Hi! My name's Nicole. Okey, I'm that kind of person you can talk to about ANYTHING. From boys to pizza, to how they stamp the little Ms on the M&Ms. I'm also filipino, which is pretty cool in my book, and I have alot of friend. I love giving advice, so feel free to drop me off a line or two, and I'll be glad to answer any questions that you have for advice. Anyways, heres some info on me, so you get to know me better.
Name: Nicole
Nicknames: Nikki, Snoopy, Cookie, Nicoli
Most people call me: Nikki.
Favorite color: Pink and Black. ReTrO, no?
Do you speak filipino: Barely.
"Thing" you are at school: I dont really know. I'm like 50% girly girl and 50% punkish. It's kinda hard to choose.
Do you have filipino friends: Heck, yea!
Your best friends that are filipino: Jan, Brinny, Caroline, and Andrew
You like giving advice about: technically anything.
Favorite candy: Laffy Taffy
Celebrity Crush: Rupert Grint ((Eeeeeeee!!!!))
In a perfect world
Human beings would co-exist
Harmoniously, like a rainbow
a multitude of colors
Each layer vibrant and clear by itself
but in unison....
Boundless, Breathtaking, Celestial....
after every storm -if you look hard enough-
A rainbow appears...
|f|r|i|e|n|d|s|h|i|p| is my anti drug.
|m|u|s|i|c| is my anti drug.
~MY BESTEST BUDDIES IN THE WORLD~
Janice - Jan
Brittany - Brinny
Andrea - Andi
Alecia - Eesha
Chris - Kurisu
Colton
Andrew
Caroline
Carly
Danielle - Dani
Samantha - Sammie
Nick - Nickdoofus
I Love Rupert Grint! I'm a HUGE fan of Harry Potter! Turn the volume up, cause you'll hear Hedwigs theme! OMG I LOVE RUPERT AND TOM FELTON THEY ARE SO HOT!!
[A]ge: 13
[B]irthday: November 15
[C]olor: Pink and Black
[D]ream boy: Rupert Grint, Tom Felton, and *a SpEcIaL sOmEoNe*
[E]yes: brown
[F]riends: Ooooo they know who they are ;) luv ya guys!
[G]rade Average: As and Bs
[H]air color: Jet Black!!
[I]nterests: boys (lol), music, movies, shopping...yeah...
[J]obs: Does school count?
[K]razy: Lol, all the time, ask any of my friends, hehe
[L]ocation: on my computer chair
[M]aritral status: Taken! ;)
[N]ame: Nicole aka Nikki
[O]bsession: Harry Potter!
[P]izza: Extra Extra large stuffed crust extra cheese :)
[Q]uote: In a perfect world, human beings would co-exist harmoniously, like a rainbow. A multitude or colors, each layer vibrant and clear by itself But in unison...boundless, breathtaking, Celestial....
[R]ace: Filipino/Asian
[S]pecial Talents: Singing (I guess), computers, viola...
[T]ell something about you: I'm obsessed with Music and Harry Potter and I have been to the Rupert Grint website at least 14 times.
[U]unbelieveably embarassing moment: When I dropped my lunch tray on my shirt (we had spaghetti >.
E-mail: xorupertsgirl099x3@yahoo.com
Gender: Female
Location: nunya buisness
Occupation: Student
AIM: FCNikkiBoO2011
Yahoo: xorupertsgirl099x3
MSN: fire_goddess40@yahoo.com
Member Since: December 22, 2004
Answers: 59
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ok, i like this guy. lets call him joe. i've liked joe for a few months. and we've become really good friends. and, my friend...lets call her betty...betty and i love to do 3 way calling. so we usually call joe and other people when we do that. but lately, like last night, he just seemed really annoyed or moody or somethin'. but i don't know if it was cuz of me and betty or not. and, lately, joe's been kinda...bleh. and when i was online one night i said hi and he never said anything. i don't know. i'm not sure if its me or not. i mean, is it just a guy thing? or is it me?
thx in advance! (link)
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First thing is first. Guys are misunderstood creatures, and nobody knows whats going through their head except for maybe other guys. I doubt that its you thats the problem because he would be avoiding you. Sit him down one day and ask whats up. Maybe something happened with his family, or maybe hes overstressed. Either way, talk to him about it and hopefully he'll open up.
