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Should I ask him out or wait for him to ask me out?
I've been dating this guy for a month, we've gone on 3 dates, he's 2 years older than me. We're both gay and he's in the closet... I don't know whether or not I should ask him to be my boyfriend or wait for him to ask me... What should I do? His birthday is coming up and I was thinking we could have a candle lit dinner and then I'd ask him if he would like to be my boyfriend in a like proposal sort of way ^_^. He's going to be 19 and i'm 17. We both share roles so that it's not strictly dominant/non dominant. So... yeah any advice?? He's never been in a relationship before and i've been in two... Anymore questions just ask me!
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Hi my name is phoebe and wat I suggest to you is that You should just stick with him I mean if he hasen't asked you out the n i'm sure it's safe to say that you obviously should
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he doesn't have experience...so take the lead and ask him.
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I believe what you really want is for him to come out of the closet and celebrate with you. However, life is not so easy. I believe you should enjoy every minute while it last and don't pressure him for committment. The fact that you have gotten three dates means you are special. The dinner is a great idea, you could work in the boyfriend stuff but do it subtle you don't want to scare him off. "Say, I am thinking of taking it to the next level...what do you think.
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Make it "Hard To Get" and then he'll ask you out!
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I say ask him out. If he hasn't asked you out then do it. But make sure he's comfortable with it though. You don't want to ALWAYS have to be the dominant.
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Dude! Ask him out. I think your birthday idea is super cute. Go for it. There's no reason to wait, even if he is in the closet.
At least I can't come up with any particular reason not to.
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