To start, you can ask me anything. I'm 15, I turn 16 this Christmas. I really enjoy school. English is my favorite subject. I'm a sophomore. History, Geometry, German, French, and Gym are a few of my favorites really. I want to go to major in psychology and minor in journalism or interior design. I want to go to the summer gov school program this summer for either Russian or Psychology. I love to read and write poetry. I play soccer, football, volleyball, and skateboard, and I'm on the debate team and dodgeball team for my school. I love nature, just being outside, taking hikes, etc. I love stars and moonlight. Moonlight is incredibly romantic and stars and magical. I also love music. I play the alto saxophone and the guitar. I love animals. My favorite animal is the fox, but my favorite pet is Emmy, my beloved dog. I love movies, especially horror films. Saw, the Ring, Donny Darko, etc. My favorite movie is Alice in Wonderland (even though I am 15). My favorite bands are Wakefield and Lucky Boys Confusion. Broken is a great song. Skyler is my best friend in the entire world. He's the only one I can relate to on the subject of relationship prudency. He's a senior at my school and he's on the same level as me. I have more guys friends than girl friends because I feel more comfortable with guys than girls. There is too much drama with girls. Most of my girlfriends have what I call "zero bullshit tolerance" or what you might call a "bitchy attitude". Frankly, they just tell it like it is whether you like it or not. I love them all dearly. I'm a very independent person and I deal very well under pressure. I hate people pressuring me to do things. I stand up for what I believe in and don't let people hold me back. I am my own person and don't change for anyone.
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Age: 15
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I've gotten hickeys from guys, but I've always wondered.. do girls usually give guys hickeys? I never have, and I've never heard of guys having them either.. I was just curious to see if it was something odd or not.
thanks a tonnnnn (link)
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It happens. I have given a few myself.
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Some background:
My boyfriend and I have been together for nearly a year and a half. We've been together since I was in 8th grade and I am now a sophmore in highschool. Unfortunately we don't go to the same school, so I see him once a week or twice a week if I'm lucky.
I have been friends with this boy for a few years, we dated when I was in 7th grade so it was hardly a relationship. But me and this boy have always remained very close friends even before my boyfriend and I met. He as well does not got to my school.
Friday night (The 11th) I was hanging out with him and a friend of mine at my friend's house. For some reason I ended up kissing this boy. To be honest I still can't figure out why I did it. I felt guilty about it after it happened and the guilt was eating me up inside. I saw my boyfriend the day after and I didn't tell him because I was too scared of what he would think, do or say.
The next day (Sunday) I told him what happened. He got really upset which I already knew would happen. I apologized a million times over and I promised him it would never happen again. I screwed up, I know that, believe me I know I screwed up.
We didn't talk up until late yesterday night and he told me that he'd give me another chance. However he said he's not sure if it's going to work because he doesn't know if he'll be able to trust me again. I know I don't deserve this second chance, but I am so greatful for it.
So my question is, what specific things can I do to regain his trust? Again, I know I screwed up really bad and I feel awful about the whole thing and I wish I could just take it back. I want to regain his trust and try to make things as close to "right" as it can be. But I don't know how I'm going to go about that.
He said to me that he's not sure if he'd be able to kiss me without being able to think about what I did.
I told him that if he wanted me to that I wouldn't talk to this kid ever again. What should I do? I don't want to end our year and a half relationship...
By the way, this is the FIRST AND LAST time I have and will EVER do something like that again. Please help me.. (link)
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Truthfully, there isn't really a way to gain trust back fast. Gaining someone's trust back takes time. Just let him know, reassure him if you will, that you will never do it again (as you've stated).
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Hey. Okey so i tried typing this into a online translator but the sentence gets all screwed up..and it's not like its a homework or anything..i want to let this guy i like know that i like him. And i thought it would be cute to do it in french since that's how we met..he was tutoring me :) anyway this is hwta i'd like translated : Iäm writing to let you know that i can't stop thinking about you. You are constantly on my mind. You are a unforgettable person with an amazing personality. I'd never be able to describe what i like about you..because that would take me forever.
Can you translate that?
THANK YOU soo sooo sooo incredibly much.
Lots of love :D (link)
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J'écrire à toi parce que je ne peux pas arrêt réfléchir à toi. Tu est toujours mon esprit. Tu est personne inoubliable avec une personnalité incroyable. Je ne vais pas décrire quel j'aime pour toi parce que cet je vais fermer continuellement.
I think that's right.
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I have no clue what to get my girlfriend for christmas. I don't want to get her makeup or cosmetics because i know nothing about that stuff, and I don't want to get her clothes because I don't know if she'd like it or what her size is. So with that said, what are some gift ideas that girls like? (link)
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Get her something you know she'll like; something that's special and unique to her. For example, if her favorite cartoon character is Piglet, get her something involving Piglet. It doesn't have to be big or anything, just letting her know you thought of her is enough. No matter what you get her, she'll love it if she knows that you thought only of her when you where picking it out and that it was you that thought of it.
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my relationship with my boyfriend is very complicated. i need solutions. we fight about little things all the time. now we dont hang out nemore, hes always with his friends and i dont feel very close to him anymore. i need to hang out with my friends more but i dont know what to do with them to hang out with them. also i want to make my boyfriend something but i dont know what to make him.... thanks (link)
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Personally, it sounds like your boyfriend is giving the "I don't want to do it, but it's over" signs. From what you're saying, it's time to move on with your life. Before you decide whether or not to do so, you should talk to him about it, tell him how you're feeling, what he's doing to make you feel this way, and suggestions to fix. If that doesn't work, then consider the first option.
