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iiM Ariella . iim 13 . uhmm i love qivinq advise so IM me or leave me 1 here ifu need anythinq. muuah! -AriiElLa* . oh and thanx ~*Annie*~ ur great!.








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alright my prob is that since i'm not a jock and not a skater or anything like that girls at my school hate me wat should i do


and how can i get them to like me w/o changing my image

be yourself .... whatever you do dont change for anyone!... fnd a girl wth the same interests as you and flirt with her. sorry if i didnt help. lol i tried . xoxo Ariella

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Ok There is this boy Zac and I Like him A LOT! And my friend Emmie thinks he likes me. I'm just going to say what happened to me when I hung out with him last( I haven't before this was the first time ). Well I was just standing in a corner at a basketball game and he came up to me and said, " Who are you? " and I simply replied my name and then he said " Oh okay I know you " and he walked away to play his basketball game( it was at half time ). When it was over he came over to me and said "Is your screen name g-o-i-n space.." and I just said yeah. Then he kept like sitting next to me. It was really funny watching him though because he was like kind of dancing lol. But anyways he kept coming over and sitting next to me and I was talking to him and he was looking at me this whole time. And whenever I looked over he didn't look away he just smilied. Well then I went outside and he I guess was talking about me because he pointed to me and said something to one of his friends. Well then he couldn't find me I guess but he came outside and started talking to me. I was acting stupid...for some reason I do that around cute guys lol...Anyways he was making fun of me for being stupid. And then he went inside the gym and so did I and he was just looking at me the whole time. < Thats what happened...he goes to a different school soo I don't know if his personality is just like that or anything. But I talk to him on AOL and stuff soo yeah. Well I asked a few people if he was really flirtish and they all said yeah...but thats A LOT of flirting he did right? Okay Well I need your opinions does he like me? I rate high and give comments! ^_^

well i cant tell you for sure...but from what you told me he probably likes you or flirting is just his personality...either way good luck and just start flirting back! good luccckk! xoxo Ariella xoxo

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hi.. my girlfriend died a 3 months ago from a car crash. i think about her every minute. she was my absloulte everything. I feel that im still going out with her but i feel a need a girl friend. I need some one to take her place. I need that some one who will give me what im looking for. Please help wat should i do

wel why not. she'd want you to be happy, it might be a little hard to handle but you have to move on. sorry btw xox Ariella Hope i helped!

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what should i do? the boy that i go with use to go with my best friend a long time ago and wen we started goig out she said that she didn't like him anymore. but when they went out he didn't really like her and he cheated on her with her cousin. so after two months they broke up.
now that we have been goin togather for 5 months she has some stuff to say like that he cheatin on me and that he's just usin me for sex but i don't think that, that's true because he alwasy with me and all this other stuff that we do togather. should i break up with him so i wont lost my best friend but lose the one boy i love or should just tell him that i don't beliave her and stay with him?


i rate people...

Wow.. that was incredibly hard to read :(.. anyways dump him he scks he cheats on everyone and like i always say "chicks before d*cks" good luck! xox ariella

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Ok, Well you see I'm not allowed to have a b/f. But I do. And when I go somewhere with my friends and hes there he always hangs out with me and stuff. And he's awesome! But when I go ice skating or something my brother usually goes. And since I'm not allowed to have a b/f or anything we can't hold hands or anything! It makes me so mad! My brother is 11 and he'll tell my parents whatever I do!! Someone please help me because this is gonna happen again tonite!!

dont go ice-skating, go to his house and say you;re going over a friends or soemthing. hope i helped1 xox ari

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hey guys, can you tell me a few things you like in a girl... and things you hate??? theres this great guy and i want to get his attention. Plz help!!!

haha lol you're absolutly WRONG...guys SAY they dont like slutty girls.. well maybe that's just the guys you know.. in my school guys are really upfront about everything... AND they use the sluttier girls and then go around calling them sluttly.. trust me.. dont ever change for ANYONE... laugh a lot and show your good personality..guys LOVe that! hope i helped1 good luck! xox ari

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Theres this guy in my class, we're kinda friends, but recently since I told friends I liked him they say they haven't told but he's been kinda blankin me mostly. One of the friends says I should ask him out, but I'm no Sandra Bullock. So should I or shouldn't I????

