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okay well i cant exactly read
i have ADD or something!
so i am not going to read the new harry potter book: harry potter and the deathly hallows
since i have only read the chamber of secrets

okay so this is the question that everybody is asking
this is to people who have already read the book:
WHO DIES?!

thanks in advance! (link)
i hate harry potter with a passion. honestly. but i heard one of my friends say someone named snape dies. i think. that may not be the answer you're looking for, but i tried. =]

---molly.


Okay I'm thinking about dying my hair with kool-aid,anyone else have past experiances with this ? Any tips ? anything anyone wouldlike to add. ? Thanks in advance (: (link)
i know a lot of people who have died their hair with kool-aid & it ALWAYS looks really bad. i don't recommend it. =]

---molly.


hey im jess. im 14.so, i loved this boy who hurt me so many times. i couldn;t stop loving him. he broke up with his gf for me and told me he loved me to. but the day before that i started talking to this other guy and liked him a lot. i finally got over the other guy. then i started liking them both. and now i have to choose which one i want. what do i do (link)
i agree with the first answer. i used to do that all the time when i was "young & in love". =]

---molly.


What days should I avoid having sex during a girl's
cycle?
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as long as you're using protection, you're fine. right before her period is the mostly likely time for conception, & right after is the least. =]

---molly.


ok so im sick of my hair color. like i have a really ugly color blonde. its like a really dirty blonde. and it looks like i bleach it but its all natural. and its just disgusting. I HATE IT! and im always getting teased liek ohh your so blonde. but really i dont care about that. thats not the thing that bothers me. but like i really want to dye it. but my mom keeps saying my hair is gorgeous nad all this stuff. but like ireally dont like it. its disgusting. how can i make my mom let my dye it. and im also sick of people saying ohh your too young to dye your hair. but i dont care! so many people have died their hair already and then when i say that oh you only want to do it because everyone else is...its not true! i want it done. but how cna i let my mom understand. i hate my hair. my dad says its fine. but my moms like aadshfjkasd! urrg. i have tried sitting down with her but hten it jsut gets in a fight. help! (link)
i agree with the last answer. ask your mom if you can try something temporary. they ever have color that only last for a few days. also, ask about getting highlights/lowlights (depending on whether you want to go lighter or darker). it's just hair. explain to your mom that it will grow out eventually. =]

---molly.


sry if wrong catagory...

is sun in permenant my friend says it is but i dont think so?! THANKS! (link)
no, it's not permenant. it's activated by sunlight, so if you discontinue your use, & stay out of the sun for a few days, the color will go away. =]

---molly.


What does repent mean? Does it mean to ask for forgiveness?
I was just wondering.
Thanks. (link)
repent means to feel regret, & change your mind. so, yes, it basically means to ask for forgiveness. as long as you've confessed your sins to god, it's okay to recieve communion. you can communicate with god, just as well as a priest can. also, i think it'd be fine not to mention a specific sin. =]

---molly.


what0's the name of a hip hop song or r and b i dont know , but some girl or girls say "wanna see you rock your body , gotta see you rock your body" somehting like that ? its not justin timberlake song just so you know (link)
timbaland featuring nelly furtado & justin timberlake-give it to me. that's the only song i can think of. =]

---molly.


14/f


without being harsh/destroying my self esteem, please look at this pic of my body and tell me how fat I am.





Like would you classfiy me as "huge obese fatass, fat, average, sexy, etc."

i'm 5'2" and could you also guess how much i weigh? (i'm not telling you straight off)

thanks.

pleeease don't be harsh though. (link)
don't worry girl. you're not huge, obsese, or fat. i'm guessing you weigh around 150. if you're uncomfortable with your body, do something about it. exercise. eat healthy. no one should have to be insecure about themself. =]

---molly.


hey this is a question for all the girls>>>what do you use to masturbate? like ive used tampons before but idk. please help. thanks! (link)
buy a vibrator. they're not expensive at all. otherwise, just use your fingers to massage your clit. it works great for me. =]

---molly.


Do all people masturbated or what? who does it more men or women is it 50/50 or 95% of men and 75% of women? is it healthy? or people just say that to dont feel bad or gross out about them self? and how can you tell if that person does it? (link)
EVERYONE masturbates. unless you're outrageously religious or something. men & women both do it. not one more than another. it's completely healthy. there's no way to tell if someone masturbates, but like i said, almost everyone does it at some point or anther. =]

---molly.


Heyy im 16/f and ive had stretch marks on my breasts pretty much since i was little and it really bothers me because when i wear a swimsuit you can see them and i just wanted to know if there is anything i can buy to make them go away? my boobs aren`t even that big, i`ve been a 34B for like 3/4 years now! =/ (link)
use cocobutter. my friend just had a baby, & she uses it for her stretch marks. it may not make them disappear completely, but it'll definitely help. =]

---molly.


i am going to a party the 23rd and on myspace 4 girls that i thought were really nice and everything are plotting something to ruin my reputation, i don't no what to do but they think i'm a boystealer i mean i'm really not i just hang out with guys all the time because my sisters always did because they used to say how much easier it is to be friends with guys then girls and i like it too. But should i go to the party i mean its the first time ill get to see all my friends all summer and i usually just don't cheat myself of having fun. But please helP!!! i really don't want a bad reputation going into the high school!!!!! (link)
don't worry, most girls are all talk. & if they do try to ruin your repuation, THEY'RE going to have the reps of bitches. i wouldn't sweat it. go & enjoy yourself. if something happens, just play it cool. everyone has haters. =]