~**~((xoxo Nicole Anne!))~**~
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Hey everyone. I have my own column, but I can't answer my own question. I met a guy online back in May or around that time. We didn't talk much until now, and we've gotten soooo much closer. We both think we're soulmates and meant for each other. Even though I haven't met him, I feel this connection, and it's really cool. I just don't know what to think though, because I hear all those stories on the news and everything, and it really scares me. What if he's a rapist or a serial killer or something?! I really don't think he is, because of some of the conversations we've have, but there's always that chance. I just want to know you're opinions on this, and what I should do about it. Is there anyway I can find out he's really 16 w/o actually meeting him? Thx in advance, sorry about the length. Happy Holidays 2 everyone!
Shortie8959 (link)
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Hun, No. no, no, no, no, no. Online relationships arent good, hun. These rapists and serial killers you speak of, there are more of them out there. I for one think its a bad idea. Dont meet him. You dont know him well enough. And I dont think theres a possible way of meeting him without...meeting him @_@ anyways, I say dont go for it...I'd hate to have another person be raped or something this year...
~**~((xoxo Nicole Anne!))~**~
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I didn't really get to know my boyfriend before I started to date him (smooth move on my part). It turns out that he has totally different values than I. I haven't really told him that I despise drinking with the sole purpose of getting sloshed, and that people who smoke weed piss me off to no end...among other things.
I'm wary to address the issues though 'cause I don't want to hurt his feelings. He cries more easily that I do, which is weird, 'cause we're both 17.
Should I just let this go or confront him on it?
~Thankies Bunches~ (link)
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Wow, this is a really big issue in relationships, but I'll take a crack at it...
Just so you know, I dont think its a very good idea to date someone you dont really know yet. But, anyway, I think you should confront him, but do that gently, since he cries easily and all. Just tell him your values and tell him that your pride in those things are very strong. If he's the one, he'll consider that talk and he'll understand. Thanks for coming to me for advice ^_^ I hope I helped some.
~**~((xoxo Nicole Anne!))~**~
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My boyfriend was living with me for a while, and he just "moved out" today. I can't call him, but I really miss him a lot, I don't know, I just need a way to miss him less. What do I do? We're still going to see eachother and stuff, it's just going to be less than when he lived with me. (He had to move out because my dad never knew he lived here, and he was really mad) (link)
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Get more social. Get with your girlz and just hang out. If you hang out with them and have fun, and focus less on your boyfriend, then it'll just slip off of your mind. I'm not saying that I want him to get out of your mind competely, but it helps. Trust me.
~**~((xoxo Nicole Anne!))~**~
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i feel so ashamed of my self
i let my cousin finger me !!!!!!
we never see each other that was the first time we have ever met... is it okay that i feel guilty?!!? (link)
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What the heck is wrong with you? You, uh, heh....you seriously need help. But, yea, I'd probably feel guilty...gawd, you're weird @_@
~**~((xoxo Nicole Anne!))~**~
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Okay, I'm goin out w/ this guy we'll call hi "John" John is a very sweet guy who I used to be friends w/ up until a few days ago. He found out I had liked him all year and I also found this out about him so we decided to go out. I can tell he still really likes me b/c of what he says and how we're always around each other but I have 3 questions! 1) he's really shy. his ex said it takes him a few weeks but how can i make him feel more comfortable till then. 2) How can I get him to hold my hand or kiss me or anything! 3) How do we make it last over x-mas break. we never see each other when we're not in school! (link)
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Awee!! Anyways, sometimes when two people go out, it takes a while for them to adapt to it. It just takes time. Dont rush him or else the relationship will not last long. So, like I said, dont try to rush it, because maybe he's just scared or something. And another thing, do you have his phone number? Because over Winter Break, you can call him and stuff. Thats how you guys can keep in touch. Maybe even through email too. Yes, that works. Anyways, I hope I helped.
~**~((xoxo Nicole Anne!))~**~
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dear nicole,
there is this boy in my class lets call him bob. well bob has absolutly no friends. Me and my two friends, uhh we'll call them jane and sally started being nice to him and talkin to him and stuff. On his birthday we got him a card and all signed it, then people in out class started sayin "bob like u bob looooves u!" and that really bugged us so we stoped being as nice to him. i mean we were still nice, just not as nice. then we found out that he likes sally, but she has a b/f. he didn tkno that, so he asked her out. she said NO WAY but he kept asking her and wouldnt leave us alone. Sally started getting really mean to him, and me and jane felt really bad. In the bible, bob's real name gets married to sally's real name. he says that it is destiny. ok sry it is so long but can u help me? thnx soOo much!
