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Apart for 2 months
Alright, well im pretty young and me and my boyfriend have been going out since may 11th and were really close i'v told him thing's not even my best-friends know! and i think i might acctually love him! my mom calles it puppy love but i haven't felt this way about anybody before! now onto the problem. he had to go for the summer, though he hurt himself on his skateboard on purpose so he wouldn't have to leave so soon. but now he's gone and we really only get to talk on msn since he had to leave to work at his cousins and he's usually working. and on msn we ran out of thing's to say. and he's wondering if were gonna stay together and he thinks thing's are gonna be weird when he get's back because were not talking a whole lot now and it's just making me really worried, that were gonna break up. we said we'll keep going out and see how thing's are going to be when he get's back. but it' just made me really worried, i felt sick to my stomach and really weak after he talked to me about it, and i cried alot. but im just wondering does this sound like just a phase?
Thank's For The Help In Advance =D
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My boyfriend went to Europe for a month recently. I will be honest, it was very hard for me. I have some trust issues, just because I can be an insecure person and he was with a pretty girl that I do not like. Well, when he was gone he'd call every once in a while .. but we too ran out of things to say quickly. So, I wouldn't worry about that, its normal.
The hardest part will be when he returns, since him and I had been so far apart it was awkward getting back to the couple we used to be. We just tried doing the same things we did before he left, and after a week or so were stronger then ever.
While he's away, try new things. Change your room around, make new friends, and chill with your old friends you might have put aside. Go to an amusement park, read a book, or see some movies you've been wanting to see. The days when I had nothing to do were the hardest days for me, so keep yourself busy!
If your boyfriend does end up calling things off, make sure you two have both discussed it. If you believe you're in love, then love can survive a vacation. Tell him how much he means to you, and that when he gets back everything will eventually go back to normal.
I'm so sorry he has to be away.
Good Luck <3
-Kymmy
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My boyfriend is away a lot. We talk on IM. We do run out of things to say, but you just have to make conversation. Ask him how his day was, and how he's feeling. Ask what movies he's been watching and about his family. How thee weather is. Just make small talk. Have you ever heard the phrase "absence makes the heart grow fonder"? It means that since you miss him, you will want to be with him more when he comes home. That is how I feel. It would help to know how old you actually are though. If you want to know more, then message me.
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