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Alright i have a boyfriend and we have been dating for a week.. and I thought i loved him so much and now i dont even know! he is the first guy that has treated me ok! but i feel like hes goin to fast and Now i just dont know if i love him or if i even wana be with him! I DONT KNOW WHATS WRONG! when Im with him i feel good but i feel weird! and like i feel like he is moving to fast and now I am thinkin should i break up with him? but then he wont talk to me! and he doesnt live in my city he lives like 30 mins away.. and now im noticing how many guys in my city i could get! that are real sweathearts! but i wont cheat on anyone cause im not like that! The thing is i made my boyfriend promises that i wouldnt break up with him cause i thought i loved him! and now i dont even know if i wana be with him right now! I promised him I wouldnt ever break up with him. and he said well other girls that said that broke up with me the next week. I mean i totaly like him alot but i am so confused! and he likes me so so much i dont wana hurt him! HE IS GREAT!
what do i dooooo!? (link)
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The only reason a person should ever break a promise is because it is for the better. This sounds like a Class A example of this. He might be a great guy but you should really do what you want to regardless of what he wants(in this situation).
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Okay, so. I have a huge problem that I need serious help with. Okay. So me and my boyfriend are crazy about eachother. Like, for the first time in my life I could honestly say that I am IN love with him. And I know that may sound like shit because I'm not older or anything but I don't think age means a thing. (I'm 14. He's about to turn 16.) So anyways. His mom totally like, hates me or something. But that's beside the point. So he got grounded for getting a horrible grade in Trigonometry. But it wasn't exactly his fault because I mean c'mon it's Trigonometry and he's only 15 and he had come in half-way during the semester and had to make up all that stuff he missed. Hell, I can't even spell it. So anyways, he got a 37 in that class. And he got grounded. At first it was only until progress reports so I didn't think it was all that bad. But I just found out last night that he's grounded until January 12th. Meaning he can talk to me on the phone all he wants, but he can't see me. At all. So. I'm gonna go absolutely insane until then. But by January 12th he'll have his car and he'll be able to see me a lot. So is it worth it to wait? Keep in mind, I truely am head over heels in love with him.
Pleasseee give me some advice. Please. I'm desperate. (link)
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If you are truly in love with him then of course it is worth the wait.
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i really like a guy friend of mine. he told me he doesnt feel the same. about a month and a half later we hooked up (just made out) and we both really liked it. we have a really strong friendship bond and we talk (kinda) dirty to each other. my question : do you think this can blossom into something more? like, can someone who doesnt like someone start to like them after time goes by and the two people get really close? any personal experiences is also appreciated if you can
easy 5 for your opinion and advice (link)
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I went out with best friend for 10 months and it was one of my longest relationships because of one key factor: communication. If you guys talk, then by all means, go for it. If you feel a connection then you should give it a shot, thinking of the possible conseqences of a losing a friend.
Best wishes,
Elli
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I wnet out with this guy for a year and a day to be exact then i broke up with him because hes much older than i and i like this kid in my grade.. How long before i should date agian?
i was thinkin 4 months?
--13/f-- (link)
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You shouldn't set a limit to how long you should stay single. I'm not saying you should go out and get a new boyfriend now, but you shouldn't set a limit. You should just give yourself time to get over him and don't get into a new relationship until you're over him. Completely over him.
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Can someone explain my boyfriends behavior?I had been out of work for a really long time and i finally got a job as a sales rep in a large superstore. At first he was excited for me and said "well I hope everything works out for you".
Now heres where it gets strange. I had my first shift 3 nights ago and I told him how nice everyone was and I much fun I was having. He didnt sound happy at all and just said in an unfriendly tone "oh I guess things are working out for you". I don't understand , wouldnt he be happy for me? The only thing I can think of is he might be worried I'll meet a guy at work.
Does anyone have any ideas as to what is going on with him? (link)
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He's either jealous, worried you'll meet a guy (as you stated), or perhaps he thinks you're not spending enough time with him? There are a lot of things it could be. It could be that he thinks you're too good for him. It could be he's just in a weird mood. You should talk to him about this and listen to what he has to say.
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me and my bfs one year anniversary is coming up really soon and here are some ideas i had for it..
- i ordered on line this personalized puzzle that says you complete me love always, sam
- im going to cut out big red heart and put all pictures of us on it and love quotes and such
- starting at 12 days before the day of our anniversary (to represent 12 months) i am going to put how many days there are left hershey kisses in his locker and a little note
are these good ideas and do you have any other good ideas about what i can do or give him? (link)
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First of all, those are excellent ideas. The third idea sounds great to me. The first idea might be a bit expensive for a one-year anniversary, and the second might be a wee bit time comsuming.
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okay well i have a bf and hes gone for about 2 weeks so i wont be able to see him and i barley get to talk to him. but the thing is wen hes not gone we dont talk (well barley anyway)) and the thing is im started to like this other guy. and i dont want to but then again i do becuz hes not shy unlike my bf and idk what to do im so confused right now. please help me. (link)
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I know how you feel. I went through the exact same thing when I went to camp. My boyfriend and I had started to break apart before I left and I started to like a guy I met a camp. Well, I decided to break up with my boyfriend at the time and go for the guy from camp. It turned out to be a great choice. I think the best idea for you is to break up with your boyfriend, no offense, since you seem to like the other guy more and you seem to have a bit more of an attraction to him. Best of luck,
Elli
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