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Q: I'm Nakhle From Lebanon.I'm always sad,always sitting on the Internet doing nuthin but eating,chatting and surfing the net.I Feel Like This world doesn't react with me.My problem is That i never had a true life,I'm so empty,running away from pple,or should i say i get closer from people that always Throw me away,& never be loyal 2me the way i'm being loyal 2 everyone.as a summary,i'm living hopeless,no social life,no nuthing,future seems hard,difficult,& painy 4 me..I never met a person such me,I can't take it anymore.I feel Like 1day I'm Goin 2 explode all the anger the sadness and the pain inside me.
So help me My Friends.Thx in Advance.
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well trust me im sure there are thousands of people that can relate to you, maybe you dont even know because there trying to hide that. try to reach out to people, not just one social clique but everyone. Be friendly, part of the problem is if you just give up nothing will happen. try to make friends, study, as for help for help from teachers on work, then it should go well from there. trust me if you just give up on yourself nothing will come easy, and it will make you feel nothing but worse on yourself. so try, and know that you are not the only one that feels that way. Because what you just said happend to me like last year or so. i felt alone, all i did was go on the internet and watch tv, my grades wernt the best. I felt alone and didnt have true friends and stuff, i felt like there was a space between my friends and i. but when i reached out to others and tried harder everything went more easy. Now i have pretty close friends, doing well in school, and think il have a bright future.
so dont give up on yourself, good luck
hope i helped =]
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Q: ok so 15/f/usa
So my cousin has this friend....and i recenly met his friend. ive talked to him before texting, but i ment him when my cousin had him over. it turns out he likes me alot. he's 18. he's afraid of the age difference...and because if we were to be in a relationship, he doesn't want my cousin..who are best friends, he doesn't want to ruin friend relationships. But I really like him. I got a chance to really connect with him yesterday. :] he said i have a shot, it's just that he wants to take it extremely slow. but i am so confused! i feel like i'm in a relationship and that we have something special togeter..we cuddled ok? and he feels bad, i have no idea what to do. cause i really really really like him. help?
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well with the age as long as you both have an understanding and respect, age doesnt really matter that much. i kind of see why theres some doubt with this, because your cousin's friend, and your cousin care about you very much and doesnt want to see anyone get hurt in this. Your cousin may feel weird because he will be afraid he may get left out, lose you and his friend, or get in the middle of things. your cousins friend may feel awkward with this because he doesnt want anyone left out, nor anyone hurt. I would try to take it slow, talk to both your cousin and cousins friend about this. you dont want things to get messy, make sure everyone is comfortable with this and is ready.
hope i helped =]
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Q: it's kind of along story but i'll try to make it quick...
when i was like 7-9 my dad was dating this chick and we were living with her and her son, me and him were great friends and he was my everything, he was like my superman, he'd fly in and protect me from my abusive sister and he was always there for me... then one day it all just stopped, i only saw him once after that like 3 years later, my dad and his mom broke up then my dad got involved in a ton of legal stuff... life was hectic.
but 7 years later (i'm 16 and he's 18) i ran into him through about 7 coincidental friendships, everyone just barely linked together.
so me and him went out for about a month, it was great, it was perfect, i was crazy about him and he was crazy about me... but then it just stopped... again (o i should mention tha the's always high, he's a pot head, like the worst pot head i've ever met he's never not high, i mention this because alot of my friends that i've dicussed this with think that this fact has alot to do with his behavor...o well back to the story)
through conected friends i heard that he stopped seeing me because i wouldn't "put out"... i couldn't belive it... then i saw hiom again at this party (which was at his new house... i was unaware of this at the time) but i got pretty drunk and we fooled around after everyone left, he wanted sex and i still didn't so we went to sleep, then in the morning i tried to leave without him noticing and he woke up and seemed like he was really hurt i'd try to leave without telling him... so we said our goodbyes and he told me to call him later that day (after i got off work) but here's the curious part, one of his bastfriends who i'm good friends with said that right after i left he called him adn he was all pissed off and i "blew my last chance" (like to get with him)
so i deleted his number from my phone and i decided never to talk to im again... but i can't stop thinking about him, it's been about 2 months since that day and i can't ever get him off my mind, he never calls i never call... i'm trying really hard to get over it, i've dated alot of other guys and i just can't stop wishing they were him or comparing them to him... how can i get over him? why can't i forget about him, i'm usually that person that doen't get involved with relationships and i don't get attached... but in a month he made more of an impact then this guy i was dating on and off for like 3 years... i really can't get him off my mind...
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okay well i think that maybe the reason you cant get over him is because he was a big impact in your life. He was there for you when you were a kid, and then you got together as you guys got older. I think that you may feel like you really do love him when you just might miss him being in your life, feeling like you lost a big part of something in your life. Also what may be the problem is you never wanted it to end the way it did. If you really do want to call him as a friend, or just try to think more and sort your feelings out, do you really like him(dating way)? or do you just miss him being in your life?
hope i helped =]
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Q: So I've known this girl for about 8 years,
But never really got to know her until a couple months ago.
