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Q: I'm a 16 year-old girl and my 15 year old (first) boyfriend says that I should change myself COMPLETELY just for him. And when I asked him why he's still with me and why he doesn't go to someone else he says it's because of all the sexual things he wants to do with me. I'm like..wtf..You don't respect me. You want me to change for YOUR sick pleasures...Well, I'm not going to change. It upsets me...because everything I seem to do, he's not happy with. The way I dress, act...He LOVES the way I look. And that's about it.
I'm on the verge of breaking up with him. We've been together for a month and 2 weeks. Do you think I should give him another chance?
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Time to get rid of him and find someone else.
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Q: 16/m how do you get a girl to fa in love/ike you, i know all girls are different and a that but what generally works?
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The guy I like was just himself. He's sweet. He pays attention to me, we hang out, we go places. He lets me play with his hair and we sit close to each other. He always makes sure he tells me when I look good. He'll put his arms around me. I like stuff like that. He's just a nice guy. We have a lot in common too.
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Q: 13/f 8th grade
I like this boy and I have one class with him but I made a way where I would always walk by him 4th period (we have 5th period together) and when I do he would call my name and walk away from his friends and start talking to me. He talks to me alot I guess. My friends don't know I like him either, I don't know if I will tell them yet though. I have no idea if he likes me though. I really don't know what to do. But I know he doesn't hate me, when I'm with my friends he would come up to me and ask me for something or ask me a question. Any help would be appreciated. Thanks!
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It seems like he might like you. I wouldn't tell my friends I like him if I were you. That always made trouble for me, but then again, if you tell then and they tell him and he does like you, he might end up asking you out. Hope I helped. Message me if you need anything.
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Q: I need a good quote. Right now i am talking to this kid, and i'm not sure if i like him or not... any ideas? the quote can be broad
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"Find a best friend that you can't keep your hands off."
I like this one. I don't think it will help though. It just makes me think of my flirty friendship. :) Here are some that might help though...
"Don't make someone your first priority when they only consider you an option."
"Always be confident, and fake it if you have to. Remember, confidence is sexy!"
"Friendship comes first, and you have to be friends before you do anything else."
"Talk about things that are important, and laugh about the things that aren't. Don't be afraid to take chances, make a fool of yourself, or get hurt."
"Quit waiting on the guy to make the first move. Show him that you're a strong woman, and maybe you'll get something for your confidence."
"Communication is key, and you cannot love until you are afraid of not getting your heart broken."
"You just need to find the right stupid boy that you don't mind so much."
"Don't be afraid of a guy; they're just people. And they have feelings too!"
"It's just high school. You shouldn't take things so seriously."
"My mom always told me to make sure that your significant other knows how much you love them before they leave. You never know if they are coming back or not."
"Don't look for someone who's not going to argue with you on some points. You need someone who will challenge you and push you farther."
"Always be with someone that can make you laugh!"
"Don't go to bed angry with each other."
"Go with the flow, and make sure you know the person in question as a friend first."
"Never idealize the other person; understand and acknowledge their flaws and virtues by getting to know them. It's the only way to fall in love and be fallen for."
"Learn how to tolerate the annoying habits. Giving in to your initial desire to ditch someone just because of a few annoyances is the surest way to remain alone."
"You know it's true love when you can see, not only the best in each other, but recognize each other's faults and accept them as they are."
"Once a cheater, always a cheater."
"Instead of going to your friends about boyfriend problems, talk to your boyfriend. You'll get a real result, and he'll appreciate that you didn't tell the world about your problems."
"Share all your secrets. You will genuinely know each other's flaws, you won't have to hide anything, and you'll know they love you despite your mistakes."
"If you want to be with someone, go for it! There may be regrets, but at least it won't be a regret that you didn't go after who you wanted."
"Take time for yourself first. Get comfortable with who you are, and be confident. Once you've done that, they won't be able to take their eyes off you."
"Whatever you do, date the person because you truly like them, not because somebody else likes the idea of you two together."
"If you really like a guy, the best thing to do is not rush into a relationship with him. Become friends at first and see where you go from there!"
"Try to think about what you bring to the relationship, not what you get out of it."
"Always treat your significant other the way you want to be treated. Communication, and not hurtful words or actions, is the best way to express yourself."
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Q: i know what my valentines day is going to be like. my ex is going to be withh his new girllfriend. they go to the same school. we broke up a month ago. we were together 5 months. im not going to see them on valentines day, but im going to know that theyre together. ill be thinking about him all day. him and her. im not over him at all as you can tell. does anyone have any stories about how bad their valentines dayss gonna be cause i need some support. make me see that im not alonee here. thanks
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I love one of my best friends, but he has a girlfriend. We hang out a lot and take care of each other. His girlfriend is a bitch and I love him more then she ever will, but he will be with her instead of me.
