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what to do?
13/f
Sometimes i dont understand myslef. i catch myslef falling in love with my friend "crush". she would totaly hate me if i were to like him. my friends say he likes me too and that made me so happy!! but when she found out she was fumed!!
i dont know wha to do-- DO i ask him out or do i keep y friendship??
plz PLZ plz HELP!!!!
**_BROOKE_**
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Its not your fault that you like the same guy your friend likes. If your friend gets mad at you for liking a guy than shes not a very good friend. There are plenty of other guys out there. You should just go out with teh guy you like. If he likes you, then you should go out wtih him. If he likes you, then she probably cant get him, anyways, so you should just take your chance, and hope she'll find someone else. But you should talk to her first in the nicest way possible, and just tell her you still want to be friends and you dont want it to ruin your friendship.
**bRiAnNa**
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You need to explain this to your friend and hopefully she will see how it is not your fault in anyway, either he likes her or not she has to get over that, as long as your other friends approve of you and him go for it your friend will come around and get over it if she really cares for you.
Goodluck, Love Emily
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You are NOT in love.
Sorry - my youngest sister is that way too, she's your age.
"Love" is a word people toss around so carelessly these days.
It's very likely that somewhere in your subconcious, you don't want to share your friend with this boy, and you don't want her to be occupied by him.
So you're telling yourself that you like him.
And if you are attracted to him, so be it.
It's just a crush, it'll go away.
Keep the friendship.
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