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I have been going out with this guy for about 2 months and he bought me a bracelet and necklace and my friends all think the bracelet is real gold or w/e idk. Anyways i told one of my best guy friends (who happens to be my ex bf) that I was planning on dumping him (and they are friends him and my bf) and he said he wouldnt tell him i said that but instead he told my bf to be a better bf to me and not be so shy around me so that night my bf invited me somewhere but i couldnt go then the next day he got me a really cool necklace so if I dump him that would be mean after he got me stuff and i heard he really really likes me! But I told my best friend about me dumping him and she told our other friend and our other friend told my bf so my bf was all i heard u were gonna dump me is it true and i was freaked so i said no so now if i dump him he'll no i lied and he'll be torn! what to do?? plz help sry this is long ill rate ya thanx love ya! ps. he seems more like the friend type!
pss. i cant help myself very much i have had 8 bfs and never been dumped i dump all them im not a player really i just get bored easily!(i no its stupid) im 13/f!!! (link)
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tell him you dont feel the same way bout him and that you sed no cause you didnt want 2 hurt his feelings. if i was you i tell him to fuk off.
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Me and my best friend liked the same guy, so I decided to back off of him so she could have him. He started liking her, then she told him she didn't want a boyfriend. Tonight at a b-ball game I hung out with him alot and he started liking me and then at halftime my friend came up to me and said "Damn, Andy looks hott tonight" and so I was like..crap. I don't want her to be mad at my, but I like this guy and he likes me, but I don't want it to like mess with our friendship. Its not like I'm going to go out with him right away, I want to get to know him and all....but what should I do? (link)
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tell he to get the fuk of your guy. she had him and she lossd him. he likes u now so tell her to keep away. if she is a true m8 then she will understand.
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my bf is hidding behind being shy!
we have a son that was just born on halloween and he still hasnt got a job! i need help and he agreed to help, right now my parents are paying for everything and i dont know how to make him get a job, hes 18 years old...the only job hes ever has i got for him he didnt have to work for it so he doesnt know how to get one and ive tried to teach him but still doesnt go and get a job...i dont know what to do...how can i make him get a job but still be nice about it. (link)
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tell him your sick and tried of haveing your parents pay for everything and that you want him to pull his finger out. sometimes you have to be cruel to kind.
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Alright I'm a 17 year old male. I met this girl through a friend of a friend basically. At first it was rather awkward cause I'm a really shy person but she isnt. Then we got to know eachother rather well and became good friends. But I love this girl, shes so great. I've told her this and at first she started ignoring me. Then she was okay with it. She never said she loved me back. She just said it was okay If I loved her. So I started being more nice to her. I baught her lunch for a month,I pre-ordered the new Ev CD for her (she's a HUGE Ev fan), I gave her a necklace too... then she suddenly started ignoring me again. She won't even talk to me anymore. Some of her friends claim I freaked her out because I baught her stuff but... I was just being me. Being nice. I just wanted to see her happy. Anyhow, she's talking to me again but its not like before. It's only a hello here and there. So What do I do? (link)
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u should go up 2 her and explain y u did it all. apologise for the way u acted like u know buying her stuff. i know u wanted to see her happy bt i agree with all ur m8s u probly freeked her out. im a girl and i understand wots shes going through. all u need to do is basically tell her the truth. im not being nasty bt she prob doesnt fell the same way about you as u do her. if u get my drift. girls get freeked out by the way that people especially boys. if tboys tell girls they love them it can scare them away. just say that ur not gonna lie about still loving her and you can change the way that you feel bt tell her u still want to be m8s wiv her cus u like the relationship the way it was before. she might not acept it as first bt she will cum round it may take a while bt she will trust me i am 1.
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I started dating this really great guy... but he is really sensitive. He broke up with me and lied to me about why. We got back togethre and he did it again. This time i got upset with him. He was being a complete jerk. I dont want our freindship to be wasted but i feel all weird around him and he is getting on my nerves. Should i forgive him and try to forget about feeling weird or should i leave him alone? (link)
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want my advice? fuk him cus 2 me he dont sound worth it.
