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hey, i'm emily and i TOTALLY luv the OU sooners!! i like harry potter, skateboarding, biking, reading, and hanging with my friends! i like green day and jesse mccartney. if u have any questions, feel free to ask and i will TRY to answer them!
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Theres a girl who is a complete and total slut shes trying to take my boyfriend away from me I dont like her and she knows it i have talked to my boyfriend and he promised he wouldn't go for her...what should I do? (link)
I think you should just be fine with it because he said he wouldnt go for her. But if he starts to get a little flirty with her, I would actually SLAP HER SILLY!! I would do that if she was doing that to MY bf. So, yea. Bye!

**~eMiLy~**


I like this guy. ill call him "carl". and i already went out with him but people told me that he cheated on me so i broke up with him. and after that i got really sad cuz i still loved him. so i called him a week later and we talked for an hour. and we became friends again which made me happy. then he asked my friend if he should ask me back out and she said yes so i thought he was gonna. then one of my friends told me she likes "carl". so i got really sad. then he asked her out and now they are going out. but she told me before he asked her out that they made out a little. i was gonna cry. and i REALLY REALLY want him back. what should i do? i rate good (link)
I think you should talk with your friend and ask her why she went out with your ex. Also, I think you need to tell your ex that you still have feelings for him and maybe he will understand. If he really does care for you to, then you guyz should get back together!! Hope I helped, bye bye.

**~eMiLy~**


ok well theres this kid whos graduating supposeably this year and well i reaally like him like love him and well im not aloud to date him because well lets say the my dad is presidist and well the worat part is that hes a ladys man and he flirts but i dont know if he likes me so what should i do because im thise people who are afraid to get hurt but no matter how hard i deny im afrisd that hell have my heart when he leaves and it kills me so go against my family or what plus my brother are the same way and they both go to the same school helppppppppppppppppppppppp (link)
Well, forget about him because he is graduating anyway, so you will probably not see him anymore. Plus, if you cant date him, I wouldnt even try.

Emily


my long time boyfriend is starting to rush me. i am growing in to a very "big boobed babe" as he says, like last night, after we ate at my house he started to kiss me every where. when he went down to the chest kiss, he started to unbutten my shirt, when i told him to stop he told me to just stop talking. when i yelled stop he got up and left my house slaming the door so hard he broke the glass, i have dated a lot of guys, but i am drawn to this one, he wont talk to me and i want him back.... what should i do? (link)
God, I cant believe you would actually want a guy like that back! You do not need him, he is bad for you. All he probably likes about you is your boobs, so dont fall for it. You will find another guy, just not this one.

Emily


ok, so a guy i know and love is stareing at me now that i have boobs... but what if thats all he likes me for? i want to love him , but i dont want him to break my heart. (link)
I can already tell you that you definetly dont need him because if he is just going to like you for that, I would never have anything to do with him. Plus, that is just gross.

Emily


Ok...

im dating this guy its gonna be 2 years soon...but hes really jelous like he always think im flriting with every guy i talk to..and i had this best friend we'll call him tyler..well since me and my boyfriend are fighting alot about the flirting thing im hanging arould tyler more and i think im starting to like him more than a friend but i still love my boyfriend and im extremly confused..i need some help fast!

thanks if ur advice isnt mean ill rate all 5's (link)
Well, I think you should just break up with your boyfriend. Because it seems that even if you go to TALK to a guy thats your friend, your bf will think you are flirting. So, I would go ahead and see if you can get together with Tyler. Just tell your bf that you dont think things are going to work out if he is going to be jealous all the time, when you really arent flirting. Hope I helped!

Emily


I'm hooking up with this guy, and I don't know if he's hooking up with other girls or not. We're not in a relationship or anything, but I would just like to know if he's with other girls or not. I don't want to straight out ask him, and i don't want to involve my friends, so is there a way I could get him to tell me without straight out asking him "are you hooking up with other girls?" All advice is appreciated. Thanks all! (link)
I think that you should really just ask him. I don't think he would mind and you could get into a conversation first and then just ask him, you know? And that is the only thing I can really think of.

Emily


Theres this guy that I have been friends with forever and he has always liked me. The other night we were in his room and we kissed but it was just a peck. I didn't even like him and now after that I am starting to like him. Theres only one problem. He's a really mature and great guy and hes my type exactly and I think he'd make a terrific boyfriend except for my mom thinks hes too young for me. I'm 14 and he's 12. I promise you, I think he's more mature than me, hes definatly more experienced he already lost his virginity. I'd have to keep this relationship from my parents. I really want to date him because personality wise, he's great. Looks wise, he needs to have a growth spurt. He will soon. Should I wait a few years till he does? And then my parents might let me, or should I sneak it and date him now and take the risk of humiliation? I really am liking him and I don't want to wait! But I think it might be best...I need opinions!

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What I would do is convince your parents that you think he is right for you. They might be convinced and let you go out with him and he could be your boyfriend. That is what I would do and I hope I helped!


there's this guy that i like and i haven't told him that i like him but i'm not the kind of person that really does that. Well, over spring break the guy went on a cruise and today he had pics of these 2 girls that he met that were drop dead gorgeous. He kept talking about one of the girls and how they were gonna take him on a cruise next year and how he might move to indiana to be with one of them and i know that he can't have been serious because he only knew them for a week and i know he was just trying to get me and my friend to be jealous but then he kept being all like a jerk and it pissed me off. But i still like him. Its so hard because i really like him but he can be such a jerk sometimes. He can be a showoff and stuff but he's my friend. I don't know. I don't wanna tell him i like him because then he will be like all weird and maybe be disgusted. I don't know. Help me! (sry its so long) (link)
Wow, I had a problem JUST like this! My friend that was a boy, well, I liked him. What I would tell u to do is just to tell him. He will not care, yea, maybe he will be disgusted but it will wear off him later and soon he won't even care. Plus, later on you will probably not like him anymore.
Emily




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