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Im a 15 male.. and im gothic, is it wierd that i wear black nailpolish? give me some details and convince me if it is..

YES IT IS!! no matter how gothic u are thats.. BLLAHHH.. okay some girls may like it .. but.. honey... stop before you start wearing tampons..

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do guys like it if girls ask them to dance or go out w/ them...ive always wondered. or does the guy have to do it all?

u can only do it at a sock hop like a sadie hawkins dance wen its the point.. i mean u CAN if u want to any other time but i mean ... umm yeah i think its a guys` job... most guys feel intimidated wen grls ask em out so idk..i wouldnt im just not the type bt if u wanna go ahead

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Whats a casual ay to ask a guy to the movies without making it obvious that i am head over heals for him?

~*~*~signed...clueless.

ask him wat hes doing that night and if he says hes free then be like " wanna go see a movie? " dat doesnt make u seem head over heels at all.. bt wen u get there and ur inside the movie .. make a move :) lmfao okay u dont have to bt i would

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ok i told this guy i like that i liked him..and i did it in person ...then after i told him he was like "can i see your phone" and so i gave it to him and he was just like messing around ..come to find out he put his number in my phone..wat does that mean!? haha ..im really clueless with "guy languagE" thanks!

umm hmm maybe he wants u to call him...

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is it okay 2 have an online relationship? he said he is breaking up with his gf! and that he wants to go out with me because we have a conncetion! should i tell my friends and family about this relationship? i am scared 2!




oh god.. it could be someone lying to u never believe those people .. they are nasty!

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I am a very flirtacious person. I flirt and mess around with all my friends who are guys. My boyfriend tends to get slightly jealous when I flirt with the guys we hang around with and even though he knows it doesn't mean anything, he still gets annoyed. I understand this and we talked about it but I can't help my personality. How can I be less flirtacious?

well wen you have a boyfriend u shouldnt b flirting with other guys even if it dont mean anything i mean put urself in his shoes u kno u wouldnt wanna see him flirting with other tricks period so .. yeah just dont

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Hey, I'm kind of confused... well anyways, my friend (shes a girl), we were hanging out with some other people and trick or treating and stuff, and then like my other friend is just like... "You are a lucky man" and then im just like why? and then he said "Because someone likes you" and I knew he ment my friend lets call her R from now on, but yeah and he then said "You are good, but she says you are short and too young" (where as im 14, shes 16.) So I was just like... "oh.. ok.." well you see I really like this girl.. but I'm too shy to make the first move. What can I do? (14/m)

talk to her about it =] tell her how u feel chances are she gon say the same thing to ya good luck

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theres this guy named zack and hez 1 yr olda than me so my parents hav no probs wit him. Ne wayz, we went out once but we both agreed to break up because we had just met eachotha the day he asked me out. Well, now i like him A LOT again but he already has another gf. But i still realli like him and i think that if he knew he might tell me he likes me too, but im too afraid to tell him cuz he'z a jock and if he dont like me he'll tell everyone and ill feel stupid. What should i do?? ThnKs in return.. xo' Jess

u have to talk to him about it dont be scared i mean u dont wanna live ur life always thinkin wut could happened u nawmean just tell him!

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home-comign is in less than a hour and im goin with my friend..bob..my friend..sue..told me that bob wasnt gettin me a mum..so my mom got me one..well bobs friend..mike..wuz like wut bout bob? and bob isnt home so i can find out if hes getin me one..i would feel so embarassed if i got there,wearing my moms mum and bobs got one for me..what should i do?should i wear the one my mom gave me? or jus think hes gettin me one?

... whats a mum

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Hey...okay well this may be a lil long but I'm really looking for a detailed answer. I really liked this totally hot guy Tyler. Everyone told me after a while that he had a "crush" on me and he was really interested in getting to know me better! So he ended up asking me to homecoming and everything went just as planned. We went to the dinner, to the dance, the whole 10 yards! We even kissed! BUT....after that things only got worse. We had really never talked THAT much b/c we're both shy but we still talked at least a lil. Well after homecoming I never saw him much anymore and he never really made an effort to talk to me when he did see me! Well eventually I found out he started going out w/ another girl who's homeschooled. I confronted him and told him I knew and it was no big deal. Well he wrote me a letter (which he NEVER does) and told me how sorry he was. I wrote back and told him not to feel bad. I pretend like I wasn't hurt and like I just didnt care. I also made it very clear I wanted to be friends! Even so he still didn't make the effort to talk to me....and I really do want to hang out b/c if something goes wrong w/ his g/f then maybe we can hook up and if not....I still wanna be his friend. How do I handel the situation so he doesn't think I want him. Do I ignore him and act like I did 5 mins before I knew he exsisted or do I just make an effort and talk to him. Someone help that has been in the situation before and "got the guy!" Even guys opinions would be nice. Thanks!









u need to make an effort and talk to him! tell him how u feel bout it now if i was u id tellh im that its kinda wrong for him to just pop up out of nowhere with a gf after yall had gone to hoemcoming nd kissed nd everything .. bt dass just me... do not keep it boiled up in side of u u need to confront him about it and i mean totally just how u feel let all ur emotions loose its the best thing to do! hope i helped

