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getting over a girl
any tips on how to get over a girl? not just any girl, the best girl ever. she was seriousely amazing... thanks :D
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i understand it might be tough but think if she got over it and is moving on so could you, also think of the advantages of the break up including being able to flirt with other girls again, and try going out again if you want.
hope everything works out :]
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Well, I know it'll be hard, but first off all, you need to stop yourself being reminded of her. This might sound silly, but get a shoebox or something similar, and put everything that reminds you of her in there. This way you'll have memories to look back on, but won't be constantly reminded of her. Also, try to stop accidentally bumping into her and hanging out. If you don't see her much you'll start to accept that it's over.
Now, this will be really upsetting, but if you're ever gonna get over her, you need to feel sad about it and really think it through first. Remember all the good things you did together and all the things you liked about her. It may feel horrible, but you need to do this if you're ever gonna let her go. If not, you're just going to be covering up your feelings. Spend some time alone, thinking about when you met and how she made you feel.
After this, you need to stop mourning. Talk to your friends about it, and also make sure you arrange tons of things to do with your friends and have a good time with them.
If you're still wondering about anything, like why you've broken up or she didn't feel the same way (I don't know whether you were an item or not), write a letter to her, but DON'T send it. Screw it up after you've written it, because just writing it will make you feel better.
After this, be positive, think of things you want to achieve, and go do them.
Sorry it was long, and maybe seemed a bit silly. But trust me, it should help.
xxx
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ermm..just try the out of sight out of mind technique **try to avoid places where you might see her, or places you both spent time together, try not to think about her too much or the things you did, try keep yourself occuppied with other stuff, it will take time, but hopefully you will get there.
...OR, try thinking about the things you really really hated about her, if there were any at all.
hopefully you'll find someone much better to make you forget about every one else.
takecare
RATZY
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