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ok i'm not freaking out or anything i just cant really tell if this guy likes me because my friends keep saying he does but they have never even met him and ok his name is Kyle and i met him in my summer school study skills class and i had to sit next to him first reason my friends thinks he likes me he would talk to me alot i didnt know anyone in that class but then he started talking to me and yeah then another reason is that he just talks to me alot and one time he came over and sat next to me and said i'm gonna sit next to you because your my friend then he always like does things to make me laugh and today he kept taking my pencil and wouldnt give it back to me and there's other reasons i just cant think of them right now but i dont know if he likes me or if he's just a guy (link)
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hah cute! It sounds to me like he likes you. guys try to talk to you alot when they like you that is a strong sign. and if he smiles alot at you :] I would say he does!!!
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I am a very jealous/protective type, the main reason is I have been hurt so much in the past. I am currently in a long distance relationship with an amazing guy who I love very much, and I know he has girlfriends and he has a flirt personality, I do also. But sometimes he will be online after he said hes gone to bed, he could of left his computer on to download music, but I know at one time he talked toa lot of girls on here, which bothers me. I know people have online buddies they talk to but is there any way I can get over this jealousy? He told me to think about it that if he had another girlfriend why would he want me to be down there all the time that he loves me and wants to be with me always. What should I do? (link)
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ok. you HAVE to have trust in the realationship otherwise its never going to work. trust me if he loves you he isn't cheating on you. don't worry about it, just think of how much he loves you and wants to be with you. don't let this jealousy thing drive him away! just think about it. hes yours! have some faith in him.!
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hi! ok.. this is my story.. wen i was lik in teh 6th grade i liked this boy.. lets call him Z. i really used to lik him.. and then i moved to a different town and didnt see him no more, when i moved i cried so much because i knew i wudnt see him no more. i was sad for leaving him. i kinda lost contact with him.. but i still found myself thinking about him once in a while.. but at that time i had another crush.. then recently.. (i just finished 8th grade..) i started talkin to him again on myspace and i hav a strange feeling that i never really got over him. & i think i still like him a litte bit at least. now this is where i.m confused..
im not sure if i like him at all because i like this other guy, lets call him A. and ive liked him for over a year now, & i definately lik him a lot more.. i know him too even tho. we aint really "friends-friends" < you know.. we aint really that "tight" but honestly think i love him.. even if people only think its a crush..
anywayz.. i used to be friends with Z and im not really friends with A. but i really love him. how do i kno if i still hav at least some feelings for Z even if i love A?
i.m sorry if i made this really long.. but i need to kno wat u think..
Thank You soooo much.. you have no idea how much this is gunna help me.. (link)
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ok I understand how you feel, it could be one of those things where you will always have feelings for Z. I mean sometimes thats just the way life is. I still have feelings for this kid I dated. and he treats me like crap. but deep down I will always have feelings for him. I think you shouldnt let your feelings for Z get in the way of how you feel for A. even if your not friends you can always try to get him to be friends, then later on maybe more. if you find yourself thinking about Z sometimes then you probably still have feelings for him.... and thats okay, just try to move on with life even if you do still have feelings. :]
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Now i like this boy lets call him Ryan and I like another boy lets call him Jay. They are both my best guy friends.
Now ryan is often mean to me and my friends say it is because he likes me. But i think he is too mean to like me. Let me give you an example:
I walk into class greeted by a pencil in the gut that flew across the room from ryan. Then i sit at my desk only to find that ryan has changed his seating just to sit by me,again. Then as we start work on our computers he sits on the one next to me(because thats our seating arangement) and am bagered by rude and inconsiderate comments and questions. But only when he is ONLY around me. At lunch he doesn't really talk to me. Does he like Me?
Now Jay. He is soooo nice! he always cares what i say and has good things to say about everyone. He is soooo shy also. I am like the only one he talks to besides Ryan(who is his BFF) and my BFF Rachel. Now he always asks how my day is and complains about our teachers(like every 8th grader does) and i listen then do the same. He is so nice to me, and i wonder if he likes me too...
Now i am just asking if you think any of these guys like me and if I should go for one of them.
