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13/M
hi... ive been going out with this girl for about a year now and i love her alot. we get wild sometimes but not to wild. the furthest we have gone is that she gave me a hand job. but after she did i got a little worried and i didn't feel right. i thought i might be a little to young for these things.
am i to young?
are we going to far for only 13 years old? (link)
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It's all a matter of how you feel about it.
Are you comfortable with what you're doing?
In the future are you going to be okay with having done stuff at such a young age?
Personally, I think you're too young, but that's my own opinion. In the end it's all on you and your partner.
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what else can i say to my girlfriend besides "i love you"? just wondering, because i'm just kind of tired of saying the same thing over and over. kinda wanna spice it up, ya know?
thanks (link)
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Be like
"Hey, uh, you're kind of my everything."
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I wasn't trying to be funny. I was actually being quite serious.
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ok its like this IM A 15 YEAR OLD FEMALE....theres this ...and we have been talkin about havin sex...but i dont kno if i should shave my vagina or not...see i kinda shaped my pubic hairs up a little but there are still hairs where i shaved and dey are all pokey...and it feels weird...should i jus shave the rest off or what??? please help me with ths ASAP!!!! THANKS (link)
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If you are uncomfortable with the pokey hair then shave.
Logical answer.
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What, exactly, does friends with benefits mean? (link)
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It's like boyfriend/girlfriend without the titles.
Aimed more towards the sexual aspect of things.
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ok im 19 and i have been with my man for like, a year and a half. the guy hasn't had sex in almost 2 years and i am still a virgin. he knows and respects that. But recently he has become sexually frustrated b/c we live together and he says it feels like we are already married with out any of ther perks ... meaning sex. im scared and i want to sleep with him i really do, but im afraid of the pain. he told me there are only two options for this situation. 1: I allow him to go and strictly have sex with another woman, just to get rid of the frustration (but he said he doesnt want that cuz he knows it will hurt me) or 2: for me to get over my fear and go through with it.
well, it all boils down to im afraid of both options, and well, i don't face fears very well. what should i do? Any kind of advice is welcome please help me out. (link)
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Option number two.
So long as you're really sure you want to do it.
Listen, sweetie - I'm sure your boyfriend will understand to take it slow. He's not going to purposely hurt you. Besides, I hear it's not that bad anyway.
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15/f -- i am absoluty crazy about this kid. the problem is that i didnt want to tell him that i liked him or any thing becuase he is in a couple of my classes and i thought that would be weird if i said something and he ended up not liking me. i dont want to make this awkward because we are pretty good friends but i truly like him and im afraid that if i dont say something i will lose him to another girl. now that summer is coming, i feel like it would be a good time to tell him but im literally going to the beach all summer and he plays a bunch of sports so chances are i will not see hime a lot. i dont know what to do, say something or bite my tougne? (link)
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Say something.
The worst he can do is tell you that he doesn't have feelings for you that way. I once thought I had feelings for a friend, he didn't feel the same. We talked about it, and nothing between us is weird.
Just call him.
Tell him how you're feeling.
I'm sure he'll understand.
Be direct - hinting and flirting and stuff... it really gets you nowhere.
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by not actually showing that you like her like somethign really good but not perverted....and i really dont know what to say like im usually fine but i really like this girl and all i say to ehr is how is your day going and thats it....she is a grade higher than me so i cant talk about school or anything...so can anyone help me (link)
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Personally, girls like it when you just talk to them.
When you say hi, ask them how they are, how things are going. Any sort of conversation is well appreciated.
Start off with that and slip in subtle compliments. Like "Hey, your hair looks nice today" or "you look really pretty"
NEVER EVER EVER EVER tell a girl she is "sexy" or "hot" because... well, it's ruining the generation enough as it is. Stick to the classics: pretty, cute, gorgeous, beautiful, ect.
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I am 14;f and my boyfriend is 16;m. We are doing great, and I am in love with him. He has alot of other friends that are girls and same with me & guys. Recently one of his older "girl friends" asked him to go to prom with her. I trust him 100%, it's just I don't know her, and I don't trust the other people at the highschool.
