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i want to dye my hair..help
ok so im sick of my hair color. like i have a really ugly color blonde. its like a really dirty blonde. and it looks like i bleach it but its all natural. and its just disgusting. I HATE IT! and im always getting teased liek ohh your so blonde. but really i dont care about that. thats not the thing that bothers me. but like i really want to dye it. but my mom keeps saying my hair is gorgeous nad all this stuff. but like ireally dont like it. its disgusting. how can i make my mom let my dye it. and im also sick of people saying ohh your too young to dye your hair. but i dont care! so many people have died their hair already and then when i say that oh you only want to do it because everyone else is...its not true! i want it done. but how cna i let my mom understand. i hate my hair. my dad says its fine. but my moms like aadshfjkasd! urrg. i have tried sitting down with her but hten it jsut gets in a fight. help!
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OMG... i went shopping like 20 minutes ago and i convinced my mom to buy hairdye. LOL i can DEFINITALLY help you with this one.
What I did was I went up to my mom, strong and couragous. (if you go up to her, scared, you'll never get anything you want) I told my mom that I was so bored and sick of my hair. I WANTED CHANGE. I said that very loud. I told her what kind of hair I wanted and I looked into her eyes and said "please mom?" and I put on the biggest smile. She said no... so i took it to the next level by saying that I will only dye my hair that's non-permanent and that it was just for fun. She was stuck in between yes and no, by now.
Then I told her that it was summer vacation and i never get to do anything risky, and that I wanted to do this so badly. She said OK as long as it's not permanent and gone by the time school starts.
So we left about an hour ago, we debated on colors (she kept saying it was too dark for my hair) but I didn't care.
Just make sure that you tell her that this is for YOU. Not for her. YOU should be happy about your hair, not her.
I hope I helped!!!!!
-volleyball2150
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i agree with the last answer. ask your mom if you can try something temporary. they ever have color that only last for a few days. also, ask about getting highlights/lowlights (depending on whether you want to go lighter or darker). it's just hair. explain to your mom that it will grow out eventually. =]
---molly.
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Have you ever proposed to her that, in the same way she uses makeup and clothing to change between work and home, you would like something to change with your hair? Ask her to go with you to the store to pick out a temporary color that will wash out in a few weeks. There are a lot of them. You can choose together if there's a strawberry blonde, a light brown, or possibly raven black color that you'd like to try. There's also the possibility of not changing the base color but adding highlights. Tell her you'd just like to play with your appearance a little and it doesn't need to be drastic or permanent.
Be forewarned, however, that people will tease you no matter what color your hair is. If they teased you before about being blonde, they will tease you later about still being blonde underneath or about being "fake." If people want to tease you, they will find something - no matter what.
Good luck.
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