Thanx

go for it!!! it doesnt matter what u look like you sound like a very sweet person! so good luck! ...xox Ariella
ps: haha you're funny out of all the pretty actresses you could've chosen for an example of good looks you chose sandra bulloks haha how random! sorry and good luck!!

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I think I am in love with this guy. However a little while ago he told me he just wanted to be mates with me because he was in love with this other girl. Now he's over her and he's still being a little flirty with me. The big problem is another girl is moving in on my man. I know he says he just wants to be friends but I think that may have changed hopefully. I really need to act fast though if I want to keep him. Should I start flirting with him and trying to get him to ask me out again? Do you think I may have a chance with him??

Thanx, soz it's long xx

well you never know so if i were you i'de start flirting even if he told you he just wnats to be friends, you never know he could like you and just be too afraid to tell you! hope i helped! xox Ari

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I've never had a boyfriend, because my parents think I'm too young, and I think I am too. But now in high school (i'm a freshman) it's really hard not to want a boyfriend. Another thing is I don't know how to tell my mom that I like someone. Every time I do she always walks away or laughs. She won;t take me seriously. What should I say/do to make her listen. I just want someone to talk to! ;(

haha wow im sort of in your situation accept im not ALLOWED to date!! lol but my mom for some weird reason listens to me and tells me to flirt! haha lol i know its weird! anyways maybe you should just talk to her seriously and tell her you wnat her to take you seriously when you do!hope i helped1 xox Ari

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ok i havent gotten my period yet this month but it seems like i never have a regular period cycle..and my boyfriend and me were like messing around at his house but i was just giving him a handjob but he cumed but not on me....and i dont think it was any whree near me...and i was expecting my period around the 13 or 14 or around there and me and my boyfriend just recently did this stuff like a few days before the 13...is it possible to be pregnant? but i didnt get morning sickness or anything..

are you kidding me!? NO lol you guys didnt have sex! hope i helped xox Ari

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I've seen in previous people asking questions about making out and kissing.. but i'm wondering something. What is the differance, if there is any, between "making out" and "french kissing"

thanks a bundle. ha

yepp, making out has more "feeling" involved lol -HOPE I HELPED!! xox Ari ~PS: plz rate my advice =)

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my ex and his gf just broke up he is heart broken and i love the kid to death so feel horrible i have always just wanted to just randomly walk up to him at school and kiss him or tell him i love him but he had a gf so i respected that. they arent dating anymore so what should i do.

Well, if you really like him then first give him some time since he just broke up with her and might still want to be alone or wtvr, and THEN wait to see if he's interested in you as you are interested in him. and THEN you go get him! lol good luck! xox Ari ~PS: please rate my advice! hope i helped! =)

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well i have this friend and one day we started hooking up. After that he asked me if i wanted to keep it between us or tell people and i said keep it between us. We still hook up and we have been for a few months. He hasnt told anyone and i was wondering if hes doing that because he promised me he wouldnt or if hes like embarrassed to tell anyone? .. i dont know because sometimes he flirts with me but sometimes he doesnt really pay attention to me. What do you think?

Well, personally i Think he;s usijust to hook up with someone,If you dont mind then it's fine but if you do and you havent realized it yet then you should tell him you want to tell people and see what he does! lol okay i REALLY hope i helped! good luck! xox Ari. -PS:plz give my advice a rating! =)

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ok well what if theres a guy you like but hes a grade younger than you like your in 9th grade and hes in 8th grade....does it make a big difference? i mean i want to tell him i like him but we are like best friends...its really hard

Sure why not, i dont see anything wrong with it, if you really like him then take a chance and tell him how you feel. -HOPE I HELPED! xox Ari