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Ok, there is this boy at school that I think I love and I want him to be my boyfriend but he thinks he's to young to have a girlfriend, Well I kept on trying to tell him in secrets and notes that I love him and I want him to be my boyfriend, But he just wouldn't listen, so then I would start saying it out loud that I love him and stuff so everyone could here but now he is getting anoyed and now I dont know what to do and I realy need advice on what to say, and I dont want to ruin his and mine friendship!

u cant make urself seem desperate! and dats what ur doing maybe hes afraid of commitment bt u cant just keep naggin on him! let him come to u .. maybe he really likes u too just wont admit it bt u needa stop with the stalking type of stuff ur saying

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nIna yOu`ve knOwn me fOr idk hOw lOnq..yOu knOw hOw passiOnate i qet with qUysz..well help! i wanT sOme one that knOwsz me persOnally to answer- i ReaLLy like tarrique's cOusin..Pierre...i`ve had sex with him =/ idk hOw many times..i really lOve him-i knO i dO..lYinq tO my parEntsz..stEaLinq stuff fOr him.. seeInq him WHENEVER I CAN! people say hez usinq me fOr sex and i asked him n he sed-well if i wuz i wOuldnt call yOu flirt with yOu n uD be here every niqHt..i waNna qO OuT wiTh hiM sO bad qirl! iT`sz been like 3 mOnthsz uNder hisz spell! i asKed him "wHat dO yOu do when the persOn yOu really really like..duznt like u bak?" Hesz like idk i've nevA rEallY reaLLy liked sum1..wE haVe taLksz abOut beinq a cOuple every niqht..he sed he canT beCuz his LasT g/F *A yEa aqO* HuRt hIm sOo Bad n nOw itz takiNq a Lonq tiMe 4 him 2 b ThE saMe...what shOuld i say? i knO i shOuld qive him time..but it`sz hard knOwing he`sz sO cLose yet sO far!!

well okay first i know its tiffany lmao =] i think you should tell him that its not right for u to wait in line for him because okay idk who this dude is bt ur so much better than to try like throwing urself at him let him come to u and try to understand how hes feeling cuz u kno we've both been thru being hurt by guys and its hard to get back on track so i say keep at a friends with benefits * wink wink * level and then wen hes ready u will kno he'll let u kno cuz how im seeing it he likes u too i mean why wouldnt he ur pretty ur nice ur caring so juss give him time i kno its hard grl bt itll all happen wen u least expect it and dat will be tha best moment =] so dont beat urself up over it just play it cool go with the flow u dont wanna put urself in a position wer u look so desperate and like ur chasing after him bt like i said give it time he'll come to u why wouldnt he =] hope i helped gurl! luv ya!

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hi
I'm 27 years old male from Windhoek,Namibia.
my girlfriend and i broke up after two years of healthy relationhsip.i still love her very much though and i'm pleading day and night for her to give it another try.i know her decision was made by the influence of some of her family. her family pretents alot with me,but i don't have a problem with them.altough i'm now living 400km away from her i still can't get her out of my mind.she was and still is the best thing that has ever happen to me.
please help me..what do i do to get her back.
Thank you
Haroldt

you need to find some way to talk to her and maybe talk to her parents as well! im sorry that this happened bt its worth a try i hope i helpd

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hey, well i went out with this one guy for like 9 1/2 months we did fucking everything together! we spent every day together and its not been a month sense we broke up and i want him bak, but the thing is that i have a new boyfriend...hes a sweetheart and everything, but hes a junior when im only a freshman...my new boy is great but i want my old one bak...i juss want things bak to teh way that they used to b, bc now i dont think i can ever b happy again!!! i miss him so much i still love him and i want him bak to bad...but the thing is idk if he wants me bak...i feel really bad about this whole situation...please help me!!!

P.S.- dont tell me to move on!!! i would if i could trust me, but he is all that my heart wants!!! HELP!!!!

you should talk to both of them about it .. dont leave one hanging

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ok well theres this guy who is really nice, hott, funny, sweet, and just PERFECT!! all tha gurl'z adore him!!! and i feel soo lucky that he constantly flirt'z w/ me! It'z been lyke 3 months that we've been flirting (NO JOKE) and i mean that'z pretty long. We act lyke a couple and evrythin..like he tries to kiss me, and he licks me and stuff..but i mean i dont wanna kiss him unless we are actually goin steady..i SERIOUSLY Need some help becuz im wayyyyy too afriad of asking him out myself..if u have any ideas..PLEASE HELP ME!!!!!!! ILL RATE U!!!!

first of all a girl should NEVER ask a guy out that just shows you are desperate but you need to talk to him about it and talk about all the flirty-ness and whether he likes you or not but dont ask him out let him come to you

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i just got braces, soo how do u make out with my bf who also has braces?

s0 manii pe0ple w0rri b0ut dat.. y0o can still make 0ut wiid hiim jusz tha same way y0o w0uld iif neiither uhv y0o had bracesz... d0nt w0rrii b0ut it!

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any guys got tips for guys i like to use a foot massager for a feel plus its furry and im also addicted is that wrong o yah im also only 13

... iits n0t wr0nq iif iit makes y0o feel q0od.. iim n0t a quy bt iive heard dat sum quys liike t0 use electriic penciil sharpeners.. nd dey put it 0n der thiinqsz wiid b0xersz 0n.. miiqht wanna try dat lma0

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