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Q: what kind of perfume do guys like best?
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It depends. One of my guy friends loves when I wear Celine Dion, but the other thinks it smells like Vodka.
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Q: hey thanks for the feedback! why did he suddenly begin avoiding you? even though you were at your friend's house, were you two alone when you told him? we're not close physically,he keeps sending mixed messages,but he did get overreact when i mentioned this swimmer dude,that's a good sign i think. is there any other way to say "i like you" b/c it just feels bland and commonly used.
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The guy I liked avoided me because he didn't know what else to do. He felt awkward around me. Everyone knew I liked him. I told him more than once, and I don't remember which was the 1st time. I don't know how to say "I like you", except for just saying it, but this site might give you some ideas.
http://www.romancestuck.com/i-love-you-100-ways.htm
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Q: hey,
thank you so much for your advice, that takes a lot of guts to tell your friend how you feel, but i now feel that the chances of a worst case scenario from happening isn't that bad, but i'm afraid of the awkward situation. how did it become complicated once you told him?
i've been hinting at him i feel the same way as he does, he just doesn't get it, or he thinks it's an act of kindness from a friend, so now i know i have to initiate it. and i'm wondering if you were nervous or anything, because i sure am! was he nervous/uneasy when you told him? any advice on how to tell him? thanks!
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Well we weren't that great of friends when I told him and I had been hinting it to him. We hung out a lot because his best friend and one of my best friends were dating and her mom didn't trust her out alone, so me and the guy I like would go and kind of double date. We always had pool parties and stuff and we were becoming better friends over time. Well, one day we were hanging out at the girls house and I just told him. I always was close to him, like physically. We were always touching and doing stuff, but when I said I liked him, he didn't want me near him. He got over that quickly. All we did was hang out and talk and now we are best friends. We take care of each other. I still like him and I never want to lose him. Write me again if you want more help.
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Q: hey, i just want to know if there's anyone who's asked their good guy friend out,or if you've had feelings for them and just straight out told them. i dunno anyone who's done that and what the best/worst is that can happen,as in how often the friendship still remains after that is said. so if you can tell me what happened after you told your best guy friend please let me know! thank you!
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I told my best guy friend that I likes him before we were even that close and at first it made us more complicated and he didn't want us to hang out as much, but that soon ended and now we hang out all the time. He comes over to my house a couple times a week and we talk every day at school. He doesn't let people be mean to me. When he comes over we sit right next to each other, like we are so close that one side of our bodies are touching. Sometimes we put an arm around each other. I play with his hair, we tickle each other, and put my head on his shoulder. It's sweet, but he has a girlfriend and he loves her and we are just friends, but the point is that telling him didn't ruin our friendship. It actually got easier. Mail me if you want to know anything else.
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Q: ok, so im having this issue im kinda sorta dating this guy and i like him alot. normally this would be cool except for one thing he lives 30 minutes away from me has been arrested 14 times has peircings does drugs etc. etc. hes not a good guy. but hes a good person. does that make sense?? i dont even know. anyways i come from an old traditional family. im kept on a shorter leash than my dog. this guy wants to meet them but i really dont think they
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Ok, I think you might need to listen to your parents this time. They have reasons to keep you on a leash. This guy sounds like trouble, whether he's a good person or not.
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Q: I am scared to death right now. I like this guy in my class, but everyone else hates him. I really want to ask him to a dance we're having Friday, but I'm afraid my reputation will sink lower, and its already pretty low! I NEED HELP!!!!!!!
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If you like him, ask him. It would probably make him feel really good, and you might even make his reputation better.
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Q: What is a cute name I can gall my boyfriend named Ryan?
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That's my friend's name. I think it's cute to call him Ry or Ry-Ry. :) That's all people usually call him. I don't know anything else.
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Q: Okay so I had NO IDEA what to get my boyfriend of almost a year for Christmas. But he's really religious, so i got him a little $10 woven braclet with a cross (its not girly, or anything. haha). But, he keeps dropping hints that he's getting me some really expensive jewelry. Should i get him something more?
My dad said guys dont take that personally. They just think its the thought that counts, and he wont mind at all. But, I still feel really bad about it. Do you think i should spend a little more?
thank you for ANY help.
xoxo. (:
ps. he's not materialistic at ALLLL. just fyi.
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I think your dad is right. I got my guy friend a present and I was afraid it was too little, or that he wouldn't like it, but before I even gave it to him, he said "it's the thought that counts". I think your boyfriend will love it just because he loves you.