We started hanging out, and have become really good friends, but we both wan't to be more than just friends. The thing is, we are both a little hesitant to start 'dating' (we kinda skipped that one) because we don't want to make things awkward, and lose our friendship.
Let me mention that I'm 18, and have never had a girlfriend before. (so I really have no idea what I'm doing) I try to break a few barriers by putting my arm around her, holding hands, etc,
and she seems to enjoy that, but when I've talked to her about going further, she said the same thing.
On a somewhat related note, my dad's income just got reduced HUGELY, so now he wants to move 2,000 miles away from here, to try and find a better job.
So that's one more thing holding us back.
Pleeeease help me out, I'm going nuts!
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Well if you really do have feelings for this girl,and you think that she likes you back try to go for it while you can, so you wont regret it when you move. but if you are hesitant and not sure if you like her then i would just go with the flow and keep things the way they are. also if you are thinking about asking her out, dont worry to much about the future but maybe think if you want a long distance relationship with this girl
hope i helped and good luck :]
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Q: please im hanging out with this guy tonight and i know hes gonna try to makeout with me how do u make out with him? give me steps from when he puts his tongue in my mouth... please answer fast. :)
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okay well i asked my friend the exact same thing because she had her first make out too. she told me she was nervous, but it just comes naturally. And like what the others say there really arent steps. if you think about it and try to kiss him you may feel awkward, and thats not the way you want to remember thiss.
good luck and hope i helped :]
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Q: Ok, so I'm 16/m...
Yesterday I went to the movies with this girl I like. We were flirting and I'm 99.9% sure that she likes me. We've hung out a few times before and I was wondering if I should just ask her out already, or hang out with her again...
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well if you like her and you think she likes you back i would ask her out, but if your not sure i would hang out with her to make sure you really like her.
hope i helped and good luck :]
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Q: (16/m)
What do girls like to get as a gift?
(only girls answer!!!!!)
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it could be Jewelry(earrings,bracelets,necklaces etc), flowers, a small purse, this guy in my class gave his gf a mini vera bradly bag, even a stuffed animal, chocolates
hope i helped :]
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Q: im 15/m
theres some girl i realy like i have her in two of my classes but we dont talk, so can i like start talking to her?
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Of course you can. there is nothing wrong with being friendly right? so talk to her and just be yourself
hope i helped:]
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Q: hi im 14 and going out with my bf for about 6 months i like him a lot and things arr getting heavier weve made out and now he wants me to give him a handjob im not sure if i want to go that far yet like touching his penis should i just tell him that i dont want to sexual things yet?
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okay well if he really cares about you then he should understand that you arent ready or dont feel comfortable doing that stuff yet. So yes i think you should tell him how you feel. Remember dont do stuff that you arent ready for or comfortable doing just because that would make him happy, because later you might regret it.
hope everything works out :]
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Q: ok i am kevin burkett i am 13 years old me and my gf have been going out for 1 year and a half.
she has these two friends and they are guys they both like her and recently she told me she liked one of them but she still loved me and it took me a while to get over it cause this is not the first serious thing that has happend. and i am trying to get them to stop talking she want stop i have asked her multible times and she want give them up. she said they are her friends and that that she is not going to stop talking to them.
do you think that it is wrong for me to try to get her to stop talking to them?
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okay well i am 13/f and i think that you shouldnt really ask her to stop talking to them because they are her friends. just think of how you would react if she told you that you cant talk to your friends anymore. Give her some timee, and think that she did pick you and is going out with you not her friend.
hope everything works out :]
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Q: Ok.. Well, I like this girl see... She used to like me, but I'm not sure if she still does or not... Anyway. How do I know if she still likes me, WITHOUT asking her? I mean, I think I MIGHT be inlove with her but... I don't want to love her and her not love me back...
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flirt a little, and see how she reacts. Let her know that you have a good time around her, then soon ask her! i am a girl and i think i would be flattered if a guy had the guts to do that. But dont take it personally if she says no, some girls arent just ready or just likes you as a friend. But give her some time to think about it also.
hope this helps
and good luck :]
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Q: Theres this guy that tried to get with me last year, but I was "kinda" in a "relationship." haha
Anyways, he's a senior now, and im a sophomore, so there's kind of an age difference... Never been with a guy that much older than me.
Anyways, I kinda wanna hook up with him (butttt just like kissing not sex!!) because hes so hot hes so frickin hottt =]]
But I'm not really sure how to, because we don't have any classes (we had one last yearr) but yea so I don't see him so how could I get to hook up with him?!
THANKS!
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try to talk to him in the hallways if you pass him, or try to talk to him on aim or something. first i would kind of catch up before asking to hook up though
hope i helped and hope everything works out :]
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Q: everytime this guy that im really close with.. i guess bf/gf.. doesnt answer i always get extremely freaked out that something happened to him. to the point where im crying. and its always on the weekends when i try to talk to him (text or call) and he wont answer at all. and i dont know what to do.
