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Wut up, peeps? It's me, Ke! I'm 15 and I live in southern CA. I like to write, sing, dance, hang with friends, play games, swim, and so much more. Feel free to ask me anything, because I will try to give you the best advice that I can! Please Rate!

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14/f
i like this guy and he likes talking on the phone, but i don't. i just never have anything to say so it ends up being a boring and silent convo. what are some ranodm topics i could talk about so it's not akward silences the whole time?

Hi!
You should talk to him about sports. (The Superbowl is coming up, so that can make conversation.) Or you can talk about TV Shows or your favorite celebrity. I would go with sports.

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Ke

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How should I ask a girl if she will go out with me?

You should go up to her and ask her if she's doing anything and if she wants to go ....... (add what you want there) with you. That's the classic way.

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Ke

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13/f
(sorry this is really long)

Yesterday I went to Cedar Point with one of my really good friends for her birthday. She introduced me to one of her guy friends, let's call him Fred. So at Cedar Point there was Me, my good friend named Emily, Fred, TK and two other people. Well..Emily said that Fred told her that he really likes me. There may have been some signs..but I'm not sure like exactly how guys flirt. So..Since it was Halloweekends at Cedar Point we went through lots of haunted houses. a.)Fred always let me hold on to his arm and he held onto mine when we went through them.
b.) As humiliating as it may seem, I tried running from this freaky guy and I tripped and fell (lmao) and people started laughing. Fred told everyone to stop laughing and like stood up for me.

c.) Fred rode on every single ride with me. (Until yesterday I had never gone on a rollercoaster and he kept insisting that I go on every ride with him.)

Are these signs?? Because when people ask if he likes me he doesn't deny it..and Emily said that he wanted to ask me to be his girlfriend. It's not that I don't trust Emily or anything it's just that..y'know..friends mess around with you like that!

Any help is greatly appriciated =]

Yea, I think those are signs that he likes you. If he asks you out, you don't have to say yes. You could just get to know him and see how things go from there.

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Ke

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Okay I like this guy, in my P.e./health class. He's really cool, and we have a lot in common. He's a football player though, and made the varsity team his freshamn year. He's like every girls perfect guy. He's smart, funny, gorgeous, and he's a athletic. He notices me, but he has TONS of girls that are friends, and I only talk to him a little bit at a time. I really want him to notice me more, any Ideas? Oh, and what is a good way to get my confidence up around him?!?

(I'm, athletic, smart, (cute), and normally never guy shy. Most of my friends are guys, so I'm really athletic!)

You should talk to him about sports. And play with him, so you can become more comfortable around him. Be yourself, and have fun!

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Ke

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I am terrified of asking someone out and being rejected. I don't want to be made fun of and it would hurt me. I have always seen boys I like go because I have been to afarid to say anything. I don't want that to happen with the current guy I like. So my question is how do I get over the fear of rejection? Thank you.

You can't get over it until you try. It will be scary, but you have to be brave. Once then will you not be afraid.
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Ke

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I really like this guy who lives near me, hes 14/m and im 13/f. Everyone tells me that he likes me but I dont believe them. Everytime he see's me he gives me a hug. And in school, between classes, he trys to hold my hand. I really want to ask him out. Should I? How do i know if he really does like me?

I think he likes you. If he keeps trying to be affectionate to you, he probably likes you. Go for it! Ask him out!
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Ke

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I have this guy friend. (Let's call him Mark.) Anyways, I was at this party a couple of weeks ago and Mark was kinda like "my date." After a while, he told one of my friends(Let's call her Sonya)something but he didn't tell me. I was upset about that, so I didn't talk to him until Sonya told me what Mark had told her. Mark said that he liked me and wanted to go out with me. I, don't like him like that at all. Anyways, at school the next week, Mark was acting all stupid to me. He was saying that I'm mean and stuff. He also said that he doesn't like me anymore. My question is "Why is Mark acting so dumb?" He told another friend (We'll call her Katie) that I have been acting stupid ever since I found out that he liked me.
Thanks for ur help!
P.S. I'm a girl, andd i'm 13 in the eight grade. Mark is also in my grade and is 13.

Mark has been acting dumb b/c he still likes you. He's sad that you don't like him and are trying to keep his feelings for you on the DL.
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Ke

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Is it a turnoff if a girl asks a guy out???

And can you like kinda clarify... i really need help... anyone... i rate high

Gomesy

No way. Guys actually like when girls ask them out. It takes all the pressure off him. Just ask the guy you like if he wants to see a movie or something. You can make it a group date, so it would be easier for you.
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Ke

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I really love my boyfriend a lot. We have known each other for a long time. But I like to flirt a lot with other guys, sometimes i just can't help it. And my boyfriend will find out sometimes and it makes him feel bad. I don't think he would break up with me but I hate to hurt him. It makes me feel so bad. What can I do?