I don't want answers like, "just talk to him about it" because I don't want to seem like the green eye'd monster. I just want to know, is it bad to be jealous of him going to prom without me? Any answers are greatly appreciated. (link)
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A lot of people I know take their friends to prom. It's simply to have someone to go with. And because prom generally costs a bit of money, nobody wants to go buy themselves.
If it really bothers you that much, just ask him what he thinks of this girl as and voice your concern.
I don't think it's bad that you're jealous. It's natural.
But remember, they're probably just friends.
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ok so i hang out with 1 group of people. i have many friends but my group all hang out in the same neighborhood at the same house everyday. we have like 6 guys and 6 girls. sadly all the girls except like 2 went on break and im the only one hangin with all the guys (and the 2 other girls) but im going fishing with a few of the guys (including my crush) and i dont know what to do or what to say! i think im bringing food and drinks but what to wear! ha what are some good conversation starters with guys and stuff. if you are a guy reading this PLEASE tell me what to do to impress! and dont say "be yourself" i always am its just sometimes ya know ya dont know what to say to ur crush! and i know them pretty well so i can talk about music and stuff but like im tweakin out! i need good convo starters PLEASE AND THANK YOU! (link)
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Dude - if you're going FISHING don't wear something that you can't fish in. Jeans and a t-shirt go a long way. Don't wear a skirt or a dress or something fancy if you're going to be casting a fishing line.
And tennis shoes, don't... try to impress.
Just go with the flow.
Trust me - fishing isn't the most romantic thing in the world.
Sorry if my advice sucked. But c'mon... it's fishing.
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What's the differnce between french kissing and makeing out? Cause people always say there's a differnce, but I see them as the same. Cause they don't they both involve tongue? I don't know, I'm confused. What's the differnce?! (link)
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From what I know, french kissing is just the kiss.
Making out is a series of those kisses and possibly other things that you shouldn't do if you don't know the difference between the two.
You should also not have sex, ever. You will get an STD, you will die.
Joking about the last one... sort of.
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Can anyone help me and im a guy. (link)
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Personally, and I'm a sixteen year old girl, I'd love to go on a date and talk about weird things.
Spaceships, firetrucks.
But I'm totally odd.
Music, school, hobbies, art.
Whatever you can imagine!
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13/f
Sometimes i dont understand myslef. i catch myslef falling in love with my friend "crush". she would totaly hate me if i were to like him. my friends say he likes me too and that made me so happy!! but when she found out she was fumed!!
i dont know wha to do-- DO i ask him out or do i keep y friendship??
plz PLZ plz HELP!!!!
**_BROOKE_**
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You are NOT in love.
Sorry - my youngest sister is that way too, she's your age.
"Love" is a word people toss around so carelessly these days.
It's very likely that somewhere in your subconcious, you don't want to share your friend with this boy, and you don't want her to be occupied by him.
So you're telling yourself that you like him.
And if you are attracted to him, so be it.
It's just a crush, it'll go away.
Keep the friendship.
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ok i have this boyfriend o0o by the way im13\f and he is so sweet but l8tley he has hung up on me twice ignored calls and then denied it all....everyone says he is young he is 11 n im 13...and i just dont know wut to do i cried and i also like sumother pplz but then again i justlove austin!!i dont know wut to do plzz help me____racerchic4390@yahoo.com____thnxx..**A person who needs help** (link)
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Alright, so I have a little sister around your age, and she's dated younger boys - and she's had that kind of problem as well.
Personally, I believe it's the age difference. You're at a point where you're finally growing up. Thirteen was a bigger milestone for me than sixteen was.
You're probably beginning to want relationships with some depth. Something more than saying that you're dating and then just acting like your best friends.
Your boyfriend is eleven, he's still a little kid. Maybe he's just not mature enough for dating.
If you really wanted to stay with this kid, Austin, then you really wouldn't say that you liked other people.
If he's ignoring your calls, don't stress it. Just act like you aren't interested in dealing with it. Don't let it bring you down. There's no need to be mean though.
He might just want some space.
I'm sorry if I didn't help, I don't understand why you asked me this question - since I really don't do good with relationship advice.
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okk so heres the story..
