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my name is Kristin and i'm a Junior at HAYS HIGH! c/o 2007 bAbY!.. i'm 16 w/ blonde hair, blue eyes and i'm a towering 5'3 1/2! whoop! well i love giving out advice so feel free to ask at anytime... but if it's a stupid question expect a stupid anwser (just remeber that) :-D lol p.s. thats me, kat, heather, and t-butt, walking down to the frio river! ah i'm missin' Garner!


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Whats the best method to get on with your life after your boyfriend broke up with you and y'all have been together for 3 years and 3 months? I need help really bad because right now I really don't see the point in living anymore. Thanks so much!

whoa.. i'm sure thats really depressing.. and i'm sorry! but my best advice to you would to just go out with your girls and get on with it! there are plenty of other guys out there, and you don't need one to make your life worth while! he obviously couldn't handle a great gal! hope i helped and i'm really sorry, good luck :-D

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well u see...there this guy i am in extreme love with the only problem is he has a g/f. So i dont wanna tell him how i feel. I am really good friends with his girlfriend so i love hanging out with just them because it makes me feel like i am on the date with him too... is this mean to my friend? whould you ever do this? should i tell him and hes g/f how i feel?
from, lost in his eyes

If they're going out it might be a bad idea to tell HIM how you feel about it, but i think i'd only be fair to tell your friend, and it might make it less stressful for ya :-). As for the hanging out thing, it's not wrong cus your not doing anything! Just chillin'! i guess it all depends on the kinda relationship them two have, hope i helped!

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I like this guy he's 19, I'm 16 but we both like each other a lot. you see when my parents got married his father had married them. And i didnt no that the pastor had a son. so since the wedding our family and theirs has been spending time together, i just got out of a bad relationship and was moving on. so when i met him after so many times we spend every night together and have grown close. Although dispite the age difference we both are falling for each other, and hes a Christian "good boy" so he'll keep me out of trouble, so i wanna be with him, but im scared about what people will say if they find out. I mean what do you think should we make "it" official or will it create problems? Thanks in advance!

of course it can work! i have lots of friends who date guys with an age diffrence... i don't see how it can creat problems though, especially since no one else's business but yalls! :-D but if anyone DOES say anything, just tell 'em your happy and he treats you really well! they'll prob. end up being jealous tht u found a good one lol. hope i helped!

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somebody help!

i really like my b/f. i think i love him. i know ppl say oh you dont know what love is when your 13. but i cant talk or breathe around him. and when he touches me i get chills up my spine. heres the problem. ppl r always tellin me hes cheatin and i dont know who to believe my b/f or my best frends?i mean i want to believe him but i think it mite be true because whenever we go to this dance place these same girls are all over him and he doesnt do anything he like ignores me.....i dont know what to do. i have tryed to break up with him but wen i try i cant i think im in love...plzz help

from confused!!!!!

you should ALWAYS believe your best friends above your boyfriend in my opinion, and i'm sure the guy would say the same thing. I really think you need to dump him, cus if u find out from someone later it's gonna hurt more... believe me i've been cheated on.

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Me and my borfriend just broke up about 3 months ago. I know that it has been a long time since we broke up but I just now am getting over him. So' Ok it's over... What do I do next. I've been depressed ever since. How do I brighten up my spirits? Should I talk to him anymore or should I not? I still can't completely stop thinking about him.
SIGNED
Needs Cheering Up
&hearts
Ps. im sorry its so long but ill rate on good answers.

hang out with your friends as much as possible, it always seems to help me! especially hanging out with your "gang", they take your mind off everything! If your starting to think that your getting over him then try going on a few dates with some new ppl, or just maybe start thinking about someone else you'd like to get to know better... :-D

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if you talk to a boy online and you never saw him and you love eachother and have soo much in common and stuff, is that considered have a boyfriend even though you have never saw him and stuff?? bc i really love this guy and he feels the sam way but he lives real far away. is this like a boyfriend? and if it is say i went out with him and then i have a boyfriend here, would that be cheating on my online boyfriend?
I RATE SOOOO HIGH!!!
please help me quick!!

signed,
young, curious and in love

for one... i wouldn't have an online boyfriend if i we're you. Those things never last, and for all you know he could be a 47 year old loser haha. But yeah cheating is cheating.. DON'T do it.