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Q: i have to write my boyfriend a sorry letter for cheating. any good sugestions or help ?
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My suggestion is to not write a letter. You need to tell him in person. When he gets upset, you need to understand that he has a good reason and he may not forgive you.
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Q: i'm 17/f. if i have a boyfriend, and we've been together for a long time, is it cheating if i hold hands with another boy?
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It would be cheating if you have feelings for the other boy, and I don't know why you would hold his hand, unless you had feelings for him.
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Q: hellooo♥
i'm making some IOUs for my boyfriend (6 months tomrrow! yay!) any ideas?? haha i only have one so far..a free massage.
help please!!
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1. Back Rub
2. Foot Rub
3. Alone Time(No TV or Phone)
4. Movie Night
5. Dinner
6. Cuddling
7. 3 Different Types Of Kisses
8. Bubble Bath Together
9. Breakfast In Bed
10. Free Coupon(It means that he can choose for that coupon to be anything he wants)
11. Romantic Picnic
12. Walk On The Beach
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Q: does any have any good flirting tips for my ten year old sister she is always asking me and i dont know what to say she like this guy he is kinda a show off.
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Confidence is a big thing when it comes to flirting. Guys really like the confidence. Being shy(biting lips, shy sweet smiles, standing close)are things I did. I was a confident and shy flirter at the same time. I have a boyfriend now.
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Q: Alright, well im pretty young and me and my boyfriend have been going out since may 11th and were really close i'v told him thing's not even my best-friends know! and i think i might acctually love him! my mom calles it puppy love but i haven't felt this way about anybody before! now onto the problem. he had to go for the summer, though he hurt himself on his skateboard on purpose so he wouldn't have to leave so soon. but now he's gone and we really only get to talk on msn since he had to leave to work at his cousins and he's usually working. and on msn we ran out of thing's to say. and he's wondering if were gonna stay together and he thinks thing's are gonna be weird when he get's back because were not talking a whole lot now and it's just making me really worried, that were gonna break up. we said we'll keep going out and see how thing's are going to be when he get's back. but it' just made me really worried, i felt sick to my stomach and really weak after he talked to me about it, and i cried alot. but im just wondering does this sound like just a phase?
Thank's For The Help In Advance =D
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My boyfriend is away a lot. We talk on IM. We do run out of things to say, but you just have to make conversation. Ask him how his day was, and how he's feeling. Ask what movies he's been watching and about his family. How thee weather is. Just make small talk. Have you ever heard the phrase "absence makes the heart grow fonder"? It means that since you miss him, you will want to be with him more when he comes home. That is how I feel. It would help to know how old you actually are though. If you want to know more, then message me.
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Q: hello everyone, i would like to ask, 'how can you tell a guy likes you?', i have this friend i like him a lot but i dont know if he likes me, i get the impression that he might, its just the way he looks at me, and how he doesn't talk when other friends are with us but when we are alone he talks, and we do get on but i dont know how i could tell if he likes me, any guys out there can you tell me how i can read a guys mind?
thanx
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For me, I could just tell that he liked me. He was always flirting and being around me, and he always offered to buy me a soda or a snack. I hope my love life will make yours easier.
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Q: my boyfriend is a total jerk. he dosnt say hi to me anymore. he hangs up on me swears at me is violent to me says he dosnt care about me nemore as much as he did says he hates seen me gets ppl to tel me hes not were he is so i dont come see him. says he hates seen me and that he dreads it says that im on the bottum of his list of prioirtys. he dumped me and said he was treating me bad so i wud break it of with him but then he wanted me back. hes grabbed my throat and said hel hit me. he tells people he dosnt want to be with me and im annoying and wishes i would dissapear. altho we hav a serious relashionshop and hav dated for about a year hes gettin himself into serious trouble and been arrested and charged and drinking every night. i love him so much and my biggest fear is that he wil cheat on me. i dont think he loves me neither do any of my friends. i just have alot of fun with him on weekends even tho he ignored me and yells at me for anything and everything i dont have the power to break it off PLEASE HELP ME IM DESPEREATE iv talked to him about it so many times and he gets mad and tells me to fuck off!
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I'll make this simple. Get rid of him and call the police.
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I like to give relationship advice. I also like to receive it. It's funny how that works. I was in a relationship when I started using Advicenators and we are now good friends. I like someone now who is in a relationship. Stuff is very confusing, but I handle it well.
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Gender: Female Member Since: July 22, 2007 Answers: 46 Last Update: February 23, 2008 Visitors: 5222
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