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(16/f) what could i do for my b/f that is totally awesome, but is also totally out of the blue, too? thanks.
When he leasts expects it...kiss him.
okay..so i have liked this guy for about 4 or 5 months..we have gotten close to getting to know each other but we are both so shy and like i am not really sure he liked me even though i heard that he did. Then something happened and we REALLY don't talk now..not even say hi and we usta say hi before.. He somtimes walks around near me with his friends a lot..but i want to try and get to know him and atleast be frinends wit him.. He doesn't seem to be tryin to get to know me though but i do kno he is really shy. Should i try to start talking to him again or is it not worth it? and cud he possibly like me?
I think his feeling for you are getting stronger, making him more shy and more uncomfortable to hang around you as often. So I think that he prob likes you, but don't be too sure.....start talking to him whenever you can. In class, in the hall, at lunch; whenever. Send him some signals that you like him. Make eye contact. When he looks at you, smile and look away. Something. Anything. Go for it!
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(Sorry, i wasnt sure what category to put this under!)
I'm afraid to have feelings for people and I dont know why. If I find a guy I like...and then he starts liking me, I start backing out, and its always like this. There was ONE guy that I liked a lot and he liked me a lot but then we only became friends and we were really close, you could say he hurt me because now we hate each other and hes the closest ive gotten to anybody at all...so could anyone help me with my problem? Do you know whats wrong with me??? Please help :( Im getting extremley upset.
You are too nervous and not ready for a serious relationship. Be patient, the time will come...
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(15/f)
I want to kiss my boyfriend but I'm really nervous so I want to start with a kiss on the cheek. What are somes tips? Like as far a lipgloss and such. And, What should I do? I know it's sounds stupid, but, I don't know how! What about afterwards? What if we both get embarassed?Please help in any way! No stupid or rude remarks please! I really need help.
*-That's Rachel-*
DON'T wear any lipgloss! Wear good-smelling chapstick. Kiss him whenever you feel the time is right-trust me, you'll know. Afterward, smile and hug him. Agh. *sigh* lol, and relax!! The length of the kiss shouldn't be too quick...but if he likes it right away, maybe longer.
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ok plz answer this seriously
my friend is only 14, and her boyfriend is 17 , and he asked her to marry him last week , and she said yes. and she still hasnt tld her mom or dad about it.Should i tell her parents that she's getting married? Is it lik wrong to get married at 14 nd 17? What do u think of a 14 year old grl getting married to a 17 year old guy?
Don't get caught in this mess. Fourteen is WAY too young. If it's true love-it can wait.
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I like this guy and he likes me, but we both are too shy to ask each other out. I have decided to make the move-how can I ask him out? When should I? What do I say!
Maybe during lunch at school. Make sure hes not with his friends, and just casually be like, "Hey, lets hang out sometime." DONT say: "Lets go out." Big no-no. Lol. Only do this when you are 100% confident in yourself.
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Why do boyz always tickle their girlfriends???? I know it's stupid. But Idk
I never thought they did.......maybe to have a reason to touch them, or hear them laugh? To make them smile/happy? :)
I think I'm in love with my guy friend. He's really shy though, so it's hard to know if he likes me back, but I'm pretty sure he does, because of the way he acts sometimes. Anyway, I asked him today if he still liked his ex from a while back (just to see because they're still friends) and he gave me a deffinate "no" and after that kind of hung around wherever I was. I'm thinking about asking him tomorrow if he wants to exchange gifts or something on Valentine's day? Should I? and if so, what should I get him, and how do I let him know that I REALLY like him? (sry this is long, but I am SO lost!)
YES!!! Ask him! And get him a love note!
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i like this one guy who is in my math class...we sit right next to each other and we ALWAYS are talking... and he stares at me too...i cant tell if he likes me or not but i REALLY like him! no one knows i like him except 3 of my very close friends. i would ask him out if i found the right moment..but i am also kinda afraid to ask him out cause if he says no then i dont want it to ruin our friendship...but the thing is that i am moving in like 2 months so it wouldnt be that long of a relationship...so i guess my question is...should i ask him out even though i am moving in a while or just keep it to myself and let it dye away??
Ask him out!!! Seriously, if you don't, you will always be wondering what would of happened if you did ask him out, and wished you could! Go for it! And maybe it will be easier to ask him out through phone or note! :)
ive been talking to this kid on the comp and hes been sending me mixed signals. i go to school and he doenst talk 2 me but as soon as i sign on there is his s/n saying hey to me.One time he even decided that i should call him. i talk to him everyday on the comp but never at school! what should i do?! iam so lost PLEASE HELP I RATE!
It sounds like he is shy/uncomfortable around you, and it's easier for him to talk to your through the computer or phone. Just try talking to him at school more, and make him feel comfortable. :)I think he DOES like you though. Good luck!!!