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i know im so lucky to have my boyfriend but i take him and our relationship for granted a lot and i expect things to be perfect a lot. What can i do to lighten up and appreciate things, like REALLY appreciate things?

well if you know that your taking the relationship for granted then it shouldn't be that hard to realize how great it is! Nothing is perfect, even though they may seem it at times..

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I've been going out with this guy for a month. I've never kissed or been kissed by a guy. I wanna kiss him and he wants to kiss me. But I guess i'm kinda nervous. He thinks I don't like him, But I really do! We've said I love you to eachother a few times and Idk. I really wanna kiss him but i'm scared i might mess up or something. Can anyone give me tips? I know it sounds stupid lol i'm 14.. and yeah i'm going out with a 12 year old. He's made out with a ton of people and I feel really stupid. Please help!

it's easier said then done but if you really like the guy enough to say i love you, then there shouldn't be all that much pressure to kiss him.. and if you mess up make a joke out of it lol.. don't let him know your nervous, and try not to think about it when your kissin' him! good luck!

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Ok..So i am 16 years old and i have never had a serious relationship...I have been sexually active with guys but i am still a virgin....I tend to get attached to guys very easily and when i get them i get scared and i break away letting go a guy that cood possibly be someone who i cood date for awhile....am i scared or and i just doing this whole dating thing wrong? Ne advice?

I don't think your dating wrong.. lol cause who makes those kinda list?! However i think your still wondering about other guys who may like you and possibilities that could come up. Which makes you want to break up and show guys your available. It's not a bad thing, it's just kinda in the way with having a long-term relationship... haha don't worrie im picky too!:)

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i like my bf so much im 14 nd we've done everything except sex and anal i love him so much but lately i havent been hanging out with my friends as much and he gets mad wen i do i noe he dont trust me but idc but i wanna hang out with friends!! i miss them and like wen i do he gets mad and we hardly talk and my dad sed if i dnt start hanging out with my friends then hes guna end me nd my bf nd like i told my bf that nd we started crying nd stuff nd he sed he didnt wanna loose me but he cant get over the fact that were guna have to break up if i dont start hanging out with my friends ...either way he gets mad at me ..what should i do
x3 confused

Ive had a friend before that was starting to get controlled by her boyfriend. She would ditch me ALL the time and then it didnt help (he already didnt like me). Even when THEY weren't going to hang out she would say she couldn't and i would see her online @ home. I finally told her after they broke up how i was feeling and even her own mother was telling her he got controlling and after about a month she said he was one HUGE mistake cuz she had lost her best friends for awhile after. Try telling him examples of ppl you don't like him hanging out with and he'll understand... HOPFULLY! hope i helped! Good Luck!

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ok well see the thing is i dont have a boyfriend and all of my friends do and all of my guy friends have girlfriends so i feel so extremely left out its like this ok so they have their couples nights and everything so they go out to the movies or hang out at someones house and everything and they always neglect to invite me because yeah im the only person that is single. what should i do?

There probably thinking YOU don't want to go on there little couple outtings because you would be bored or something... Try telling them that you would still like to go and if they still keep leaving you out, it might be they weren't thinking you were serious. If it keeps happening then try to find other friends that are single and hang out w/ them.

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Ok. Well There's 3 Boys that i really like, the one i like the most, has a girlfriend, so i guess he doesn't count. But i still really like him, i also like 2 other guys, and the one asked me out, and i like him, but not as much as the one with the girlfriend, but he has a girlfriend, so i dont know if i'll ever get him, and the other dude, i just found out likes me. What should i do ? Sorry if this post is kindah confusing. ! *`' .

It's not confusing haha.. i got you! Thats a real toughy! It sounds to me like you should (if you can) get over the guy with a girlfriend. I knw its hard i've been there, but you sound like your conciderate of others feelings by not saying yes to the one guy because u were confused. Tell him you'd like to keep "talking" to figure out some other things right now and make sure to let them knw about each other... because if you dont it wont be pretty! I guess it depends on the KIND of relationship your wanting?

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im 14/f a Freshman..my brother-in-law has a nephew which is 16-Junior...if me and him were to start going owt..do u think it would b weird to tell my friends im goin owt wit my brotherinlawz nephew?..i mean would that make us 2 related?...nd do u think im considered a hoe for dating a junior when im only a freshman?

Well your not related by blood... but in my opinion that would be pretty akward! I would first of all ask your sister and brother-in-law if THEY were comftorable, and if so u have one bonus... he's met the family haha

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