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confusing relationship!
ok so 15/f/usa
So my cousin has this friend....and i recenly met his friend. ive talked to him before texting, but i ment him when my cousin had him over. it turns out he likes me alot. he's 18. he's afraid of the age difference...and because if we were to be in a relationship, he doesn't want my cousin..who are best friends, he doesn't want to ruin friend relationships. But I really like him. I got a chance to really connect with him yesterday. :] he said i have a shot, it's just that he wants to take it extremely slow. but i am so confused! i feel like i'm in a relationship and that we have something special togeter..we cuddled ok? and he feels bad, i have no idea what to do. cause i really really really like him. help?
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well with the age as long as you both have an understanding and respect, age doesnt really matter that much. i kind of see why theres some doubt with this, because your cousin's friend, and your cousin care about you very much and doesnt want to see anyone get hurt in this. Your cousin may feel weird because he will be afraid he may get left out, lose you and his friend, or get in the middle of things. your cousins friend may feel awkward with this because he doesnt want anyone left out, nor anyone hurt. I would try to take it slow, talk to both your cousin and cousins friend about this. you dont want things to get messy, make sure everyone is comfortable with this and is ready.
hope i helped =]
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It looks to me like you two have a lot of talking to do. To be honest, the age difference isn't so bad. The only thing you would have to look into is the laws on sex, age of consent, etc for your state. Three years really isn't that big of a difference.
Still, it seems like he doesn't feel the same - he still feels nervous about dating you. Talk to him about it, so that you guys can sort out the issues and get together =)
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