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ok, i went out with this girl for four months (13/m), and she dumped me over a small fight and tht she "didnt like me anymore". i thought i got over her, but now i love her again. she knows but doesnt like me back. idk wht to do im going crazy i love her so much

thats sweet..lol tell her how yu feel! xox Ari

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Okay well Im going out with this kid Lucas... he is a year younger then me... Im 13 hes 12... I have never made out with anyone... & I am really ashamed of that kinda... idk... so yea weve been goin out for 3 weeks today... and hes on my bus n all my friends are stupid n they are always tryin to get us to make out n stuff... n I just feel like weird especially on the bus where everyone can see us... I dont know if he has ever made out with anyone... I think he has because his last g/f he went out wit he was with for almost a year... also in the back of my mind I keep thinking that he doesnt really like me and i cant help but be paranoid... n Ive been ignoring sitting with him on the bus n stuff just to avoid kissing n stuff... idk..

So I guess im just asking for advice on what to do about kissing and how to stop being so paranoid! any help you can give would be great!!

thanx so much!

DONT BE PARANOID...trust me if he didnt like yu he wouldnt be wth you! think about that..and as for the kissing..it can wait..be calm and be urselllff! xox Ari..-HOPE I HELPED!

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I know there's probably a ton of questions out there like this, but i'm gonna ask it anyway. I love this guy to death and he's my friend. He just broke up with his g/f whom he was obsessed with. I don't really know how to get things going. He's absolutely amazing, and i'd do almost anything to be with him. Any advice?

Flirt with him a LOT =) and idk invite him over and just talk to him..be yourself! xox Ari

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okay here's my story, about four months ago i meet this boy named ryan at night with my three best girlfriends, they dared me to go up and start flirting with him because they thought he was like the hottest thing ever (i didnt AT THE TIME lol) anyways so i went up to him and i had a REALLY LONg and sweet convo with him.. we ended up trading sn's and phone numbers and we still end up talking until now... and i dont want to sound stupid or anything but i REALLY liek him and i want to know if he'll like me back but i have a HUGE problem. im NOT allowed to date until im fifteen and im 13 now and turning 14 in AUG. and he;s 15 and turning 16 in july...and one more thing, PLEASe everybody PLEASE dont think im like racist or anything when is ayt his but im not allowed to date\marry anyone who sint jewish.. and Ryan is catholic!!! please help..first of all i wanna know if i should disobey my mom bcuz i REALLy like Ryan and it hink he lieks me back and also is there anyone else out there with the whole mom\dating situation!!?!?!?1 lol PLEASEEEEEE HELP!!
-CONFUSED ONE =)

AHHH lo, taht;s embaressing.. but wtvr i TOTALLy knew about the race thing haha lol tahnx ALL of yu.. im giving everyone who helps a 5..lol xoxoxox

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Well, I have this bf.. and i like him sooo much and i know he likes me too, but.. hes still in that "prude stage" so we arent really gettin anywhere fast.. if ya know what i mean. And im one of those girls who likes attention and i cant stand that i dont really get that from him.. and i dont know what to do or how to tell him..?? please help! :/

tell him everything taht you just told us..lol except for the opart that you think he;s going the the "prude stage" lol xox Ari - HOPE I HELPED!!

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i have been on and off with this boy lets call him bob 4 da past 3 or 4 years, and over the years we have fallen inlove. we used to not go to the same school and we had a great relationship until i moved away. wen i moved back i started going to his school and once again we started dating. there has been alot of drama and we have broken up alot of times but we are still inlove. we have both dated defferent people but we still always go back to eachother. i just started dating this new guy lets call him billy. well billy an i dated once b 4 but i dumped him to get back with bob. well just a few nights ago bob tryed 2 get with me but i said no, even though i like billy i love bob, but i just donr want to do thid 2 billy again. last time billy's sister(1 of my best friends) got really mad at me and we didnt talk 4 almost a month! so i dont know what to do...some one please help! i know this is long but i promis i will rate!

well im not saying you should give up on Bob buuuuut Billy probably REALLy likes you and you shouldnt break uo with him yet, if you STILL love bob in a few weeks or so then go back to him because you shouldnt go out with someone just for what otehr people think..its YOUR life

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