*~*StUcK iN tHe MiDdLe*~* (link)
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Dear Stuck in the middle,
I think I can answer your question. I think its nice that you and your friends were nice to Bob since he doesnt have any of his own. Just because people in your class say that Bob likes you guys doesnt mean that you have to avoid him and not be as nice to him. I think it was a nice thing giving that birthday card to him because no other person would. If I were you, I would avoid the rumors instead of Bob. As for Bob and Sally, guys get crushes all the time. Tell Sally to cool out on him for a little bit. Tell her to tell Bob that it is definitely NOT destiny and she already has a boyfriend. I think he'll understand. Oh yea, thanks for coming to me for advice. I hope I helped some.
~**~((xoxo Nicole Anne!))~**~
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Okay... This boy.. I really really like him and he knows it. But the thing is i don't think he likes me. Me and this other girl like him and we don't get y he doesn't like ANYBODY.We aren't jealous of each other, but we really want him to like one of us.He thinks we r too young to go out wit people, but we all know we aren't. How can we get him to take one of us seriously?¿?¿ (link)
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Well, okey. It's like this. Sometimes guys like this guy you're talking about doesnt like girls yet. Much like one of my friends, he's not really ready for the "going out" thing yet. He's waiting for that one person. And hey, maybe he likes you, but he's just shy. And maybe he's scared that he'll break that friendship bond that you two have. So, my advice to you is not to bug him about it. Maybe he just wants to protect the frendship relationship you guys have with eachother. I hope I helped some.
~**~((xoxo Nicole Anne!))~**~
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what do i say? how do i ask him out? when can i kiss him ? (link)
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Okey, first of all, you have to be familiar with him, you know, be friends with him. If you dont, then trust me, you wont really have a good time. Anyways, once you get to know the guy, then go up to him confidently and ask him if you wanna go to the mall or something. I suggest that you go to a movie, the mall, or a festival or something. Some place where you can do stuff. I wouldnt suggest that you go out to eat cause that brings awkward silences. So, yeah, bad idea. Anyways, once you get to know him, go on a couple dates and all that stuff, then maybe, just maybe, you just might snag a kiss from the guy. But a perfect kiss isnt always predictable. When its just that perfect moment, you'll get that kiss. You can trust me on that one.
~**~((Nicole Anne))~**~
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hey nicole! im 13/f
i need help, its a guy problem. i like this guy, and he's a grade upper. he's been really nice to me but even though i try talking to him every chance i get, its going really slow.. I think he knows i like him though b/c on the last day of school i bought an xmas card and i put a candy cane on it and stuff, and inside the card i said call me if you want and i put my number there. i dont think he'll even really call me. :[ every night i got to sleep thinking of him, i dream of him,nd every morning i wake up thinking of him. I'm too scared to tell him i like him directly, because he would probably reject me right on the spot. What should i do? i rate high and i'm sorry its so long.
anonymous (link)
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Dear Anonymous,
I'm really good with the boy problem girl problem stuff, so I'll answer this question the best I can - just for you.
I know its hard to tell a crush that you like him, but its normal to feel scared and nervous at first. Get his email address or IM. tell him then that you like him. I believe its better if you email or IM him. Oh yea, and another thing, NO anonymous letters to this guy. It wont help that much. Anyways, like I said, email or IM him and tell him. If he rejects you, tell to yourself that its okey, and love yourself for atleast having the courage to tell him. Oh yeah, thanks for coming to me for advice. I hope I helped some.
~**~((Nicole Anne))~**~
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Thank you so much for your advice. i called him right away and we talked for a while. It ended up that he asked me out. But my brother the big mouth told everyone at school what happened. NOw everyone knows and we are both really embarassed. I feel bad for him because it really wasn't his fault and everyone is making fun of him. What can I do to make it better? (link)
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Oooooo this is a hard one. But no worries, I'll take a crack at it...