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well my boyfriend is sweet and everything but he is too sweet , I mean he watches out for me and he said that I was the only one in the world for him , he even promised that he didnt like no other gurls like cheerleaders and movie stars , stuff like that, but I cant stand it any more! he calls to check on me at 4:00am! what do i do ?
I dont want to break his heart but I need some time alone, plz HELP!!!! (link)
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TELL HIM STRAIGHT! tell him u dnt want to be woken up at 4 am wen ur sleeping and tell him its ok to fancy other girls bt just dont cheat on u kk good look.
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14/f here, freshman in high school if that helps.
This requires a lot of explanation, so it'll be pretty long- sorry.
I have been going out with a guy, let's call him Bob, since October 18th. I first met Bob in sixth grade Art class, however he was really dorky and being the prep I was, I ignored him. In seventh grade I didn't see him or think about him at all. In eigth grade he was in my health class. I noted he was there and looked vaguely familiar, but didn't think much of him. This year, I saw him again at the Aloha Dance, and he looks much better, basically average. I danced with him and we agreed to meet up again sometime, then the dance ended and we went our seperate ways. Me & my friends were hanging out after school at the library one day when my friend asked who the guy was staring at me. I turned around and there he was! I said hi but that was it. This happened several times over the course of the week. Finally two weeks before the Homecoming Dance he asked me to go with him, and I said yes. I was so thrilled to be asked, I didn't really think about whether I liked him or not. He picked me up for Homecoming with the traditional wristlet, photos, etc. etc. then we went to dinner, and it was pretty quiet. The homecoming dance was fine except for the fact that he insisted on spending all our time with HIS friends- a few times I sneaked off to the "bathroom" just to hang out with mine. Also, he insisted on dancing VERY close. Finally at the end of the night he asked me to be his girlfriend and I said yes, once again so happy to be asked I wasn't thinking. That was October 16th and I'm still dating him. There are several problems though.
First off, I DON"T LIKE HIM!!! Not at all. As a friend, yes, but no romantic interest.
Also, he's superpossesive- I never get to spend time with my friends at brunch or lunch. He insists on kissing me in front of my friends, which embarasses them. It just really annoys me.
Third, he's too serious about our relationship- he's told me he loved him (i just smiled), and is talking about PROM! (I'm a freshman, as is he.)
I know I should break up with him, but he's just too nice. Many people have told me I go too far when I try to be kind, and this is the best example. I really don't want to hurt him!
-tinkerbell_7141 (link)
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tell him straight sometimes you have to be cruel to be kind but make sure u do it ur self and not get one of youre m8s 2 do it. just tell him everything tht u have just told me. if he doesnt take it straight away just turn round to him and say that u neva lykd him the way he likes u and u only went out wiv him to be knid. BUT if he still doesnt take it my next piece of advice is DONT TAKE ANY SHIT FROM HIM!!!! i really hope that helps. GOOD LOOK!!
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This guy kissed me on the cheek and on the hand. and is always snuggling up to me and stuff. But he's a year younger. Do u think he likes me or what? (link)
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well why not ask him. to me it sounds like he does but some boys do that to be friendly but ask him and find out.
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What are some things I can do to make a girl like me more... and also how do I tell a girl that I like her? I mean, I really want to tell her, but I'm too shy..
Please answer this question, I really need to know ASAP! (link)
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ask the one you like the most what she thinks of you if it good then go to the other friend and ask her the same question. if one is better than the other then you should know whgich one to go for. bt if they say the same then go on your instinct but just be careful how you word your question because girls chat you know. i should know as i am a girl. ok good luck!!!
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ok ladies i need your help haha,
ok every girl has worn lipstick at least once in their life, but what if youre about to have a makeout session with your boyfriend while wearing lipstick, doesnt it get all over his face or something, and make a big mess? well, please help quickly! i kinda need help NOW!
thanks! (link)
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dont wear lipstick!!!
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