HI!!! MY NAMES RAUSHELLE AND I LIVE IN TEXAS... god im such a loser... WELL IM A LOSER WHO CAN ANSWER YOUR PROBLEMS.... putting my talents to use.
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I'm 15 year old girl. I dunno what I want anymore. I broke up with my boyfriend of 6 and a half months 2 weeks ago. And I cried 3 days afterwards. And my mom kept telling me that if I was so upset and depressed.. I should go call him and get him back.. Then I was talking to my best friend and she said she did that too when she broke up with her boyfriend.. But the thing is.. EVERYONE hates him. They think he's annoying. Sure, he says he's sorry way to much.. and repeats himself a billion times.. But when I was with him.. and no one else.. I was happy.. So happy.. :sighs: And then whenever we were at a party or something. We'd drift away and I'd go with my friends and him with his.. But then sometimes we'd see each other, exchange some "I love you"'s and stuff and we'd be set for another hour or 3.. Then there were times when I was kinda embarassed to be around him.. I'm more shy and timid but he's so loud and random.. I mean.. I'm random too.. When I'm hyper, but it's different somehow. And I saw him for the first time yesterday and I wanted to jump on him and cling to him or something. XD Because I miss him.. A lot. I don't wanna change him but I just want everyone to like him.. And it's so hard when your best friend and everyone else hates him.. What do I do. I'm so confused and whenever I talk to anyone about it.. They all hate him so it's like.. why bother.. ;.; (link)
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By the sounds of it you both werent exactly ready for the relationship, or maybe your heart wasnt in it the whole time. And who cares if everyone hates him. Its what you think that matters. They obviously dont know him as well as you do and shouldnt judge him before they do. And I think that the fact that you guys wouldnt be together at partys and such says a lot .... and if you were embaressed to be around him you shouldnt have been going out. Maybe you should talk to him about his annoying habits... You obviously want him back but you cant expect him to change just so you can go back to a meaningless relationship. But if they really were your friends they would see how happy you are when your around him and wouldnt say those things to you.... This is a hard situation but MY opinon is that you shouldnt go back with him because if your friends opinons mean more to you then his feelings, and being around him, then its best if you take some time away from each other.
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ok i went out with this kid but it turned out that it didnt work out so i brook up with him. but the very same day the kid i have liked 4 a long time asked me out. so now im going out with him(but its not like i planned to dump one guy and get asked out by the other it just happened that the day me and one guy break up another one asked me out) so ne way. now the kid that liked and still likes me is calling me a ho and a whore and he is getting all his friends to call me that 2. thay r like y do u give bj to every guy u see and stuff like dat. BUT i dont! hoiw can i stop this i already told them its now true and that i would really like it if they stopped but they still do it. and school is starting and i already have a reputation. and i also told the kid that we could still be friends but he is still sayin shit bout me! plz give me some advice on what i can do. I RATE U REALLY GOOD! (link)
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Just ignore him. Hes trying to get a reaction out of you. But if you ignore him then things might change they might not. But after awhile he'll give up. And if not something else is gonna come and theyll forget about whatever they THOUGHT you did. There imature and chances are no one will believe them anyway cause most people will have the sense to know that hes just jealous and needs to get over you and do it fast cause hes being a bastard. Next time either tell them off, yell at them, or ignore them. There jealous. And hes just mad cause he aint gettin any.....
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Ok..just a couple minutes ago my friend told me that she saw my boyfriend smoking with his friends. Sure I think that him smoking is a problem..but what really makes me mad is that he told me that he stopped smoking. And the other day his friend walked up to him and goes "omg dude! you were like drunk last night" and he told me that he didn't know what he was talking about. But now that my friend saw him smoking I don't know what to think. Should I believe her and just ask him about it..or what? Dang I'm so confused (link)
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I dont know how much this guy means to you. Probably alot. But if he lied to you, there maybe many things he'll lie to you about in the future.
Anyways. If he was smoking with his friends ask one of them, even though they will probably cover for him. But you could go through his things ( I know it sounds horrible) and see if you find anything.
