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hey im jess. im 14.so, i loved this boy who hurt me so many times. i couldn;t stop loving him. he broke up with his gf for me and told me he loved me to. but the day before that i started talking to this other guy and liked him a lot. i finally got over the other guy. then i started liking them both. and now i have to choose which one i want. what do i do
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To start off:
I get where you're coming from.
Almsot exactly actually.
What you have to do,
is really think about which guy is better for you.
The guy who hurt you, or this new guy.
I ended up going for it with the new guy, and guess how long it lasted?
2 weeks. Lovely, right?
So I'm personally leaning towards the guy you were already with, but that's just because I've gotten hurt the other way.
Sorry if this wasn't much help?
<3 Laura.
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i agree with the first answer. i used to do that all the time when i was "young & in love". =]
---molly.
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This is going to sound cliche, but follow your heart.
To tell you the truth, at first I was going to say go with the one that hasn't hurt you. But honestly? You need to take risks if you want to be with the one you love.
I think you know which one you like. Listen to your heart. It won't lie to you.
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OK, put your feeling aside for one moment. Now pick up a pen and some paper. Now make a list of postive quailties of both of them. Now rip it up and let your heart decide.
(And if that doesn't work for you, go with the guy that's hurt you the least and the one you love the most.)
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