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boys so hard to understand
i was talking to a guy that i like heres the conversation
me:we should hang out that is if you arent already hangin out with some girl
him: i wish
him: sike
him: ill hang out with you
me: u wish? im sure you have plenty of girls
him:nahh not as many as you wuld think
me: well i dont see why you wouldnt have as many as i think
him:uhh
him: lol
signed off at 3:20 pm.. (he got kicked off)
do you think maybe i scared him by saying that or what do you think he meant by the uhh? THANKS
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He problely feels like you pity him or something, talk to him again and talk about something different but still talk like you are interested in him,hell come around!
Goodluck, Love Emily
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"me: well i dont see why you wouldnt have as many as i think"
He's being cautious not to turn you off. It seems like you're starting off the whole conversation with the prospect that he already has lots of girlfriends. He seems to be a funny guy and is taking the situation a bit lighter. Have come confidence! If you like him, go for it, don't muck around with the "other girls" crap, because that's always going to end up badly. Think about it this way: If a guy was asking to hang out with you and started talking about OTHER guys...pretty awkward to me.
"me: well i dont see why you wouldnt have as many as i think"
I don't think there is a RIGHT way to reply to that. If he says yes, you might think hes some kind of a player. If he says no, it makes him look like a loser who doesn't know how to talk to girls. As a guy, I'd say the "uhh" was more of a verbal shrug.
In any case, stop turning yourself down. He wants to hang out with you, so be POSITIVE. Nobody likes a girl who always talks about how unimportant she is. Be confident and you'll do fine.
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Guys are confusing and they blame us for being complicate? HA.
Anywhos, he's just being a guy...the part where you kept on saying that he has more girls to hang out with and such menat:
1. That he has a lot of girl friends..which may have offended or boosted up his self esteem
2. It made it sound like you were really really low on your self esteem and confidence.
So don't ever do that again...
When he said uhhh he was just replying to that previous IM you sent him and it was his way of.. "What are you talking about... I don't know/don't want to answer that question" and whatever.
I know that I'm not a guy and you're oprobably wondering where I'm coming up with this from..well lets say that I have half my guy friends figured out and I must say that they are all very very different and I have a lot me beingthe tomboy..anywhos
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