---molly.


okay well i straighten my hair a lot, there's no other choice. i use a heat protecting spray but my hair still gets damaged. what's some good shampoo & conditioner that will 'restore' my hair? yesterday i just bought Suave Humectant and i didn't use it yet and it says it restores dry/damaged hair and gives moisture if this helps at all. (link)
i use cool moisture by dove, & i really like it a lot. i straighten my hair everyday, but it still looks completely healthy. =]

---molly.


is this a good camera !!
http://www.walmart.com/catalog/product.do?product_id=5367837 (link)
yeah, it seems like a pretty good camera. if you'd like to read some feedback from others, go to froogle.com & type in the name of the product. =]

---molly.


This is more of a question than asking for advice but I want a new dog but I don't know what kind to get. I want a small dog (not small just as a puppy but for it's life). I want it to be cute, smart, easy to train, and friendly with strangers. Can anyone give me names of dogs/pictures?

BTW: I know all of these qualities are based on opinion but try to answer them the best you can.
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i agree with the last two answers. cocker spaniels are absolutely perfect. i've had xena for sixteen years, & she's the love of my life. hehe. they are medium-sized, though. if you're looking for something a little smaller, cockapoos, cocker spaniel, poodle mixes are great.

http://live.canoe.ca/Photos/Life/Pets/2006/08/02/0802_cockapoo440.jpg

& i love puggles, pug, beagle mixes, too. =]

http://www.luxist.com/media/2005/12/puggle.JPG

---molly.


Hey,
So, I've been wanting to lose a little weight over the summer. I'm aaaalmost five foot, and I weigh about 98 pounds. I guess I'm not really fat, but for some reason, in my opinion I look kind of 'thicker'?
Like, I actually look like this:
http://tinypic.com/view.php?pic=4zmiyxv
http://tinypic.com/view.php?pic=6hhj53p

While, I'd rather look like this (size-wise):
http://tinypic.com/view.php?pic=4g83hoz

I would never want to look anorexicly thin, just thin. I need to be thin for cheering, actually. My bases complain too much weight, when I am 'pulling up'.
But anyway, I am going to have running for cheering three days a week, and I'm planning on doing a certain amount of curlups for every snack I eat. (like, yesterday it was 50 for each peice of chocolate). That should help me stay away from fatty foods, because seriously, at both my mom's and dad's house, all there are are fatty snacks, and they all get mad at me if I reccomend healthier, diet foods. They wont let me diet. So, Will this help at getting me thinner, or will I just look really muscular?


Anyways, straight-forward answers are good.
Thanks for any help, and I'll rate accordingly! (link)
woman, you're not thick, you just have shape, unlike the picture of your dream body. your workout regimen sounds good, though. i recommend going grogery shopping with your parents. pick out a few (healthier) things that you'd like to have in the house. oh, & as long as you're not pumping iron, you won't look too muscular. =]

---molly.


i would like to hear from girls who have had a friends with benefits relationship with a guy. like how it started, and how it ended up. did you have feelings for the guy beyond friendship? did you end up becoming boyfriend & girlfriend? or did you end up getting hurt or feeling used? do you regret it, or are you glad you did it? basically, do you think its a good idea or not? (link)
i've been in that situation. it's not a bad idea, as long as you're not emotionally attached. my best boy friend & i used to mess around all the time. neither of us had any intentions of being in a relationship with anyone else. we were completely comfortable with the situation, & with each other. it actually went on for about three years. we did date on & off while all this was happening, but we were better off friends. we don't talk much anymore because he moved out of state, but i know he's still my bff, & he always will be. the benefits only made our friendship stronger, but it really depends on the person. go ahead & do it, but there's always the risk of heartbreak. =]

---molly.


16/f

How big of a chance do I have of getting pregnant considering I had sex the day before my expected period? Like, I had sex last night, but he didnt go but theres still pre-cum, but whats the chance of me being pregnant? I usually get my period between the 20-23 of every month, so far I haven't gotten it and I know I can't be pregnant that soon. So what are my chances? (link)
the chances of you getting pregnant are very slim, although, right before your period is the most likely time for conception, since you're about to ovulate. quit stressing about it, though. that could cause your period to be even later. wait a week or two & get a pregnancy test. & you should probably talk to your doctor about birth control, so you won't have this problem. =]

---molly.


My ex from like 5th grade, well, he's been popping in my head everyday for like the past week, and I even had a dream about him last night. I miss him so much. I haven't even seen him in 3 years, but I just want to talk to him, so, so, badly. And see how he's doing (he moved a few years ago).

-His email changes now and then, and the one I have right now is no longer in use, so I don't know it.

-I don't know the address to the house he moved to.

-I don't know his screen name or whatever his email is now.

-I don't know his phone number or his cell (or if he even has one)

I want to talk to him so badly. All I know is the area he lives in. I want to talk to him! Please don't tell me it's not going to happen. There has GOT to be a way I can get his email!! There HAS to be. Does anyone know?! (link)
why don't you talk to some of the people he was friends with when he still lived in your area? maybe they have his screen name/number/address. =]

---molly.




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