fight and broke up, we still talk about us all the time..and i feel like i love him. I know everything about him, all his deepest secrets and i think we are meant to be...I need some advice..should i just try and get over him? or should i try to get back together with him. Im so confused, i cry myself to sleep most of the time, and bust out in tears everytime i hear certain songs, and its been about three months since all this happened.
I am a thirteen year old female (link)
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if you really love him and he really loves you then you should get back together but try to make him understand that you aren't ready to kiss him yet and that your parents don't let you go out as much. if he can't understand that then don't waste your time with and look for someone who can understand
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Yee but i cnt try talking 2 him because i feel like he wud just say ger away or sumfing 2 me? (link)
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well if he's a sweet guy and could very well like you like they say he does then he won't. if you still think he will say go away or anything mean talk to him when he's alone and not around his friends because when guys are with their friends they usually tend to be major jerks.
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I like this boy called jordan he is lovely but i have neva talked 2 him properly my friends are like look hes looking at you im like your lying i really want a chance with this boy hes really nice but what shall i do ? incase he dont like me ? help me please !!? thanks :D! (link)
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try talking to him get to know him a little better. you can invite him to the park to hang out or to the movies or to get a nice cold drink somewhere.
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