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this is going to be very long. I'm in love with this guy and i have been for about 8 months i would say. We have been having sex for a year now and he just thought of me as u kno-a sex friend. I'm the only one he's been having it with since we started bein together but ive had past partners,one was his really close friend,and now i've quit for him. He got me pregnate. Yes, im 2 1/2 months pregnate with his baby. And i love him. I know evry day girls say "oh i love him soo much" But this is for real. I've lied 4 him. been through court 4 him, fought girls 4 him, and gave up my boyfriend 4 him. Whenever i tell him how i feel he says "I care about u too but i`m just not ready to go out with you...i do love you and i do wanna be with you...I just can't.." or he uses diff. excuses how 'i went wit his friend he can't do that to him' WELL Y NOT?! I try avoiding him..you know, trying to make him miss me and come crawling back to me.. but that's hard to do when he's the cutest most popular guy in school with girls practically lined up. He doesn't need me. I need advice..what should i do? i know i can't make him love me back..but maybe just to have him want to be with me and understand how i feel a little more. Don't say love notes-cuz i tried...or phone calls..or long talks..i tried everything. Don't call me dumb..please!!! i`m just hopelessly in love.... =( help!
plz dont erase this!!! i rate mainly 5's!
I would think that he is using you. Watch out.
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I have a major problem. I'm best friends with this guy. The only problem is I have a crush on him. Do I tell him and risk losing our friendship or do I not tell him at all? Please Help!
Tell him! Maybe it will be easier with a note, or online. But, find a way! Tell him you like him more than a friend, and if he's kewl with that, then YAY! :) If not, then ask if you guys can still be friends.
Hope it works out! :D
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I have had so much trouble deciding on what to get my boyfriend for Valentines Day!!!...I was thinkin bout gettin him a Teddy Bear and 1 of those really big cards is that a good idea???...if you have any other good ideas please let me know i will rate you 5 if you help me the least little bit!!! thnx!
love notes would be sweet. :O)
How can i convince my mom to let me go over my boyfriends house? Im 14 and hes 16 i guess she somewhat doesnt approve of that. Its imbarresing for him to come here because I live in a small apartment and my mom would have to sit with us omg that would be so bad. I dont kow why but even if he was my age she still wouldnt let me go over a guys house.Does she not trust me?
she doesnt trust him. have your mom get to know him more.
13/m....i went to a dance alone cuz my mom made me go -.- so i was sitting down and this girl came up to me and started to talk to me. i never met her before but i danced with her and even bought her candy. we walked around and talked most the time......what do i say to her tommorrow at school?
if you see her at lunch or between classes, just say, "Oh hi! I had a great time at the dance!" its not that hard. :)
I am in love with my ex boyfriend. He broke up with me and is well and truly over me and I know that for a fact, so there is no chance of us getting back together. We're still friends and alot of people know I still have feelings for him and people have told him but I always deny it when he asks me. There is no point in me telling him how I feel because he doesn't want to get back together but he keeps asking me if I still have feelings for him. I want to tell him the truth because I hate lying to him but it might make things uncomfortable. Should I just tell him?
tell him! u never know what might happen.......
ok well theres this guy that i like and well hes like my ex we hav had an on and off relationship, but we have been seperated for almost 3 months and i miss him and i want him back. i have a feeling he likes me but then i have a feeling he doesn't. how do i know and how do i ask him out because i mean its just kind of weird.
its always easier to talk online/write a note about this stuff. try it. :)
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ok, i think this is going to sound really dumb, but i may as well ask it anyway. im 14/f.
well, im going out with this guy, we've been going out for nearly a month now, and he's my first proper boyfriend, and i know im the most serious he's had.
anyway, we're going to watch a movie in a couple of days, and some of my mates and some of his are coming too. the thing is, when we've been out before, we've been out in town, in the park, ive been to his house and things like that, so its not really the most romantic of settings, and i havent kissed him properly yet. i mean, we're fairly comfortable with each other and stuff, thre just hasnt been the right time to kiss him. and ive never kissed a guy before. so, any tips on how to handle the back row of the cinema? any advice would be appreciated. thanks
sorry im not too great w/ this stuff but here is my suggestion: casually hold his hand, and share popcorn. look into his eyes and if he thinks thats kewl, just go for it(the kiss)! make sure you dont have popcorn kernals in your teeth! lol :P hope i helped. tell me how it went. :D
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okay, so there's this guy at my school, I dont really know that well, and I'm new here this year. but he''s supposedly the hottest guy. Two months ago he started flirting wit me almost everyday, and some other girls actually did think he liked me. A month ago one of my friends asked him if he did and he said yes( i wasnt there), but then a week ago my friend told me that she and another friend asked him again a week ago, and he said I was disgusting and he only liked to make fun of me. But he still flirted with me uptil then. I'm confused, does he still like me, and tried to cover up for it? Because in the beginning it genuinely seem like he liked me when he flirted. I DO know he's somewhat of a playboy. I'm in Middle School.Female, of course.
he likes u, but is embarassed i think
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alright I've been dating this guy for about a month in a half. Hes perfect he already bought me roses and he treats me soo good. But i dont know what to get him for Valentines Day can you please help me? thanks
95% of guys would like to get flowers from their girlfriends. but if hes that other 5 percent, get him something special. maybe a valentine card (one that takes you FOREVER to make)! or maybe a bunch of love notes. something from the heart!
tell me how it went l8r! :D