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you probably react that way because you care about him so much. but in a relationship that you want to last, you have to trust the person, and give him a tiny bit of space. im sure he has a reasonable answer for not answering. what might help is to entertain yourself. hang out with some friends, watch a movie, go shopping. there is plenty to do. and make sure that you arent replacing your friends for your boyfriend.
hope everything works out :]
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Q: Hi 14/m i am a freshman in high school and my first day was today.I met this girl in my math class she just moved here from Australia and she is kinda shy so hasn't made many friends. And i like her and was wondering what i should do to impress her. I sit right next to her soo yeah we talk a lot. Girls, what do u like to talk about with guys and what gets u goin, (if you know what i mean ;)lol) Please help me, even f it's a simple answer. Thanks!!!
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Well i like guys that have a sense of humor, and make me smile. and when i talk they seem to take interest and look at me in the eyes sometimes. Also some girls like guys that could be silly but sensitive.
and on what to talk about, ask her questions about Australia, make little fun comments here and there, and just be yourself. Because some girls can sense when a guy is not being himself, and also if you act like someone you are not, she might not be interested in the person you are trying to be other then just being yourself.
hope everything works out :]
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Q: I used to like this guy. But he came off as to jerky for me. But now i am curious if he liked me back.
He points out stupid imperfections about me like my forehead is big.
He tripped me.(idk if it was "playful" or not)
He throws things at me.(pencils,erasers ect.)
When we sit next to eachother he puts his hand on my leg till i move it.
Yells at me all the time
Calls me by a name i absolutly hate(not like bitch or anything it a name like gurtrude or something like that)
Makes an effort to be by me if i am standing up.
Only leaves if i tell him to(when he stands next to me)other wise he follows me around.
Walks up to me makes some rude coment like you look frumpy today and then walk away.
So does this guy like me?
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well it sounds like he is into you. flirt with him, then see what happens
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Q: what would a good song be to show a person that you love them but not going out. and like that you always want to have them and stuff like that thanks
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Youve got a friend
Umbrella
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Q: any tips on how to get over a girl? not just any girl, the best girl ever. she was seriousely amazing... thanks :D
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i understand it might be tough but think if she got over it and is moving on so could you, also think of the advantages of the break up including being able to flirt with other girls again, and try going out again if you want.
hope everything works out :]
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Q: So I really really like this girl, but she has me eating out of her hand. I can't stop, she's a master of manipulation. Or maybe I'm just nuts about her. Any thoughts that could help me out?
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okay well its good if you know that she is taking advantage of you, so you could figure out a way to stop. Dont let her take advantage of you and walk all over you, Tell her that if this relationship is going to continue "we need a change. meaning no taking advantage of me. we will both treat each other equally," etc. and try not to be to available and dont look desperate or anything.
hope everything works out :]
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Q: 14/f
I seem to have a problem, I always like guys that aren't available. Sometimes I fall hard, and then get really depressed because I know I can't have them.
A few times in the past, boys I've liked have asked me out, and before I've had time to think about it, I've said no. And after I think, what did I do that for?
And boys I've liked have chatted me up at parties and I've got away from them quickly. And I always regret it.
Now, I've been in love with this boy for the past 4 months. And he really is the most amazing boy I've ever met. He seemed to be in a really serious relationship with his girlfriend and I'd cry all the time because of it.
A few days ago he told me he likes me as more than a friend, and I was ecstatically happy. Although I didn't think anything would happen for quite a long time because of his relationship with his girlfriend.
But then he said he's not sure what's going on with them at the moment, and recently has been talking about breaking up with her, although he's not sure. And his best mate keeps making comments that make it sound as if it's because he wants to be with someone else.
And suddenly I feel like I'm in a panic, and I don't feel as happy and I feel quite worried.
And I don't know why, I mean, I've wanted this for months now, right?
Yet I can't help it, it seems as soon as someone starts to like me, I pull away.
Do you have any idea why I do this? Is it to do with commitment? And how can I stop it?
Thanks in advance, sorry it was long, xxx
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You probably just get nervous, it might be with commitment but it also might be your nervous what is going to happen next, and your afraid to figure it out. so like i said i think the reason you pull away is because you can get nervous without even realizing it. What might help is to think of all the advantages, and just try to take a little time to think before you say something to make sure thats what you want to say.
hope i helped :]
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Q: what can make your boobs grow cup sizes without being drugged,being in surgery,or die??
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i dont think anything. but if you eat healthy your body grows and so that might help. :]
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bio
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hi, my name is emily i am 14 years old and in 8th grade
i love hanging out with my friends,good with little kids, shopping,boys, cheerleading, dancing, music, fashion, eating haha, and giving advice :]
I also really enjoy going to my beach house, especially when i bring my 3 bffs.
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Gender: Female Age: 13 Member Since: July 11, 2007 Answers: 105 Last Update: August 19, 2008 Visitors: 7598
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