This same thing happened to one of my friends. But she believed him. Then she found cigarettes in his locker at school. He said he was just 'selling' them. But if he sells them, he does them. But yeah she stayed with him and, he cheated on her, he continued smoking, continiously got drunk, and much more.
If this happpend to me I would stay with him. Believe him. But ask him about it. If the same situation came up again I would probably not stay with him.
HOPE I HELPED
[[Raushelle]]
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okay well im not bi but like i've thought bout it n like.. i look at my friends as if i like them n u know wanna make out with them.. does that make me bi? I rate high please help?
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I dont think it makes you bi. Because your not thinking (as far as i can tell) about having a relationship with these people. Personallly I think of it as an experiment (sorta). I mean its kinda hard to explain but no i dont think that makes you bi. You may also just be THINKING about it and not actually WANTING it.
My thought on it is NO.
:: ASK AGAIN ::
RAUSHELLE
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well i broke up with my ex boyfriend twice. reason being we didn't really go anywhere with eachother or have the chance to. well after the second time we broke up, we were talking online and he was saying some pretty rude, mean things to me. i told my friends about it and none of them really like him for what he said. then a few days later, he asked if we could get back together saying how he would be a better boyfriend and stuff like that..
i have been thinking and i really do like him still, but do u think i should give him a THIRD chance?? and if so should i care what my friends say..
thanks.. (link)
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Well, lets see. If he apologized for the mean thingz and you were/are pretty sure that he meant it. I'd say yes. Give him another shot. But otherwise probably not. Ask yourself how much he means to you and how much you like him.
About your friends. I would say DONT care what they think no matter what happens... well for somethings you could... lol i know this is confusing but yeah.
What I would do would be give him another shot. If it doesnt work, the third time, you probably werent meant to be.....
REMEMBER--- THREES THE CHARM? WAIT IS THAT HOW THAT GOES? OWELL!!!ITS SOMETHING LIKE THAT.
LOL HOPE I HELPED.
[[RAUSHELLE]]
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i feel like guys only like girls for their bodies, so i reject alot og guys. what should i do? (link)
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stop being so self absorbed. Ur missing out on some good guyz. Just get to know them as friends and then youll like actually know them before rejecting them. lol. sorry but yeah.
[[raushelle]]
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do you think having an online relationship is okay..... so youve seen the pictures talked alot.. but do i really know and trust them.. i mean would you depend your life on someone you just met online.. or is that crazy!! thanks
~*a*M*y~ (link)
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I think it depends what age you are.... My opinion is its not crazy at all. I mean its just a form of meeting people.... aint nothin wrong with that.
((I prolly wouldnt depend my life on it right when i met them))
[[Raushelle]]
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Well me and my boyfriend have been goin out for 3 months starting tewday...and i have this problem with cutting ( my wrist ) and i havn*t told hym untill yesterday....and he got really mad at me and said i either have tew stop cutting or i have tew brake up with me cuz e doesnt wanna risk losing someone he really loves......but i think he is just running away from the problem.....wat dew u think he is doing (link)
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I think that he really cares about you. I have a friend ill call sam. And sam does the same thing cause of stress. But her boyfriend "jake" gets really mad at her for doing that cause he cares about her so much. There still together cause she stopped.
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Should i let my friend come up my shirt..? hes always like bringing my boobs up.. were not goin out but we flirt a rly lot.. Hes always hinting.. He really wants to.. Shuld i let him!? plz help i have no idea wut to do
(( im 13 )) (link)
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He sounds alot like hes using you. Dump him or talk about commitment.
*Raushelle*
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i love my friend from down the street. WE shared so many things together, ive known him since i was 2. He grabs my one day and tells me he loves me and kisses me softly. I really thought he meant it. The next day my total flirt best friend comes and steals him away. I know he still likes me but it was so hard seeing them flirting. He may like her. I am hurting so much inside knowing that there could be someone else besides me for him. What should i do? i really love this guy. (link)
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Id say dump the friend. Well i would only do that if shes done the same thing before. I mean please... thats low for a BEST FRIEND to do. And after he did what he did to you (which was TOTALLy romantic) lol i would say theres no way he could like her. You guys have history. Tell him how you feel and if nessicary dump the boy stealer. shes just jealous anyway.
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