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awww, I say go with the shy one.. the mean one sounds like trouble... I think the shy one could like you! if he talks to you then he is obviously comfortable around you which is always a good thing :] and if he asks how your day is and stuff that is always really sweet! I think you should look into him if you are interested in him like that :) try to flirt a little and see if it is returned! hope I helped you out
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ok well now Trevor (my ex bf) is being an ass.... but i love him alot.... we just broke up this morning and he ALREADY has a new gf!!! its really pissing me off! we r just friends but then just like an hour ago he said he still loves me but he loves his new gf too so its "hard" to choose between us..... should i just get over him or just wait 4 his answer on who he loves more? (link)
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well it all depends on if you still want him? thats really lame that he got a new girlfriend ... but if you dumped him it should piss you off that much... if you still like him then tell him you want him back.. while he still has feelings if you wiat to long he will move on... so if you like him . tell him that. if not then move on.
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ok hi im jenny
im 15 years old and i have been having a terrible 5 months.
ok so i dated this kid who is 2 years older than me for 2 years. He also lives across the street from me. I also would like to believe that we were in love once or so I thought. He really seemed to love me and i sure as hell loved him. Then after about a year and a half of dating i felt like i was kind of getting tired of him and so were my friends, so i broke it off. I dated another guy that was his age and it made him terribly jealous. He would still call me every night and I would talk to him. Every night he would tell me he loved me, even when i was dating someone else. But the bad part about that was i told him "i love you" back, because I really did. Your probably wondering why I did'nt just break up with the boyfriend I had then and go back to dating the one that I really loved. Well, I thought he wouldn't take me back and that he was just messing with me. So I dated that one guy for a few months making my ex jealous and then I finally broke it off. When i told the guy that i like that I broke up with that one guy he seemed happy, but that was it. After that we didn't hangout as much as I would have liked to and he didn't call me every night like he used to. I was so depressed. We kept talking occasionally and sometimes we would hangout, but rarley. Then one night I was going to introuduce my friend to him so we went outside and met up. He was acting VERY strange..he didn't give me a hug or even say hi to me, he was in a terrible mood. So my friend and I were not going to stand for it so we went back inside. I was SO MAD! I stayed up all night waiting for him to call me, but he never did. Then the next day he called, but being stubborn I did not answer thinking that i would call him back later. And yes i did call him back way later that night, but no answer. I kept trying and he never answered, so then i knew something was wrong. Now on this very day I still love him and want him back, and it has been 4-5 months. Oh by the way he has a new girlfriend that he is in LOVE with and he wont talk or even look at me. I REALLY NEED ADVICE and im sorry if this is confusing or too long but please read it all.. i want advice. just answer me back or email me if you have any questions. BUT PLEASE DONT TELL ME TO MOVE ON..TRUST ME I HAVE BEEN TRYING BUT HE LIVES RIGHT ACROSS THE STREET I SEE HIM EVERY DAY! (link)
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oh :[ that makes me so sad to hear, I know how you feel, its so hard to stop loving someone like that. I never did. sometimes someone can be so mean to you and you still love them.. why? well thats just how it its. I understand how special he is to you, I really do... it must be hell to see him every day.. that is so hard. well I think the only way to really solve the problem is by talking to him... you have to make him. find a way. call him non-stop go knock on his door, write him a letter, somehow you need to get him to listen to him, and when he does you need to express all the feelings you still hold for him. I know how hard it is to move on. so I think you should talk to him and try to get some kind of understanding, even if you don't have a dating relationship with him, any relationship is better then what your dealing with. so I think you need to attempt to gain back some of what you lost :] im really sorry, I hope I helped you and I really hope things work out for you. let me know if you need any more advice
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hello there , i have this big problem! ok there is this boy and we have been "talking" If you no what i mean . and well he says he likes me and i really like him , but i jsut found out he goes out with this other girl and i dont no what to do! so i really what to know what i should do please help me ! thank you (link)
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well if he said he likes you but hes going out with another girl.. thats weird? is she his girlfriend or do they just sometimes go out? he might be dating her, but secretly likes you more.. so just play it cool and find out if there "happily together" don't make a move on him if he has a girlfriend, just wait and see what he does first :]
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you know how guys always call their girlfriend "my girl"?
