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Question Posted Wednesday August 1 2007, 8:40 pm

There's this guy who I met at this campsite, and he is so cute and I love him to death. At first I am pretty sure that he didn't like me. He was flirting for a little while, and he smiled at me a lot. At the end of the trip, before I left, he asked for my number. I gave it to him, why not? Let's just say it took him about 4 months to call me, and when he did, I almost had a heart attack. I was daydreaming about him all 4 months before he called me. I got tongue tied when I heard his voice. I was so nervous talking to him, so all our conversations consisted of texting. He started telling me I was beautiful, and then he said "i love you." i replied "i love you too" and we would say that every day, and I meant it. I wasn't sure if he did though. Then he told me right after his "i love you" he said, "o and by the way i asked a girl out today..." i was shocked. i had wanted to ask him out all the days we had talked, but i couldn't. He stopped talking to me after announcing that he got a gf. then he finally said hi after announcing that they had broke up. I love him so much, and i cant keep my mind off him, and i dont have eyes for anyone else but him, but if i ask him out he will say no, because i got close, asking him if he sees us as a couple. and he said, no, i think we are "distant friends." and yet right after that he talks about how when we see each other again at the camping place where we met, he is going to kiss me under the stars. I am so stuck on him, please help me!!! :-(((

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taelatte07 answered Wednesday August 1 2007, 11:15 pm:
from what you said i don't think he likes you as much as you like him. it sounds to me he uses you as a flirting buddy and he seems like he's just a tease. i could be wrong about him but i'm saying be careful he could play like kids play with toys. but if you really really like him why don't you ask him on a date at the camping site where you met and see if he does kiss you under the stars like he said he would in other words test him
hope it helps tell me how it turns out

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XSugarPieX77 answered Wednesday August 1 2007, 11:04 pm:
HE'S MILKIN IT! Milkin it a.k.a he's trying to do this to you, to see how far he can push you to see the feelings you have for him. Do you know why you love him? You may want to re think this. It seem like he's using you. Talking to you, getting a girlfriend, not talking to you....then talking to you when they break up? Thats not even a friendship! i think its a phase, you think you "love" him,but you really dont, and it'll go away soon. Theirs other fish in the sea. Hope I helped! Happy Summer!

-Brina

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