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Ex Boyfriend..
Mkay, I need some advice about my ex-boyfriend.
Over the course of 4 years we broke up several times and called it quits for a few years, abut 6 months ago we called me and asked me back out, i thought it over and answered yes. I was really happy at first..and so was he. Then my parents got really strict and wouldnt let me go out that much, then he started blaming my family and my friends for not being able to see me. It really hurt me. We spent an entire night on the phone working it out. One night he was at my house and we were watching the Notebook and talking, he kept telling me to kiss him to kiss him and all this, && i wouldnt because it didnt feel right, if that makes any sense at all. We worked all that out and i was really happy again. We had a big fight and broke up, we still talk about us all the time..and i feel like i love him. I know everything about him, all his deepest secrets and i think we are meant to be...I need some advice..should i just try and get over him? or should i try to get back together with him. Im so confused, i cry myself to sleep most of the time, and bust out in tears everytime i hear certain songs, and its been about three months since all this happened.
I am a thirteen year old female <3
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if you really love him and he really loves you then you should get back together but try to make him understand that you aren't ready to kiss him yet and that your parents don't let you go out as much. if he can't understand that then don't waste your time with and look for someone who can understand
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i'm not sure if you got my other answer, but "get over him" was not what i was trying to say, boys are silly, and you'll have plenty of time to find right guys at your age
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You definitly still love him. I would not give up on your relationship. You guys seem like your good together. The reasons you guys broke up are not very important ones so it will just take some time to mature into eachother and stop breaking up & getting mad for stupid reasons, more him doing it than you. I get the whole "doesnt feel right" thing when he was telling you to kiss him. It just wasnt romantic with him asking you to kiss, it's supposed to just happen. He should respect what you want and not get mad. He doesnt sound very understanding, and if you love him, you should work on that with him. Try & get back together with him becuase it sounds like your miserable without him. good luck, :)
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