well what would girls call their boyfriends,besides "my guy" because thats dumb (link)
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when I was dating my boyfriend I always refered to him as "my boy" it was cute, and my friends would always be like oh so hows your boy, it was really cute to me :)
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well theres this tottly hot guy that is in my class. i know he knowws who i am kuz he has my myspace cnad everything. but how do i get him to notice me as more than just some girl?? (link)
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talk to him!!!! I know its kinda hard but just strike up casual conversations, say Hi to him, smile at him, let him know your interested, be kinda flirty but not way flirty. talking is the key, let him get to know you so you can start something :]
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oka i like my friend brother and well he just found out that i like him and well usaully i go over her house to hang out and stuff and this week im going over there but her brother is goin to be there and i dont know what to do.I mean he knows i like him and stuff and i just wanna know should i play it cool or what.(and by the way he his very flirtation).Or should i wait to see what he gonna do. please help! (link)
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If I were you, I would play it cool until I see what he does first. If he starts to flirt, then follow his lead and flirt back a little bit. don't make it like super obvious you like him, even if he does know. just act normal, be yourself and follow his lead :)
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im perty sure this question is probably asked alot but im just gonna ask 1more time! im 14(and a half lol) and hes 18.he gonna be a senior and im gonna be a freshman.i like him and he likes me.i wanna go with him but if i do he told me not to tell anybody cus it might be illegal!is it illegal to be with him?!? or is it only illegl if we participate in sexual acts?i just really dont want to get him in trouble if it is illegal! (link)
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no its not illegal at all for you and him to date! im not sure about the sex thing.... but im sure its not illegal for you two to date :)
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ok
so i finally got up the courage to ask this girl i've known for a while out, and she said yes!
so we're gonna go see a movie next weekend- she had to babysit all day friday and i left town for the weekend friday afternoon- and now i just am not realy sure what i should do...i think we're going to see the new Harry Potter film...but what do i do? do i put my arm around her? do i hold her hand? do i buy her ticket? i'm kinda confused...i don't have a whole lot of experience with the whole dating thing- i've only ever had one girlfriend before and she was kidna a slut and did whatever- but this girl's not like that, she's beautiful and has an amazing personality...
so what do i do? my brother keeps telling me i'm past the hard part (asking her out)...now i'm just worried i'll screw up on the first date...
thanks
S
btw 15/m and she's 15 (link)
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ok well first, definetly pay for her to get in. sorry it sucks for guys but its just the way it is. then, I think it would be really cute to hold her hand :) if it was me on a first date I would be uncomfortalbe with the guy wraping his arms around me, but if her had is availalbe... don't be afraid to take it :) I think its cute
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I love my girlfriend very much..... I need to know how wrong i was here
There was this other girl that i was very good friends with that recently lost her boyfriend i left a comment on her myspace saying "hey dont worry ur hot u'll find another boyfriend in no time"
My girlfriend saw this and got very mad at me...I told her that it was nothing and i was just being a friend and trying to make her feel better. my girlfriend didnt believe me and said "u need to comment her physically to make her happy??"
Next I posted some bulletin on myspace it was some application thing for girls to be my girlfriend. I was trying to be cute with my girlfriend i wanted her and only her to answer it...but this girl who i commented also answered it...saying that she wants to do stuff with me...I ignored it and my girlfriend asked if this girl replied I lied and sed no...I didnt want my girlfriend to get upset I didnt want to hurt her...my girlfriend found out and almost broke up with me because I lied and she thought something might be going on btwn me and this girl....I DONT WANT THAT!!!! How wrong was I? Did my gf overreact?
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I think she did. alot. I think that she needs to have more faith in you! I do think she over reacted, its no big deal, shes just a bit jelous, just tell her that, and tell her why you didn't tell her. explain yourself she should understand :) good luck
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The guy I like told me he liked my friend, but after he told me that we just sat there talking for like an hour. Him and my other friend, c, went to the locker rooms with me, but waited outside, i told them not to leave, c left, but he stayed and waited. He has to walk home after Jr. guards every day, but he stayed an extra hour after with me while I was waiting for my swim practice to start, but I'm not sure if he was there for me or for my friend, but when he heard me say, bye to everyone else, he turned and asked me if I was going, I said yes, so he said ok, and said he was going to leave then. Before he left he said call me, and gave me his number. Do I have a chance or not? (link)
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I say you have a chance... that is really sweet of him to wait with you, and if he gives you his number... I say he wants to stay in contact. just don't rush it or get clingy or eagar... just play it cool, make a connection and let him choose his own path. and if your interesting maybe try letting him know? idk that might be rushing it. but definetly try it out and see how things go
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Me and my boyfriend have been going out like 1 or 2 weeks now and we're gonna make out and he's most likely gonna feel me up haha I'm okay with it and everything haha.BUT he said I can feel him "down" if I want to so if I have the courage tonight haha how would I go about doing this without putting my hands down his pants or anything ? I just wanna get him exited haha thnkx a million !! [p.s. no lectures please haha]
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ok well, that is hard, don't do anything you don't want to do. I would just stroke up and down his back maybe go a little lower if you feel like it. dont go down his pants but you can just touch him and stuff.
