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Ok, its over... What next?
Me and my borfriend just broke up about 3 months ago. I know that it has been a long time since we broke up but I just now am getting over him. So' Ok it's over... What do I do next. I've been depressed ever since. How do I brighten up my spirits? Should I talk to him anymore or should I not? I still can't completely stop thinking about him.
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Just because you broke up doesn't mean you have to stop talking! Just be friends hang out and stuff like old times just the only difference is that there isn't anymore of the kissing boyfriend girlfriend stuff. Plan fun trip for you and your friends to go to the mall. Chances are you'll end up having a great time and who knows... maybe you'll meet a new guy!! Just don' let one break up get you down. So life made you fall... get back up and try again because god has always intended for second chances. Good luck sorry about the breakup.
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only talk to him when you feel you're ready- and when you'll be able to handle it if he's dating someone else, otherwise you're setting yourself up to hurt.
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You should be friends with him and just go out with your friends and meet new boys! Its helpful
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hang out with your friends as much as possible, it always seems to help me! especially hanging out with your "gang", they take your mind off everything! If your starting to think that your getting over him then try going on a few dates with some new ppl, or just maybe start thinking about someone else you'd like to get to know better... :-D
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you aren't over him. maybe he's not over you. keep in contact with him and you can talk like whats up and stuff but I would try to find other guys to go out with and if your not ready don’t go out with anyone for a while
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odviously you aren't over him.
maybe he's not over you.
keep in contact with him
you'll either get over him
or you'll get back together.
either way you'll be happy again
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well since you'r done getting overwith him think of someone else you like..and then talk to the person that you like and ask him out... well you can talk to him and say hey what's up and stuff like that..it won't hurt you just take him off you'r mind when you'r done talking to him..
it's fine it doesn't matter if it is long..
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have you talked to him sense youve broken up?? if you have and talking to him makes you sad or angry, then clearly the answer is no! you shouldnt talk to him if it makes you upset or if you think youll start getting feelings for him! but maybe you want to concider being friends now that both of you are ok with the situation! its always a good idea to stay friends after 2 ppl have broken up, but this dosnet mean its easy! sense youre completely over him then id say jump back into the dating scene! if you still need more time then thats fine too! dont worry about what youre "supposed" to do, just sit back and see where things go! maybe a new guy will come along ;D or maybe it will take sometime! either way good luck! [♥] hope i helped!!
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dear, needs help cheering up,
i think you should try not to think or him (i know thats going to be really hard but try) maybe try going out with other guys. if you are not ready then dont go out with anyone till you are over him bc it wont be fair to you but it really wont be fair to the other guy you are trying to go out with.
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Well, it depends. Was he a jerk? If he was a jerk and if he ever hurt you, then you should not talk to him. Just forget him. You can keep a journal about your feelings. (I hate to sound all emo, but it works for me.)If he wasn't a jerk, then feel free to talk to him as a friend. And you could try to find someone else that you like. Don't feel like you have to be stuck with this break up forever. So stay active, stay busy. hang out with your friends, play sports, write a novel.
Hope I helped you & Have a good summer.
--Johanna
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