14/f && i have a boyfriend
the problem is hes like really prude
&& ik that he really wants 2 do stuff cuz he keeps telling me he does & stuff
& i only see him like once a week becuz he goes 2 another school but he like never makes a move
so what should i do?
should i like make the move or what?
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Maybe he's just nervous.
You're still really young (and I'm assuming your boyfriend is the same age or close to the same age).
He's probably never done anything before and he's nervous.
If you're really impatient, go ahead and make the move - I'm sure, if he's ready for that, he'll appreciate it.
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I've been dating this guy for a month, we've gone on 3 dates, he's 2 years older than me. We're both gay and he's in the closet... I don't know whether or not I should ask him to be my boyfriend or wait for him to ask me... What should I do? His birthday is coming up and I was thinking we could have a candle lit dinner and then I'd ask him if he would like to be my boyfriend in a like proposal sort of way ^_^. He's going to be 19 and i'm 17. We both share roles so that it's not strictly dominant/non dominant. So... yeah any advice?? He's never been in a relationship before and i've been in two... Anymore questions just ask me! (link)
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Dude! Ask him out. I think your birthday idea is super cute. Go for it. There's no reason to wait, even if he is in the closet.
At least I can't come up with any particular reason not to.
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15/f. lately i've been getting really upset because i'm 15 and i've never had a boyfriend, or a first kiss. i get really embarrassed when people talk about their boyfriends and their first kiss. and i'm always afraid that someone will make fun of me because i'm prude and never had a boyfriend. i don't know if it is something about my personality that is scaring some guys away. don't say that i shouldn't change myself for a guy because i would never do that (meaning dress differently or style my hair different). but i mean my personality. i'm a VERY organized person (like everything has to be neat) and i take my grades very seriously. is that a turn off? because sometimes i can become controlling if we are doing a project or something. what is something that i can do to become less controlling in situations? also i don't think that i'm ugly. so what is wrong? i also can get nervous talking to guys. OMG i'm just getting really frustrated with myself.
so basically these are my questions:
1)what can i do when people ask me if i'm prude knowing that i am?
2)how can i become less controlling in group projects?
3)is it weird that i'm 15 and haven't had a boyfriend or a first kiss?
sorry its so long...but thanks! (link)
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1) Laugh at them. Or act like you're proud of it. I freaking am. Hah. My friends talk about that kind of stuff all the time, most of the time I'll cover my ears like I'm not listening and I usually end up getting a few laughs. Don't make a big deal out of it. Trust me, you aren't the only one.
2) SELF RESTRAINT. Despite what you might think is right for whatever group project you're in - ask other people for their opinion. Even if you don't want it.
3) Perfectly normal. I'm sixteen, close to seventeen, and I've never had either. I know plenty of people who haven't either. Boys and girls alike.
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OK, so I'm 15, F, Bi, and have a huge crush on a girl at my school who's a junior. She's also bi, or maybe gay, but anyways...i'm pretty shy around her but I want her to think that I'm not just a little freshmen.
please give me tips on how to flirt and stuff and let her know i like her.. (link)
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Just tell her.
My best friend is a lesbian, and she's constantly telling me that she wishes all the childish "will you go out with me, mark yes or no" crap would end.
This girl is a junior, right? So that means she's sixteen or seventeen. Right in me, and my best friend's age bracket.
Just be blunt.
What've you got to lose?
If she likes you, congrats.
If she doesn't - you get to be the lucky one who skips out on the wondering/waiting/wishing/hoping stage.
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alright im 14/m and theres a girl that lives in the neighborhood next to me whos 13/f and really pretty, however her friend, 14/f, get jealous of me whenever i hang out/talk to her and she tells the 13 year old that im a player and a bunch of bull$#!T that really makes me look bad and i was wondering how i get around that cuz i REALLY like this girl. (link)
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I think you need to find out why the other girl is getting jealous. She might find you a threat to her relationship with her friend. My younger sister is about your age, and I've seen her go about these kinds of situations wrong too many times.
What you SHOULD NOT do is:
* Have your friends talk bad about the other girl.
* Be rude in return.
* Break up their friendship.
What you SHOULD do is:
* Figure out the problem by talking to the girl and her friend.
* Explain to the other girl that you like her friend and that you aren't trying to harm her in any way shape or form.
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