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im 15/f. never had a boyfriend or kiss :(. i feel like time is running out for me to just experiment. like i never got to go through that phase of a boyfriend for a week and then dump him. (not that i really wanted to.) i feel like by time i get a boyfriend, he'll be expecting more from me than i've experienced. im not going to let him pressure me into doing anything but im just saying. i really dont even know what im asking advice for, but i guess i just need help on how to cope with this situation? (link)
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ok I see your problem, I was worried too. I accually had never had a boyfriend until I was 15. and when I did it was ok. but the second boyfriend wanted alot more. I never even kissed the first one! but when the time came I just straight up told him I was unprepared. and I didnt know what I was doing. he just said he woud teach me haha, so you have no worries, the time will come when you learn these things. if you have a caring boyfriend you should trust him and he should wait and understand your situation and how you feel. he shouldnt expect more than you can handle and I think you should just be honest with him about it. I was. and it worked out ok. It was comforting to just let him know I had no idea what I was doing! :) it made me feel lame but.. it was better than embarassing myself :P
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Hey, i like your advice the most!!!! The boy that i like is at my bus stop at he always looks at me and then when i look at him he turns away.We've never talked before. So that might mean that he likes me right??? (link)
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oh haha well thank you, yea I think that if he is always looking that is a for sure sign he is thinking about it, you never now how much but he is thinking about it. next time smile at him :) and if he is smiling at you, that is a good thing! hehe good luck! tell me how it goes!
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I am seventeen years old. I am funny. I think im attractive. and ive only had one real relationship and it 6th grade to 9th grade. My longest relationship now is probably a little over a month. I dont know what i do. I start talking to a guy and a week or two later they are sick of me. In this month, i have had my heart broken 3 times. it wasnt anything bad but it still hurt bcuz everytime i think i do something wrong.. what is something that i can do to make guys want to stay with me and love me? I want a long relationship and i want love. how can i get it? (link)
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I think maybe you are to clingy.... I think the more you keep wanting to talk to them and be with them every second the more it pushes them away.. thats what happend to me at least. so I think when you start liking a guy, just chill out a bit and don't always try to be there or talking to him. make it seem like your availible tho but don't be so persistant with talking to him. just try to act normal and not like a girl with a crush. and if your with they guy. dont be to clingy. its hard but the relationship will last longer if your not always right there. just try it out and see how it goes
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So, like, my girlfriend broke up with me like 6 months ago. And I actually cannot get her off my mind. I mean, I think I actually still really like her which is all the worse because she doesn't want anything to do with me. We used to be friends before we went out and I really liked her for a fair few months before anything was said. So its like I went from having this fairly good friendship to a relationship to nothing. And, well, it still hurts.
I mean, I know why she broke up with me and everything, and her points are pretty fair (I was too clingy i suppose is the best way to describe it). But I only acted the way I did because, in a typically manly and ironic thing to do, I didn't want to lose what I had waited so long to get. I really cared about her, infact I still do. And given the choice I would go back and change what I did. But thats not going to happen, so I have to deal with it.
Now, your first thought might be 'wow, this guys pathetic'. Well, I don't have a particularly high opinion of myself either. But I was just wondering if anyone had any advice for what I can do?
And trust me, I have heard everything about it taking time, but 6 months and counting is far too long to wait in my opinion.
I mean, I really want to tell her how I still feel, but the thing is I havent spoken to her in literally 2 months and a random message from me detailing how I feel won't go down well I fear.
Because the thing at the bottom is telling me to, i'm 17/m and she is 17/f (duh)
Any help would be appreciated
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the same thing happend to me.. Im a girl and I was too clingy to. and before we started dating we promised we wouldn't let it ruin our friendship but it did. I still kinda talk to him but it seems like he doens't want anything to do with me. and it sucks becaues I really loved him. and I still do even after everything.. I think you should just try to let it to. things don't last forever. I had a really hard time forgetting about it... but things have gotten better. I still think about him often... but sometimes you just have accept it. and if you really can't take it. maybe ask her if you guys can talk but don't seem to eager... ask for just friendship if anything. I know its hard but sometimes you have to let go.
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Does anybody know any signs that a guy might show if he likes you? Like a guy that you havent ever talked to? (link)
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guys tend to stare alot. and if You say Hi or something they smile, its really cute, they just look at you alot, if you catch them its funny because they look away :) but they just can't help it.
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