Okey, first of all, I know big brothers are a real pain in the behind, but we'll deal with that later. Okey, this stuff happens all the time, and rumors might spread. But no worries, it will go away soon. For now, just go along with it. If someone askes you, "Hey, are you going out with that guy?" just go right in his face and say, "Its none of your buisness you fag!" or something to that effect. Just because a guy you like askes you out doesnt mean that they can take over your life and make you feel embarassed. Just be happy that your important enough to be talked about. Oh yeah, thanks for taking my advice, I'm a better person knowing that I changed someone's life ^_^ If you need anymore advice, just come and ask me.
~**~((NiCoLe AnNe))~**~
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There is this guy that I really like. He was over at my house a few days ago because he was having a sleepover with my twin brother. I didn't know he was there so I was taking a bath and I left the door open. He apparently didn't know anyone was in there so he walked into the bathroom. I was reading a mag azine and I didn't notice. He started going to the bathroom and then we both realized that there was someone else in the room. We were both really embarassed and haven't talked since. I want to go on a date with him or at least talk to him, but I don't know what to say! (link)
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Wow, this is really some question! Haha, anyways, I think I can answer your question. Get his phone number or something like that. If you cant, wait till the next time he comes over. When you get the chance, try to talk to him in private. Since it was a total accident, just start joking about it and apologize for not seeing him. Then just start talking to him. Ask him what his favorite type of music is and stuff, and maybe hang out with your brother while he is, too. You'll become fast friends with him if you just say Hi. Thanks for coming to me for advice ^_^ and I hope I helped some.
~**~((NiCoLe AnNe))~**~
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this guy and i are in all of the same classes and everyone says that we flirt and that we need to go out! lately he has always been hanging around me a lot! like there was a chair near some girl but i was sitting somewhere else so he was lying down on the table that was next to me! what should i do? and i was wondering how can i get him to give me a hug? (link)
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I have been in this exact situation before. Anyways, call him or email him and ask if he likes you. Maybe he does, maybe he doesnt. Either way, you have to trust him to be honest with you. As far as the hug thing goes, HUG HIM FIRST! Before school is over, just put your arms around his neck for a second and go, "Bye!" and maybe the next day he'll hug you back...I dont know...
~**~((NiCoLe AnNe))~**~
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There is this guy i have liked for a while, but he thinks of me just as a best friend. When i see him do things with other girls i tend to get pretty jealous. He asks me for advice with girls he really likes sometimes, and that kind of hurts my feelings because i like him. I try to make that clear but he just doesn't seem to be getting it. We are both fourteen so i guess i'm not ready for something extremely serious, but i want to go out with him. what do i do? (link)
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Awee!! Anyways, I had the same feelings like that before. I know you tend to get pretty jealous and mad but thats okey because thats normal. Anyways, get his phone number, email addres, whatever. Then email him or talk to him and tell him calmly how you feel about him. Who knows, maybe he secretly has a crush on you! You just need to talk to him personally.
~**~((NiCoLe AnNe))~**~
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Hey there is this guy i met over the summer and i really liked him then and kept talkin and then slowly stopped talking and then resently i have seen him online and talked 2 him here and there and he called me last night and we talked like we use to and i think i am liking him again is there anyway that he likes me again? but how can i bring up that i wanna go out with him and everything and he got this new job at a bowling alley and he said it is free for friends and i guess he was kinda hinting at me coming but i am not sure, should i just keep talkin to him and hope things go well and what are some things that i can do 2 make him really like me this time and i not lose him again? thanks for any help (link)
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Awee, you have a crush! Anyways, when you two are talking on the phone, just bring up the subject, "So...do you like anyone" or something like them. I bet he'll probably answer openly and honestly. And go to the bowling alley and just *happen* to see him there. If you want him to be yours then be open and honest with him, just dont go overboard.
~**~((NiCoLe AnNe))~**~
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I like this guy, but whenever i talk to him i get shy n think mmore bout what i say. I always do this around guys i like but he is also pretty popular. I am usually loud n talkative but it just doesnt work round him. Please give me advice on what i can do so we can talk more!
I will rate go0od if u try ur best to answer this.
x0x Thankz,
In Love & Lost (link)
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Dear In Love & Lost,
I will try my hardest to answer this question. Okey, most of my friends have this problem. I know sometimes its hard to talk to a guy you like, especially if he has alot of friends. I think its best to get his number or email address or call him or email him. And, hunnie, NO anonymous letters. No. That is not the way to go. Start talking to him on the phone or on the internet, get to know eachother, and then trust me, it'll be easier to talk to him face-to-face.
~**~((NiCoLe AnNe))~**~
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