Don't flirt with other guys then. When you realize you are flirting, stop and start a new topic.
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Ke

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well there is this guy and i like him a lot and he knida flirts with me but i dont know if he is just plaing or flirting . he does stuff like slap my butt(a lot) and he is really sweet. at the beginning of the year me, him, and some other people were playing truth or dare and we got dared to kiss. oh ya and at the beginning orf the year(before truth or dare) i asked him out but he said ne after a lot of thought like a whole days worth. does he like me or is he just playing?. i rate 5s. please help me. 14 f

I think that he is in the middle and he can't really decide whether he likes you or not. Give him time.
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Ke

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14/ f..ok to start out i've been with the guy for a little over a month. im really talkative but i still chock up cuz sometimes im not sure he really likes me. he has a hard time expressing himself and he has a phone-phobia. is it wrong for the girl to call everytime. i dont call everyday but i feel like im being pushy since i was the one that asked him out. what your view? thanx.

I think he is nervous and maybe a little scared because he's not sure whether you really like him. No problem calling him every once in a while but ask him to call you sometimes too.
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Ke

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I am a 15 year old female. There is this boy i really like and he flirts with me and i flirt back. He pokes me all the time and makes fun of me and everything. He went out with one of my friends but they broke up in January and only went out for a week. What should i do?

Ask him out. I'm pretty sure he likes you. Make sure your friend is over him though.
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Ke

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Well everytime i go some where like walking around my neighbor hood or driving in my car all these guys stop and look at me! its really starting to make me mad. I was walking home from school and this guy stopped and asked me my name and stuff. and just today a car full of guys stopped and asked me to come over to them its really gettin on my nerves. i dont dress slutty or any thing i just wear jeans a a big shirt or shorts and a long shirt. how do i get them to stop!

Yell at them or have a good comeback. Don't listen to them if it's bothering you so much.
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This morning my boyfriend is being a major jerk. I don't know why, but it's like he doesn't even care how I feel today. I wish he would just talk to me. I am trying to send him hints, but it's not working! How can I get his attention?

Tell him how you feel. Or you can act like a jerk to him for like a day and see how he feels about it.
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Ke

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ok this girl that i like ive heard she said that im clingy.. well im not really sure what she means. and im not sure what to do about it. so my question is what can i do not to be clingy and still have her like interested in me and what you think clingy means, like try to explain it?! thanks soo much!

Don't be clingy by not needing to be around people (or that girl) all the time. Girls don't like guyz that are clingy. It's just annoying. Try talking to her and see how she feels about you. "Clingy" to me is always needed to be with someone or not wanting to let go when it's time to let go.
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ok my boyfriend invited me over to his house to watch a movie and his parents were not home. and about half way in the movie he leaned over and kissed me and we started making out and them he took all of my clothes off and we started having sex it was so much fun!!! My friends were all asking what happend at his house should i tell them?

If you want. It depends on how you feel. Do you feel comfortable telling them what happened? Then go ahead.
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Ke

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Alright heres the situation. I am in love with my boyfriend call him Brayden, I'm honestly in love with him. We dated for two months over the summer and then broke up. Today is our one month anniversry and I know that I love him. We live a state or two away from each other but we can't deny our love for each other. I just went to a new high school becuase i moved away from my old one and I met my friend, lets call him Josh. Well me and Josh have gotten really close we're not best friends but we know almost everythign about each other. He's the first person I see when I go into school and I find my heart begin to race as I think about seeing him. He's ussually the last thing I think about at night and the first when I awake. He's the only one I really talk to at my school becuase I drifted from my other friends and he jsut got over this one girl he liked. I helped him get through it telling him that if she doesn't see what a great guy he is and how amazing he is then its her loss and he deserves way better. I have been there for him though all his problems and vice versa. During the 4 months I didn't date Brayden I was in deep deep like with Josh then i stopped liking him when Brayden asked me out again becuase I was still in love with Brayden. I know its really confusing but I love Brayden but I deeply like Josh. Brayden's a state or two away and Josh is right there in my school. What should I do? .... ((Josh doens't like me, He goes for the skinny preppy girls and im a bit on the heavy side, but not real big and i'm a bit punkish ... 15/f))

Stay with Brayden. You love him and he loves you. I think that you were just thinking about Josh when you and Brayden weren't dating, so there would be a guy in your life. I think you and Josh should just be friends. Stick with Brayden.
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What do you guys think of a 18-year-old(f) dating a 24-year-old(m). And don't give any of that "age doesn't matter crap" bcasue it does. What do yall think of the maturity levels?

The biggest problem I see... The 18-year-old is still a freshman in college and the 24-year-old graduated 2 years ago.

I think that their maturity levels are WAY different. 24 years old are like partying and crap and working while 18 year olds just left home and like are trying to become independent and party and the same time. So the ages sort of matter, a 24 yr. old can LEGALLY drink, a 18 yr. old can't. (in the U.S)
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I'm 26 and have been with my boyfriend for 5 years next month. We've talked about marriage on and off and it's always been a positive conversation from his point of view, I've always been more hesitant but have realised I really do want to marry him. So! I am thinking of surprising him and popping the question!

Even though it isn't leap year is it ok for girls to propose to boys and if so what do you get them!?

Guys and gals I need your help!

Go ahead and propose to him! It's definitely okay! He'll probably be so surprised and shocked! Good luck!
Ke

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whenever im talking to this guy i like on the phone or online i never know wht to say!! its soo annoying and awkward. i dont know him tht well so what would be some things to say that would start a conversation?? please help! i rate 5s to answers that dont piss me off!!!

Try to find out stuff that both of you have in common and talk to him about that stuff. Otherwise, just talk about school, sports, celebrities(which can always be funny, or yourself.
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